Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Me and ice don't mix well together. Cute idea though. Drop is salsa classes sound interesting but, again, I want to look good tonight! Though, for some odd reason, your post reminded me that bowling is an option.. hmmm.. thanks for the suggestions
Bowling would be good too. I think that a first date is a good way to get to know someone... and when you are open (if you suck at ice skating) with that person, they will like you more because you are sharing with them something about you. Plus, competitive things like bowling or video games at an arcade is good too! What about pool or darts?
I'm all for being vulnerable and honest, I just have never skated in my life and the one time I attempted I sprained something. So it would be me sitting on the sidelines while someone else hits on her
Pool sounds good but billiards halls are surprisingly expensive in the city. Bars have tables but i don't think she can get into one. She's 22, looks 16, and has no id.
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
GOOD surprises... not gross ones.
What are you implying???!! Meanie!
Nah, I'm not into rape - at least on the first date.
Top of the Rock
ouch, $17.50 each though.
I still like my museum idea, you get to chat and walk around together. price depends on the place.
ouch, $17.50 each though.
I still like my museum idea, you get to chat and walk around together. price depends on the place.
Maybe MoMa, actually. OK, I'll start with the arcade (ESPN zone, I don't think they card so we may be able to get some drinks) and then move to a museum.
Update
Went very well, actually. We met at times square to play video games but she made a face at the suggestion - I took the hint and went to a dive that I thought would be pretty lax on IDing. Had a lot of drinks and ran into random friends, which made me look far cooler than I am. Got pretty tipsy and went out to dinner followed by a movie. Normally a bad idea but we were already 3 hours into a date and got a lot of the getting to know you conversation out of the way. Ended up makign out during "The Queen" (odd choice but it was the only movie that started at a decent time - was actually really good) and then she said "you know, I like you". She told me to give her a call after she gets back from her spring break trip and, welps, I shall.
Seriously, I could really use the money. If you'd like to come to nyc I'll introduce you to some of my exs. Yes, I'm that guy who's still good friends with most of the women he's slept with.
irishScott
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sigh.. i dated one girl from highschool until 2 years ago, dated (short term) about 2 dozen girls since then, slept with 10 or so of them and had 3+ month relationships with 2.
I highly doubt that from all your clueless women posts. If you could really get pus, you wouldn't need to go on okcupid. Case rested.
i have a low self esteem but am witty so first dates aren't a problem.. 3rd dates aren't a problem. now 5th or 6th.. that's when i run out of things to say and end up fvcking things up.
seriously, and they weren't even good friends - one was a cute friend of my old roommate and the other was a guy i used to work with. it still makes me seem more popular that i am.
S Freud
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I really doubt that you have ever been laid. There is no way that someone who has to ask for such lame advice as to what to say/do/talk about on a date could ever even muster the courage to talk to a girl without advice. I think you are full of crap and lack any social skills what so ever.
How do you run out of things to say? I don't know exactly how you define "witty", but hopefully by the 6th date you can find real topics of conversation and don't have to sit there trying to actively think of "witty" things to try and impress her.
I didn't say it went great, it took me a long time to make a move and she was tired by the end of the night when I still wanted to go drinking (she works a 9 to 5 and I don't have to be up until 11). BUT we had a long kiss goodnight and she asked me to call her again, so it went well enough. My hands also ventured where it shouldn't have and she didn't stop me, so I think there's an attraction there, I just didn't want to press for an invite to her place or vice versa. She's a good girl, she would have rejected me anyways.
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