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The funny thing is, if you DID decide to give up hunting for her, she would surely lose respect for you anyway. You said you like her and wanted a relationship with her and she gave you the LJBF ("Let's just be friends"). Perhaps she gets a kick out of seeing what she can get you to do for her and controlling you.

Or maybe not. Either way, just do what you want and disregard her games.
 
Well, it may be that she knows that you like her, and she enjoys that power, and is trying to use this situation to reafirm her power. I know that sounds REALLY harsh, but it might be a subconcious thing. I think that sometimes, when people know they have a certain influence over your life, they tend to abuse it without really realizing what they are doing. Though this seems a little more obvious than that, it might be that type of situation.

You shouldn't have to stop hunting, which is important to you, for a person with whom who are not even in a serious relationship. I would suggest saying just that: "GirlX, we are not in a relationship, and I don't think that as a friend, you have that much influence over my life. I would not ask you to change something that you thought was so fundemental. Please think this through again."

hope that helps! 🙂
 
I don't do ultimatums

I would have went hunting as well. I don't hunt nor fish because I lack the patience for both, not that there is anything wrong with it. I love venison, squirrels, rabbits and fish
 
Originally posted by: Anghang
she's lame...not even in a relationship and already she's trying to change you...hehe...*boot to da curb*

Lynx01: "You're dumped."
PsychoGirl: "WTH? We're not even dating!"
Lynx01: "I know. This is just a preemptive dump, because you're obviously a controlling bitch."
PsychoGirl: *PMS rage*
Lynx01: "Hey, a wild boar!"

😀

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Anghang
she's lame...not even in a relationship and already she's trying to change you...hehe...*boot to da curb*

Lynx01: "You're dumped."
PsychoGirl: "WTH? We're not even dating!"
Lynx01: "I know. This is just a preemptive dump, because you're obviously a controlling bitch."
PsychoGirl: *PMS rage*
Lynx01: "Hey, a wild boar!"

😀

- M4H

I am really LOL at that one. Thanks for the laugh.

call her and talk to her.
I was thinking about it, but I don't have enough minutes to talk to her for an hour on my cellphone. All she's going to do is tell me how much she hates hunting and how I shouldn't do it. I may call her tonight and tell her if she wants to talk to come over and we'll talk (aka she can yell at me and i'll pretend to listen).

I don't hunt nor fish because I lack the patience for both
I don't have much patience either, but I do when I go hunting 🙂

huh?!? Isin't that's what he meant?!?! I did not read the whole thread, just did scroll all the way to the bottom.
Nope, hunting for animals. I'm always hunting for girls 😉
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Anghang
she's lame...not even in a relationship and already she's trying to change you...hehe...*boot to da curb*

Lynx01: "You're dumped."
PsychoGirl: "WTH? We're not even dating!"
Lynx01: "I know. This is just a preemptive dump, because you're obviously a controlling bitch."
PsychoGirl: *PMS rage*
Lynx01: "Hey, a wild boar!"

😀

- M4H

ROTFLMMFAO!!!!....😀😀😀😀😀

 
Well, we "talked". She is still trying to get me to quit hunting. We discussed it all, again, and I told her something she said last night really pissed me off and she wouldn't drop it after I told her I didn't want to discuss it.

I asked her if she was going to say anything else besides "tell me" and she said no, I can do this all night, and I said goodbye and got up and left.

She basically told me that she hates me when I go hunting, and she can't stand fighting about it anymore.
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I told her that it was a part of who I am and I can't give it up to please a friend, then she said "it's not who you are, it's just something you do". The whole discussion was pointless. She told me that she loves me so much, blah blah blah, but she hates me when I go hunting.

Then she went on to say that she would never answer an ultimatum, and I was like "so you expect me to?", and she said yes. What a joke.
 
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Well, we "talked". She is still trying to get me to quit hunting. We discussed it all, again, and I told her something she said last night really pissed me off and she wouldn't drop it after I told her I didn't want to discuss it. I asked her if she was going to say anything else besides "tell me" and she said no, I can do this all night, and I said goodbye and got up and left. She basically told me that she hates me when I go hunting, and she can't stand fighting about it anymore.
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I told her that it was a part of who I am and I can't give it up to please a friend, then she said "it's not who you are, it's just something you do". The whole discussion was pointless. She told me that she loves me so much, blah blah blah, but she hates me when I go hunting. Then she went on to say that she would never answer an ultimatum, and I was like "so you expect me to?", and she said yes. What a joke.

She just worried about your safety whenever you went hunting, after all, she did confess that she loves you so much. You have yourself a lover, congrats! OTOH, next time you going hunting, invite her along.
 
Originally posted by: SyahM
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Well, we "talked". She is still trying to get me to quit hunting. We discussed it all, again, and I told her something she said last night really pissed me off and she wouldn't drop it after I told her I didn't want to discuss it. I asked her if she was going to say anything else besides "tell me" and she said no, I can do this all night, and I said goodbye and got up and left. She basically told me that she hates me when I go hunting, and she can't stand fighting about it anymore.
rolleye.gif
I told her that it was a part of who I am and I can't give it up to please a friend, then she said "it's not who you are, it's just something you do". The whole discussion was pointless. She told me that she loves me so much, blah blah blah, but she hates me when I go hunting. Then she went on to say that she would never answer an ultimatum, and I was like "so you expect me to?", and she said yes. What a joke.

She just worried about your safety whenever you went hunting, after all, she did confess that she loves you so much. You have yourself a lover, congrats! OTOH, next time you going hunting, invite her along.

She told me if she saw me shoot an animal she would either:

A. Shoot me
B. Jump in front of the gun

She loves me as a friend.
rolleye.gif

Supposedly.
 
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Originally posted by: SyahM
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Well, we "talked". She is still trying to get me to quit hunting. We discussed it all, again, and I told her something she said last night really pissed me off and she wouldn't drop it after I told her I didn't want to discuss it. I asked her if she was going to say anything else besides "tell me" and she said no, I can do this all night, and I said goodbye and got up and left. She basically told me that she hates me when I go hunting, and she can't stand fighting about it anymore.
rolleye.gif
I told her that it was a part of who I am and I can't give it up to please a friend, then she said "it's not who you are, it's just something you do". The whole discussion was pointless. She told me that she loves me so much, blah blah blah, but she hates me when I go hunting. Then she went on to say that she would never answer an ultimatum, and I was like "so you expect me to?", and she said yes. What a joke.

She just worried about your safety whenever you went hunting, after all, she did confess that she loves you so much. You have yourself a lover, congrats! OTOH, next time you going hunting, invite her along.

She told me if she saw me shoot an animal she would either:

A. Shoot me
B. Jump in front of the gun

She loves me as a friend.
rolleye.gif

Supposedly.


Is she related to imtim83 or just daft?

 
Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Originally posted by: SyahM
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Well, we "talked". She is still trying to get me to quit hunting. We discussed it all, again, and I told her something she said last night really pissed me off and she wouldn't drop it after I told her I didn't want to discuss it. I asked her if she was going to say anything else besides "tell me" and she said no, I can do this all night, and I said goodbye and got up and left. She basically told me that she hates me when I go hunting, and she can't stand fighting about it anymore.
rolleye.gif
I told her that it was a part of who I am and I can't give it up to please a friend, then she said "it's not who you are, it's just something you do". The whole discussion was pointless. She told me that she loves me so much, blah blah blah, but she hates me when I go hunting. Then she went on to say that she would never answer an ultimatum, and I was like "so you expect me to?", and she said yes. What a joke.

She just worried about your safety whenever you went hunting, after all, she did confess that she loves you so much. You have yourself a lover, congrats! OTOH, next time you going hunting, invite her along.

She told me if she saw me shoot an animal she would either:

A. Shoot me
B. Jump in front of the gun

She loves me as a friend.
rolleye.gif

Supposedly.


Is she related to imtim83 or just daft?
Huh? 😕 Who are they?
 
Just a note here:

No way in hell would I let a women get infront of skiing (my equivalent to hunting). I made a mistake once and asked a girl out during the winter. It turned out that this one actually wanted a second date, and a third...
So later in the year, about a month down the line, she pulls this "You never want to hang out with me, all you want to do is ski. When can we see each other if oyu are on the mountain all the time?" Kinda of crap. Whoops, out the door she went. Sorry girl, if you cant accept that fact that I ski. I skied before you, I skied while I was with you, and now that you are gone I will continue to ski. See where I am going here? Only if she was like light of my life would I ever let anyone to get infront of my skiing.
 
Originally posted by: illusion88
Just a note here:

No way in hell would I let a women get infront of skiing (my equivalent to hunting). I made a mistake once and asked a girl out during the winter. It turned out that this one actually wanted a second date, and a third...
So later in the year, about a month down the line, she pulls this "You never want to hang out with me, all you want to do is ski. When can we see each other if oyu are on the mountain all the time?" Kinda of crap. Whoops, out the door she went. Sorry girl, if you cant accept that fact that I ski. I skied before you, I skied while I was with you, and now that you are gone I will continue to ski. See where I am going here? Only if she was like light of my life would I ever let anyone to get infront of my skiing.

Did she whip out the hypothetical situations on you? Like "If I were going to die if you didn't stop skiing, would you stop for me?" What a joke, how in the he11 is your skiing (hunting in my situation) going to cause her to die. Stupid hypothetical crap. I told her she needed to stop living in a fantasy world.
 
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Originally posted by: SyahM
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Well, we "talked". She is still trying to get me to quit hunting. We discussed it all, again, and I told her something she said last night really pissed me off and she wouldn't drop it after I told her I didn't want to discuss it. I asked her if she was going to say anything else besides "tell me" and she said no, I can do this all night, and I said goodbye and got up and left. She basically told me that she hates me when I go hunting, and she can't stand fighting about it anymore.
rolleye.gif
I told her that it was a part of who I am and I can't give it up to please a friend, then she said "it's not who you are, it's just something you do". The whole discussion was pointless. She told me that she loves me so much, blah blah blah, but she hates me when I go hunting. Then she went on to say that she would never answer an ultimatum, and I was like "so you expect me to?", and she said yes. What a joke.

She just worried about your safety whenever you went hunting, after all, she did confess that she loves you so much. You have yourself a lover, congrats! OTOH, next time you going hunting, invite her along.

She told me if she saw me shoot an animal she would either:

A. Shoot me
B. Jump in front of the gun

She loves me as a friend.
rolleye.gif

Supposedly.


Is she related to imtim83 or just daft?
Huh? 😕 Who are they?

itim83 in the resident board nutjob and daft is just an expression for stupid.

BTW, the girl is acting psycho especially with the "what if" scenarios. Kick her ass to the curb.

 
I think that's pretty much taken care of now Millennium.

How do I go about returning a pair of shoes to an AE store if I ordered them online? She asked me to order her a pair of shoes last week, and I did, but somehow I get this odd feeling that she's not going to come and get them when they get here. Do I need some kind of receipt to do it?
 
Well, I had statistics with her this morning, and she's definitely pissed 😀 She didn't say a word to me in class, and usually after class she comes in and sits in the cafeteria with me and my friends. Today she stomped out of the building, LOL.

Looks like i'm going to be stuck with those shoes :disgust:
 
Originally posted by: LyNx01
Well, I had statistics with her this morning, and she's definitely pissed 😀 She didn't say a word to me in class, and usually after class she comes in and sits in the cafeteria with me and my friends. Today she stomped out of the building, LOL.

Looks like i'm going to be stuck with those shoes :disgust:

*waits for the FS/FT post*

"FS: One pair AE shoes. Bought for bitch - never worn. Includes backstory and movie rights." 😀

Seriously, just keep living your life. She's not worth changing anything for.
Enjoy. 🙂

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: here4amission
does she drink??

Oh that's another thing, it's okay for her to go out and get drunk, but she gets pissed when I get drunk with my friends. I could see if we were in a relationship, but we're not
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Originally posted by: LyNx01
Well, I had statistics with her this morning, and she's definitely pissed 😀 She didn't say a word to me in class, and usually after class she comes in and sits in the cafeteria with me and my friends. Today she stomped out of the building, LOL.

Looks like i'm going to be stuck with those shoes :disgust:

if you can stuff dem coons, you should always bring them with you to lunch ... so if people asked about it... you can tell them the whole story and point her out.
 
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