YAGT: Did I fall into the friend zone?

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pclstyle

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you've been "going out with this girl for three weeks" and you're not sure if you're in the friend zone?

weak sh!t, man.
 

spaceman

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Originally posted by: davew0670
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I have been going out with this girl for the last three weeks. I usually ask her to do something one day on the weekend and she always says yes. I asked her to come over friday night to hang out and she said of course she would like to. I am not sure if I have fallen into the friend zone or not. Any ideas?

Tri

she probably thinks youre a pole smoker since you havent tried anything in 3 weeks. all is lost. move along

QFT
LMAO
 

anxi80

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doomed. you had your chance to bang her like a salvation army drum. all is lost now. thanks for playing and dont forget to collect your door prizes on the way out.
 

astralusion

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okay i dont' think you're doomed...first off how long have you known this girl from before this...second does she even know your dating or are you just hanign out at your house...try asking her out on an actual date type activity...you don't have to get physical for her to know that you are interested, but just hanging out isn't going to get the message across a lot of time...
 

Triforceofcourage

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Originally posted by: astralusion
okay i dont' think you're doomed...first off how long have you known this girl from before this...second does she even know your dating or are you just hanign out at your house...try asking her out on an actual date type activity...you don't have to get physical for her to know that you are interested, but just hanging out isn't going to get the message across a lot of time...

All of the times we have went out they were date type activities. I figure inviting a girl over on a Friday night gets the message across that I am interested :)
 

astralusion

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then i figure you're fine...people here are just too negative...and there is no need to whip it out
 

Nebor

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Originally posted by: davew0670
Originally posted by: Triforceofcourage
I have been going out with this girl for the last three weeks. I usually ask her to do something one day on the weekend and she always says yes. I asked her to come over friday night to hang out and she said of course she would like to. I am not sure if I have fallen into the friend zone or not. Any ideas?

Tri

she probably thinks youre a pole smoker since you havent tried anything in 3 weeks. all is lost. move along

Agreed. You might look into smoking pole.
 

Bryophyte

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"Date type activities"? Did she kiss you? Hold hands?

I hate to break it to you, but girls usually decide before you ever go out whether you'll just be a friend type of guy she'll want to hang out with, or if she is attracted to you enough to "date". If she isn't showing some distinct signs of interest in you from the first, then you're just a friend she likes to hang with. Do you consider it a "date" when you take a male friend to the movies? Of course not, it's just "hanging out".
 

jjones

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You didn't fall into the friends zone, you walked right into it intentionally. Have fun not getting laid, ever.
 

Pepsei

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here's what you do, next time, rub extra virgin olive oil all over her body, see if she gets the message.
 

Lonyo

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Originally posted by: Pepsei
here's what you do, next time, rub extra virgin olive oil all over her body, see if she gets the message.

That he's an extra virgin?