YAGT: Did I do the right thing?

[crisp82]

You tried the civil way. It didn't work. Drastic action required

 

[The Stigenator]

yes you did the right thing.. that distance will make things better.. you can talk to her and see her.. but eventually you guys will or will not get back.

but what it will do is to make you guys realise things.. she may realise living together maynot be the best.. etc etc.

plus dating a nag (when it starts being asked every other day its a nag) can be a pain.. so enjoy the fact your not being nagged.

 

[TheCorm]

She was pushing you too far....what else could you do? There was just too much pressure there. If you do care for her though maybe you will be able to re-start things after some time....and maybe just maybe she might not nag you about moving in anymore until you tell her that you're ready.

 

[theplanb]

follow your heart, and if it did, then you probably was right.

 

[79Blazer]

I would have been rude, but you did the right thing. When someone keeps asking me the same thing every other day, and the answer has been the same... I usually say "Can you please take the sh!t out of your ears? The answer has been the same every other time you've asked, perhaps you need hearing aids?" But at least you were nice about it, heh.

 

[Aharami]

i think u did the right thing.

 

[TheAudit]

Why didn't you want her to move in with you?

 

[Ryan]

Leave a dead animal in your living room - she definitely won't want to move in 😉 If that's too drastic - poop on the toilet seat 😉

j/k - RBloedow does not advocate any of the techniques posted in this thread, they are used strictly for their entertainment value.

 

[dirtboy]

I hate how women guilt their way into getting what they want. Of course you did the right thing. You weren't ready and she wouldn't listen.

 

[Geekbabe]

you did the right thing,she's now free to go out,date and find somebody who wants the same level of commitment that she does.

 

[Encryptic]

Yes, you did the right thing. Good for you for standing up for yourself and not giving in. Hope it works out for the best eventually, but at lease you didn't make a possibly big mistake at this point.

 

[Scarpozzi]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
you did the right thing,she's now free to go out,date and find somebody who wants the same level of commitment that she does.

We both have strong feelings for each other. I don't plan on going out and dating other people. I just want to make a point and this is the only thing I can do to force separation and help her see things from another perspective. It was so hard for me to do it....I've never had that much trouble breaking up with someone before. I do intend on getting back together with her soon. I just don't know how long it will take for me to do the things I need to do and write down new rules if we do start back together as a couple. She is starting college in Jan so I know she'll be busy with that too....that should help things a little. I'm just almost finished with college so I'm waste-deep in work/school responsibilities and never get time to myself...thus my impatience to spend too much time on a relationship right now.

 

[Ernieb]

just came to my mind that, there ever be a YAGT? yet another guy thread?
🙂