YAGT: Cheated on....

[Tiamat]

Girls can be little fvcking cvnts sometimes. Thats just how some girls are :/

At least you aren't married and have to give your money to her.

Go to the gym - it helps.

 

[flyboy84]

1.Go to Wally World
2.Buy Gun
3...
4.Profit!

 

[shilala]

Welcome to the club, dude.
It sucks. You can be grief stricken as long as you want, but it won't change what she did.
Learn from it and move on. Don't call her, don't ask for an explanation, don't give it another minute of your time. It just adds more pain.
That's the worst part. It eats at you until your guts hurt.
:music:Get the boys together and do some drinking, fast. :music:
Be happy in knowing that your taste in women will likely lead you to another pig who will do the same thing. Oh, wait, that doesn't work...
Good Luck man, it'll quit hurting some day. I don't know when, but that's what they tell me.

 

[Leper Messiah]

Ah. the wonder of relationships.

:beer: to you man, stuff like that is t3h suck.

 

[Megadeth]

Originally posted by: Horus


SPEND FRIVIOUSLY. If you see something you want, and can afford it, GET IT. Seriously. You'll feel a crapload better about yourself.

Well.. I did go out and buy that ATV I wanted!

 

[Bumrush99]

Deep down inside I think most people can tell by their partner?s personality style what they are capable of doing and whether or not they can be trusted. Perhaps I am just lucky, or maybe I?m just ignorant, but I have always had a keen awareness of who to avoid like the plague and whom I could trust unconditionally. Call it blind faith in my judgement, but its important to go with your gut instinct going forward. Not all women are cheaters, a lot of them can be trusted and won?t dick you over. Again, just keep you head up and when you are ready to start dating again look for certain qualities in women that make them trustworthy. Emotionally stable, happy, calm and not an overly jealous person tend to work best.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: gigapet
happened to me too. Its an important lesson to learn though...I am glad I did.

The best thing you can do for yourself is go out and bang like ten other girls. You will quickly forget.

Lessons learned:

- 98% of girls will cheat if given the discreet opportunity to do so
- 98% of girls will lie about cheating and anything else that is convienient for them right to your face and not feel bad about it(at least for a while)
-98% of girls will manipulate you as much as you let them and not feel bad about it
-98% of girls will suck the life right out of you if you let them


So the solution is to wait around for the good 2% or learn how to beat the 98% at their own game.

:beer: cheer up

Truest post ever made on ATOT.... I found one of the 2% while trying to beat the other 98%(was doin pretty good at it too).

I too went through similiar crap.... I think most guys have... many don't even realize they have. Just don't pull a Red, let the relationship go now... do NOT I repeat DO NOT attempt to put it back together.

-Max

 

[91TTZ]

Originally posted by: Megadeth
Every time he came back to town to visit in the past year is when she broke up with me... Coincidence? For the past year every time we were back together I drilled her about this guy... She lied to me the entire time saying that they were only friends and she was not attracted to him anymore..

Enough said.

This is extremely common. I can't believe that I argue with so many complete and utter morons on here who think they are "confident" by believing that the old crush that their gf always hangs out with is "just a friend". It's actually sad that they're such a sucker.

They're just oblivious to what's really going on.

 

[PunDogg]

Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
She's a slut. BONG!

copy that from my sig!!!

Dogg

 

[Doboji]

Cliff Notes

 

[shilala]

Originally posted by: Doboji
Cliff Notes

That woman of yours is tiny. Cute, too.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: brigden
It's cliche as Hell, but time does heal all wounds.

You're going to hurt. It's going to take time. You can either feel sorry for yourself and get depressed during this time, or you can look at it from a positive perspective and know that she wasn't the one and that you will meet another woman and your life will get better.

Go out with your mates, get drunk. Listen to music. Work out. Do whatever you need to do to occupy yourself.

Good luck.

This man speaks the truth. :thumbsup:

 

[Kitkat13]

I can totally relate to how you feel. My 8-year marriage ended when I found out he was cheating and he left me for her (actually them but thats another story).

I too felt like my entire marriage was a lie... my life was a lie.... But then I realized there were good times.... and they WERE REAL. Just remember the good times but dont dwell on them. You too will find someone new.

I used to think I could not live without my (ex)husband, Now I cant live with him. He makes me insane. Now I am with a wonderful man that I would not have missed for the world. (Love you Xeno!)

:beer:

 

[JulesMaximus]

The whole 3 years comes into question now... How many other times did she cheat on me and lie to me? Was the whole thing one big lie? How many other people did she sleep with....

It doesn't matter.

Seriously, it will hurt for a while. Best thing you can do right now is spend time with friends and family. Work on yourself and try not to focus on the relationship or her. The pain will fade over time. Whatever you do, do NOT get back together with her if she comes crawling back in a few weeks or months!!!

You should cut off all ties with her permanently. Do not call her, do not talk to her if she calls you, no emails, letters, IMs, nothing! You need to move on and the quicker you let her go the sooner that will happen. Sounds like you already have cut those ties but I know how easy it is to fall back into the familiar patterns. I've been in your situation once...many years ago. Trust me, it will get better with time.

 

[Patt]

Originally posted by: Kitkat13
I can totally relate to how you feel. My 8-year marriage ended when I found out he was cheating and he left me for her (actually them but thats another story).

Explain, or link to story ...

 

[HomeBrewerDude]

Sorry, but at least you went through this before you proposed/married.

 

[GoingUp]

Yea, ive been on the end of a cheating woman before too... sucks man.... hope your tests come out clean!

 

[rickn]

get yourself checked for any std's

nm, he already did. I didn't even read his run-on post, lol

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

there are two ways to make yourself fell better about it...
1)post lewd pics of her on the internet and
2) sleep with her friend

 

[xSauronx]

Originally posted by: purbeast0
dude please edit your post to have some kind of formatting. no one is going to read it that way, its too hard on the eyes.

agreed, my wife is leaving me, and seems to be entertaining 2 different guys without letting either know that theres someone else shes interested in...all while shes in my home until next weekend.

and id like to sympathize with you, but your post sucks balls.

 

[necine]

what you need to do is sleep with all her friends

 

[apac]

Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer
there are two ways to make yourself fell better about it...
1)post lewd pics of her on the internet and
2) sleep with her sister

fixed

Be sure to get hammered so there's no guilt!

 

[Saulbadguy]

haha

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: brigden
It's cliche as Hell, but time does heal all wounds.

You're going to hurt. It's going to take time. You can either feel sorry for yourself and get depressed during this time, or you can look at it from a positive perspective and know that she wasn't the one and that you will meet another woman and your life will get better.

Go out with your mates, get drunk. Listen to music. Work out. Do whatever you need to do to occupy yourself.

Good luck.

This man speaks the truth. :thumbsup:

Not true

10 years now and I'm still hurting from losing my wife of 10 years...
not a day goes by I dont feel it..

there may be alot of fish in the sea.. but most of them are sharks and barracudas... out for $$ not love..

life is a sh!tty vicious circle...

 

[skace]

Don't spoil your own enjoyment because she fell apart. You had 3 years of fun, she screwed up and now the parties over. Time to move on, nothing lost, just another experience in life.