YAGT: Damn exgf!

[MaxDepth]

Doood, duck!


Wow, the thing is try to hang with some folks at your own age. Sure, you won't be getting free beer anymore (for the next 2 years - me shuddering) but ya need to ignore the scab instead of picking at it.

Don't talk to the mutual friends unless they call you. Then tell them you don't want to force them to choose between you and her, but that you want to go on with a healthy relationship and lifestyle without her. Tell them you'll always will be there for them if they want to come back - but not dragging your ex gf along.


other than that,


LOOK OUT SHE'S GOT A GUN!



j/k

 

[Jugernot]

Originally posted by: Spooner
How do you meet a 32 year old?

college class... Advanced Photoshop if I remember correctly.

 

[Booster]

Yeah I know this nazi type of a woman. It can be difficult to get along with her, but it will be even worse if you break the relationship.

 

[Jugernot]

Ahhh, one last tidbit. I'm going to be taking her to court here pretty soon. I let her borrow the downpayment for her new house with an agreement that she would pay me back at $150 per month. It's been 6 months since I gave her the money and she still hasn't givem me a cent. Her sister says she probably don't pay me back voluntarily.

So, most likely I'm going to take her to small claims court.

You know, the more I think about it. The more I am getting a little scared of what she might do...

 

[Underground727]

Originally posted by: Jugernot
Ohh I forgot one more tidbit. Her sister told me that she purchased a handgun recently with a conseal carry permit. They don't talk anymore because her sister and son still talk to me.

I looked on her weblog and sure enough, she bought a Taurus 357 magnum long barrel pistol.

I'm thinking of call the cops and getting a restraining order "just in case" but I figured that if she decided to shoot me or something, that wouldn't stop her. I'm not really scared because.... well... I'm not one to get worried about that sort of thing.

Anyway, I'm just frustrated is all.

Better get a gun and at least a level 3 vest to protect your ass from those 357 rounds.

 

[Underground727]

Oh, and pics?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Jugernot
Actually... I would like some advice from you guys.

She is currently on VA disability and recieved SS every month. She was put out of the Air Force because of the Bipolar and a joint disease. One condition of her VA is that she visits a Psycitrist once a week. Well long story short, she stopped going early last year. She said because her psych only wanted to talk about our relationship failing. She said that she didn't want to talk about it. Though I know for a fact the way she fixates on stuff, that is probably all she unconsciously talked about with him.

Anyway, due to the recent events of her purchasing a gun and having a past of phsycial violence with her partners, should I turn her in? Normally it wouldn't be a problem as I'd do it in a heart beat, BUT she just bought a house. if she looses her VA funding, she won't be able to make her house payments and she'll loose all the money that she has put into the house.

It's a hard decision for me to make....

Holy SH!T. Ignore my prior jovial attitude regarding this woman. Go to the cops. Now.

How the fvck did a bipolar woman with a prior history of violence get cleared for a Taurus 357 and a CCP? I would seriously consider personal protection at this point.

- M4H

 

[Jugernot]

No pics, after all the $hit I've said on here, I'd rather no one knew who she was.

 

[mrCide]

Originally posted by: Underground727

Originally posted by: mrCide
my ex of 3 years is still not over me

your so cool dude

how can i be like you?

you can't. sorry

 

[Aceshigh]

Sounds like she felt very strongly about you. She's obviously going through alot of pain now. It's a hell of alot easier to dump someone than it is to be dumped. It can be very devastating.

On top of that you did it by email? That a very despicable way of handling it. That was a very asshole thing to do and it's no wonder she has turned your friend against you.

 

[narzy]

Originally posted by: Underground727

Originally posted by: Jugernot
Ohh I forgot one more tidbit. Her sister told me that she purchased a handgun recently with a conseal carry permit. They don't talk anymore because her sister and son still talk to me.

I looked on her weblog and sure enough, she bought a Taurus 357 magnum long barrel pistol.

I'm thinking of call the cops and getting a restraining order "just in case" but I figured that if she decided to shoot me or something, that wouldn't stop her. I'm not really scared because.... well... I'm not one to get worried about that sort of thing.

Anyway, I'm just frustrated is all.

Better get a gun and at least a level 3 vest to protect your ass from those 357 rounds.

my thoughts exactly. got any friends on the swat team? used vest is better then no vest (used meaning shot a few times.)

BTW I'd turn her in to the VA and anyone else who would listen.

 

[Looney]

Taurus 357 magnum

LOL damn... she really knows her guns. And you can get a gun even if you're diagnosed with a mental disorder?

 

[Jugernot]

Originally posted by: Aceshigh
Sounds like she felt very strongly about you. She's obviously going through alot of pain now. It's a hell of alot easier to dump someone than it is to be dumped. It can be very devastating.

On top of that you did it by email? That a very despicable way of handling it. That was a very asshole thing to do and it's no wonder she has turned your friend against you.

I told her face to face before she left my place at our last fight too... obviously you didn't read my posts, as our relationship was aways on and off again. She didn't find out by email, I sent it to let her know I meant it.

 

[conjur]

Originally posted by: conjur
I think I'd be getting a restraining order.

I reiterate

 

[MithShrike]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Actually... I would like some advice from you guys.Holy SH!T. Ignore my prior jovial attitude regarding this woman. Go to the cops. Now.

How the fvck did a bipolar woman with a prior history of violence get cleared for a Taurus 357 and a CCP? I would seriously consider personal protection at this point.

- M4H

Well, they are in Alaska... I don't know the weapons laws there but I doubt they'd be as strict as CA's.

 

[Aceshigh]

Originally posted by: Jugernot

Originally posted by: Aceshigh
Sounds like she felt very strongly about you. She's obviously going through alot of pain now. It's a hell of alot easier to dump someone than it is to be dumped. It can be very devastating.

On top of that you did it by email? That a very despicable way of handling it. That was a very asshole thing to do and it's no wonder she has turned your friend against you.

I told her face to face before she left my place at our last fight too... obviously you didn't read my posts, as our relationship was aways on and off again. She didn't find out by email, I sent it to let her know I meant it.

Well, if that's the case then it's cool. I just read this and it sounded as if the actual break up was in email.

As for our history, here is a synopsis. Me 19, her 32. Got together on a semi-date.... two weeks later, I let me little head to the thinking and had sex. Lots of sex... she started revealing her true self. Became psychotically attached, we began seeing a relationship counsellor, she stops going. Things go even more downhill. I start showing my frustration by ignoring her and breaking up.... and getting back together... and breaking up. etc.

Finally, I was done, she had fu3ked me over too many times and messed with my mind too much. Hell, her only family doesn't even want to talk to her because of the guilt trips she lays. We faught one night, she left. I never spoke to her again after I wrote an email that night saying "We are done, you need professional help."

I've had it done to me by email before and I think it's one of the most disgusting things a person can do. Thats why I wrote what I wrote earlier.

 

[Jugernot]

Originally posted by: Mith

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Actually... I would like some advice from you guys.Holy SH!T. Ignore my prior jovial attitude regarding this woman. Go to the cops. Now.

How the fvck did a bipolar woman with a prior history of violence get cleared for a Taurus 357 and a CCP? I would seriously consider personal protection at this point.

- M4H

Well, they are in Alaska... I don't know the weapons laws there but I doubt they'd be as strict as CA's.

They aren't terrible strict here...

 

[PunDogg]

Originally posted by: DrPizza
She apparently can't deal with you having broken up with her....

Rekindle the romance... sex every night for a week, then start doing things to annoy her... leave the toilet seat up, hit on her best friends, etc. Eventually, she'll break up with YOU and you won't have to worry about it.

Added benefit... if she's got cute friends, and they say "yes"

thats the best explaintion i have ever heard, i would acutally try this out hehe

Dogg

 

[narzy]

Originally posted by: PunDogg

Originally posted by: DrPizza
She apparently can't deal with you having broken up with her....

Rekindle the romance... sex every night for a week, then start doing things to annoy her... leave the toilet seat up, hit on her best friends, etc. Eventually, she'll break up with YOU and you won't have to worry about it.

Added benefit... if she's got cute friends, and they say "yes"

thats the best explaintion i have ever heard, i would acutally try this out hehe

Dogg

she's got an F'n gun man! Ya she'll break up with you, by BLOWING YOUR F'N BRAINS OUT!

 

[her209]

WTF!? You knew she was messed up to begin with and you still went for it?

 

[zippy]

So your 'friends' turned against you? They aren't much of friends if they don't even want to hear your side of the story or anything.

 

[oLLie]

Originally posted by: Jugernot
Ahhh, one last tidbit. I'm going to be taking her to court here pretty soon. I let her borrow the downpayment for her new house with an agreement that she would pay me back at $150 per month. It's been 6 months since I gave her the money and she still hasn't givem me a cent. Her sister says she probably don't pay me back voluntarily.

So, most likely I'm going to take her to small claims court.

You know, the more I think about it. The more I am getting a little scared of what she might do...

Do you have that in writing? Or some proof?

 

[HorizonSeeker]

no matter where you are, the forms which you fill out for a firearm is an ATF form, meaning it's the same nationwide. on it, you must declared under penalty of perjury that you are mentally healthy. if you have concrete evidence, and I mean something you absolutely can back up, then you might consider something along the lines of reporting her. I'm not sure whom to, but if you and her live in the same jurisdiction, you might want to go to the poice chief/sheriff and report this. but ONLY if you have HARD EVIDENCE! A restraing order on the other hand, if issued, will make her unable to keep any firearm legally.

Bulletproof vest, don't buy "shot" ones, once they are shot, it's time to replace. Even old ones have broken down from sweat and UV light and should not be considered, but it is better than no vest. If you are really worried, buy a new one.

btw, taurus 357 magnum is a "revolver", the only 357 magnum "pistol" currently made is Desert Eagle, there were a few eccentric pistols made for this caliber which is primarily a revolver round, but they are out of business and only Desert Eagle is still alive.

 

[Que-TiP]

i have dibs on your car!!!

p.s. good luck

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: oLLie

Originally posted by: Jugernot
Ahhh, one last tidbit. I'm going to be taking her to court here pretty soon. I let her borrow the downpayment for her new house with an agreement that she would pay me back at $150 per month. It's been 6 months since I gave her the money and she still hasn't givem me a cent. Her sister says she probably don't pay me back voluntarily.

So, most likely I'm going to take her to small claims court.

You know, the more I think about it. The more I am getting a little scared of what she might do...

Do you have that in writing? Or some proof?

Damn, that sucks. It's my policy to not discuss how much I make or how much money I have (or dont' have...) in the bank. If she knows you have $XXXX, then she'll hit you up for a "loan." You'll never see a cent of that money unless you have a written agreement, and it was Notarized. Verbal agreements don't mean squat these days.