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guapo337

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So I went to Scotland for two weeks, and I had an awesome time. On the trip with me was my ex-gf, as well as one of her really good friends (we'll call her Jane). Before the trip, I hooked up with the ex one night (we broke up last summer, dont ask why we hooked up. I dont know why) Before the trip, Jane disliked me, mainly for the "ex" thing. So me and Jane start hanging out a lot on the trip. The ex is not happy with that, and Jane and I both recognize that. I ask Jane why the ex would care, and Jane promptly replies that "friends arent supposed to be fraternize with the ex". Sounds like a typical teenage girl rule. Obviously, Jane and I could give a flying fvck. We didn't care. We kept talking and hanging out.

The trip lasted two weeks, and for about the last 11 days of the trip, Jane and I were talking and hanging out constantly. Now, I knew the whole time that Jane had a boyfriend. This wasnt a big deal to me, as nothing was going to be happening on the trip between us, because of ground rules set by chaperones, as well as the whole ex thing. However, I knew that she was not into her boyfriend at all. We talked a lot about that on the trip, and it became very clear to me that she was not interested in her boyfriend. She was interested in myself, and I in her.

We got back from Scotland on thursday, and we hung out with each other last night. During the afternoon, and the jealous ex and another one of Jane's friends went to Jane's boyfriend's workplace and presumably told him all about how we became really tight on the trip. Not cool. So anyways, we head out about 6:30, not really sure what's going to happen. We originally just planned to go drop off film from the trip, and we didnt know if we were going to do anything after. After we dropped of the film, we drove around a while, stopped at one of Jane's friends' house for a second, and then she dropped me off. The night with her ended at about 8:30 (started at about 6:30). During the span of two hours, the boyfriend called her 3 times. I repeat, THREE times. I found out from the ex that the boyfriend was going to my ex's that night just to hang out, because they're all friends. I told Jane, and she found that interesting.

The first call came at about 6:45. She told him who she was with, he said go to *the ex's* house. He obviously knew about me, as the ex had talked in jealousy. She said, "Yeah I'll be over sometime". So we kept driving, hanging out, whatever. Basically, we were killing time because she didnt want to go at all. So finally, at about 7:45, we get another phone call. The conversation is as follows:

Jane: Hello?
Boyfriend: Are you still with Guapo337?
Jane: Yeah...
Boyfriend: When are you going to get here?
Jane: I dont know? Soon? I need to go.
Boyfriend: Bye
Jane: Bye

About 5 minutes later, she recieves the third call:

Jane: Hello?
Boyfriend: I just wanted to let you know I need to be home by 11 tonight
Jane: Okay. Bye.

So she drops me off, and heads to *the ex's* house. Kepp in mind that we were originally just going to drop off film, and it was not like she was cutting a date short, or anything like that.

So she heads to *the ex's house* house, I then call up a friend, and we head to get a bite to eat around 9.
We drive past Jane's house, and the ex's car is at the bottom of her driveway (this is around 10:30).

Sleep occurs. I wake up this morning, and talk to her online. She has to go out of state for a funeral, so we only talk for a second. Basically, I ask her how last night went, because we had talked about how she was going to talk to him about how she felt. She said that she "sorta" talked to him. It basically boils down to him thinking she's cheating on him with me, because of what *the ex* said.

So yeah. Now I have to wait til Monday before I find out what happened. She said she'd call me Monday, and we'd hang out.

So what to think? Ideas? Thoughts? It's damn confusing, to say the least.

Cliff Notes

-Guapo337 goes to Scotland
-Guapo337 meets hot girl (who has a boyfriend, but wants out)
-Hot girl and Guapo337 hit it off, interest ensues between both parties.
-Ex gets jealous, fuckz0rs up things
-Hot girl's boyfriend thinks hot girl is cheating on him with Guapo337

NO PICS AVAILABLE. Sorry.
 
damn that sucks, hope things work out

Hot women, u know they are trouble, but we still need them hehe

Dogg
 
Basically, she wants to break up with him, and "kinda of talked to him" last night. And I have to wait til monday to find out.
 
I think she's probably confused as to what she wants. You should make it clear that you need this to either become a relationship or for her to stay with her boyfriend. Remember, talking is key to figuring anything out. 🙂

Good luck
 
Originally posted by: BlinderBomber
I think she's probably confused as to what she wants. You should make it clear that you need this to either become a relationship or for her to stay with her boyfriend. Remember, talking is key to figuring anything out. 🙂

Good luck

we talked for like an hour one day about what we wanted so talking is definitely not a problem.

 
Originally posted by: guapo337
Originally posted by: BlinderBomber
I think she's probably confused as to what she wants. You should make it clear that you need this to either become a relationship or for her to stay with her boyfriend. Remember, talking is key to figuring anything out. 🙂

Good luck

we talked for like an hour one day about what we wanted so talking is definitely not a problem.

I don't think he means talking in general. Ask her straight out what she's looking for and tell her she needs to work it out.
 
Will pics be available when the film you dropped off gets developed?

Get the girl to break up with the boyfriend when she returns, if you can.

Otherwise, hook up with your ex and DH!TB 😉
 
Originally posted by: bleeb
I think LONYO is thinking THREESOME!! MOINASUTOI (how do you spell that shiet?)
Moyn Asoo Toy? I think you mean Menage a Trois.
 
Just play it cool. Don't do anything to upset her BF as you don't want him to do anything violent towards you. At the same time, don't push Jane too much. She is going to have a tough time dumping the BF. Let her make her decision. She'll probably come around to you if you guys hit it off as well as you say you did.

Be like Fonzy. What's Fonzy like? He's cool. Exactamundo!

Ryan
 
Originally posted by: ClueLis
Originally posted by: guapo337
Originally posted by: BlinderBomber
I think she's probably confused as to what she wants. You should make it clear that you need this to either become a relationship or for her to stay with her boyfriend. Remember, talking is key to figuring anything out. 🙂

Good luck

we talked for like an hour one day about what we wanted so talking is definitely not a problem.

I don't think he means talking in general. Ask her straight out what she's looking for and tell her she needs to work it out.

yeah. done that. working on that. i feel like i've performed fairly well in this situation. we really did hit it off well, talking a lot about what we wanted, what i wanted, what she wanted, obstacles, problems, etc.

i've never had contact with her boyfriend, and hopefully i never will. he wasnt happy last night though.

and im not hooking up with the ex again. that is WAY TOO sketchy.

 
from your descriptions it doesn't sound that bad, and she doesn't sound that bad... but then again you didn't say all that much to begin with. just see how things go! good luck. too bad for the bf.
 
Originally posted by: zCypher
from your descriptions it doesn't sound that bad, and she doesn't sound that bad... but then again you didn't say all that much to begin with. just see how things go! good luck. too bad for the bf.

what doesnt sound bad? and who doesnt sound that bad?
 
that was confusing

anyway, either hit it or just be friends, but dont get into a relationship with her. why? if you start a relationship, in a month or two youre gonna be in the same situation jane's current boyfriend is in, getting talked to about how youre getting dumped because she met some really cool guy from her trip to ireland.

EDIT: and stop spending so much time thinking about this, go have fun and hang out with your friends, if somethings going to happen, it will, if something isnt, your thinking and trying to make it happen arent going to help.
 
Originally posted by: SWirth86
that was confusing

anyway, either hit it or just be friends, but dont get into a relationship with her. why? if you start a relationship, in a month or two youre gonna be in the same situation jane's current boyfriend is in, getting talked to about how youre getting dumped because she met some really cool guy from her trip to ireland.

EDIT: and stop spending so much time thinking about this, go have fun and hang out with your friends, if somethings going to happen, it will, if something isnt, your thinking and trying to make it happen arent going to help.

thanks. im trying not to think too much. 🙂
 
i explained the situation to one of my friends, and she basically echoed the boyfriends sentiments: while we're not physically cheating, it still is essentially "cheating". agree? disagree?
 
Originally posted by: guapo337
i explained the situation to one of my friends, and she basically echoed the boyfriends sentiments: while we're not physically cheating, it still is essentially "cheating". agree? disagree?

nobody knows?

 
hey man. the only thing i can tell you is that there are 3 types of women. the first type, uberhotties, they are only good to look at but not really girlfriend materials for most people. the 2nd type, cute ones, those are the ones you wanna go after. as for the third type, well.... just remember.
 
Originally posted by: guapo337
Originally posted by: guapo337
i explained the situation to one of my friends, and she basically echoed the boyfriends sentiments: while we're not physically cheating, it still is essentially "cheating". agree? disagree?
nobody knows?
It's not cheating. He's just pissed (rightfully so) that his girl is hanging out with you, instead of him, and he's gonna get shafted pretty soon. Sounds like she didnt like him before you entered the equation, so its not like youre the one who screwed their relationship up.
 
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