YAGT: Cheated on....

[dquan97]

pics?

 

[BrokenVisage]

Originally posted by: 91TTZ

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: BrokenVisage
When she comes crawling back to ya begging for you to take her back, then you can tell her to go to hell and restore some of that dignity she took.

Yeah, but fvck her one more time first.

2nd. That's what I did.

In fact, don't tell her to go to hell, just keep banging her and leaving her hanging until she gives up. Women aren't the sharpest tools in the shed (they operate off emotions, not logic) and you'll get quite a few bj's before she finally figures out that you're using her.

Hopefully she'll come to that realization after the dick is out of her mouth. :Q

 

[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: Kitkat13
I can totally relate to how you feel. My 8-year marriage ended when I found out he was cheating and he left me for her (actually them but thats another story).

I too felt like my entire marriage was a lie... my life was a lie.... But then I realized there were good times.... and they WERE REAL. Just remember the good times but dont dwell on them. You too will find someone new.

I used to think I could not live without my (ex)husband, Now I cant live with him. He makes me insane. Now I am with a wonderful man that I would not have missed for the world. (Love you Xeno!)

:beer:

Sorry to hear what you had to go through, Kitkat... men can be dirty, dickless, filthy and worthless pieces of scum.

Thank goodness we managed to snag a couple of gems that are good to us, and vice versa.

 

[episodic]

She used you.


However, you won't be stupid next time (hopefully).

If you don't learn from this you kinda dim. Make sure this is a learning experience.

Most people have had an experience like this. Yes, it sucks.

Remember if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck - it is a duck.

And hope the STD test is clear, don't forget you'll have to be retested in 6 months to be sure about HIV.

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: Tomato

Originally posted by: Kitkat13
I can totally relate to how you feel. My 8-year marriage ended when I found out he was cheating and he left me for her (actually them but thats another story).

I too felt like my entire marriage was a lie... my life was a lie.... But then I realized there were good times.... and they WERE REAL. Just remember the good times but dont dwell on them. You too will find someone new.

I used to think I could not live without my (ex)husband, Now I cant live with him. He makes me insane. Now I am with a wonderful man that I would not have missed for the world. (Love you Xeno!)

:beer:

Sorry to hear what you had to go through, Kitkat... men can be dirty, dickless, filthy and worthless pieces of scum.

Thank goodness we managed to snag a couple of gems that are good to us, and vice versa.

This coming from the drunken slut who cheated on her fiancé with some stranger in a dirty nightclub toilet stall.

 

[Megadeth]

Seems to be a lot of good advice on this thread. The one that jumps out at me the most is to cut all ties. If she does call ever again (I know she will) I will ignor it.

 

[chowmein]

Originally posted by: jjones

Originally posted by: Tomato

Originally posted by: Kitkat13
I can totally relate to how you feel. My 8-year marriage ended when I found out he was cheating and he left me for her (actually them but thats another story).

I too felt like my entire marriage was a lie... my life was a lie.... But then I realized there were good times.... and they WERE REAL. Just remember the good times but dont dwell on them. You too will find someone new.

I used to think I could not live without my (ex)husband, Now I cant live with him. He makes me insane. Now I am with a wonderful man that I would not have missed for the world. (Love you Xeno!)

:beer:

Sorry to hear what you had to go through, Kitkat... men can be dirty, dickless, filthy and worthless pieces of scum.

Thank goodness we managed to snag a couple of gems that are good to us, and vice versa.

This coming from the drunken slut who cheated on her fiancé with some stranger in a dirty nightclub toilet stall.

wow, thats a cheap shot and completely uncalled for. btw she cleared it up in an earlier thread. i guess tomato isn't fully vindicated yet.

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: chowmein

Originally posted by: jjones

Originally posted by: Tomato

Originally posted by: Kitkat13
I can totally relate to how you feel. My 8-year marriage ended when I found out he was cheating and he left me for her (actually them but thats another story).

I too felt like my entire marriage was a lie... my life was a lie.... But then I realized there were good times.... and they WERE REAL. Just remember the good times but dont dwell on them. You too will find someone new.

I used to think I could not live without my (ex)husband, Now I cant live with him. He makes me insane. Now I am with a wonderful man that I would not have missed for the world. (Love you Xeno!)

:beer:

Sorry to hear what you had to go through, Kitkat... men can be dirty, dickless, filthy and worthless pieces of scum.

Thank goodness we managed to snag a couple of gems that are good to us, and vice versa.

This coming from the drunken slut who cheated on her fiancé with some stranger in a dirty nightclub toilet stall.

wow, thats a cheap shot and completely uncalled for. btw she cleared it up in an earlier thread. i guess tomato isn't fully vindicated yet.

I guess your sarcasm meter must be broke. I even provided the winky.

 

[kermalou]

Originally posted by: chowmein

Originally posted by: jjones

Originally posted by: Tomato

Originally posted by: Kitkat13
I can totally relate to how you feel. My 8-year marriage ended when I found out he was cheating and he left me for her (actually them but thats another story).

I too felt like my entire marriage was a lie... my life was a lie.... But then I realized there were good times.... and they WERE REAL. Just remember the good times but dont dwell on them. You too will find someone new.

I used to think I could not live without my (ex)husband, Now I cant live with him. He makes me insane. Now I am with a wonderful man that I would not have missed for the world. (Love you Xeno!)

:beer:

Sorry to hear what you had to go through, Kitkat... men can be dirty, dickless, filthy and worthless pieces of scum.

Thank goodness we managed to snag a couple of gems that are good to us, and vice versa.

This coming from the drunken slut who cheated on her fiancé with some stranger in a dirty nightclub toilet stall.

wow, thats a cheap shot and completely uncalled for. btw she cleared it up in an earlier thread. i guess tomato isn't fully vindicated yet.

genius, there is a wink at the end of the post.

some people have no sense of humor.

 

[chowmein]

ahh, yes my emoticon sense of innuendo seems to have malfunctioned. a thousand apologies.

 

[chrisms]

Alcohol will never lie to you

 

[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: jjones

Originally posted by: chowmein

Originally posted by: jjones

Originally posted by: Tomato

Originally posted by: Kitkat13
I can totally relate to how you feel. My 8-year marriage ended when I found out he was cheating and he left me for her (actually them but thats another story).

I too felt like my entire marriage was a lie... my life was a lie.... But then I realized there were good times.... and they WERE REAL. Just remember the good times but dont dwell on them. You too will find someone new.

I used to think I could not live without my (ex)husband, Now I cant live with him. He makes me insane. Now I am with a wonderful man that I would not have missed for the world. (Love you Xeno!)

:beer:

Sorry to hear what you had to go through, Kitkat... men can be dirty, dickless, filthy and worthless pieces of scum.

Thank goodness we managed to snag a couple of gems that are good to us, and vice versa.

This coming from the drunken slut who cheated on her fiancé with some stranger in a dirty nightclub toilet stall.

wow, thats a cheap shot and completely uncalled for. btw she cleared it up in an earlier thread. i guess tomato isn't fully vindicated yet.

I guess your sarcasm meter must be broke. I even provided the winky.

I caught the winky.

Seriously, though.... personally, I'd really appreciate it if you wouldn't make such jokes in the future though, jjones. I'm fiercely loyal to my fiance, and don't like that questioned or even kidded about... just my personal preference, and I would like that for me as well as for him (since he reads the forums as well).

 

[cherrytwist]

Originally posted by: iwantanewcomputer
there are two ways to make yourself fell better about it...
1)post lewd pics of her on the internet and
2) sleep with her MOM

Fixed again. Fvckin amateurs.

 

[Ausm]

Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
She's a slut. BONG!

So is my Ex


Ausm

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: Tomato
Seriously, though.... personally, I'd really appreciate it if you wouldn't make such jokes in the future though, jjones. I'm fiercely loyal to my fiance, and don't like that questioned or even kidded about... just my personal preference, and I would like that for me as well as for him (since he reads the forums as well).

Could Tomato or somebody please tell me what happened that night as I never saw a follow up and didn't see one using search.

 

[cain]

dude i don't have any advice to give because i haven't had any experience in relationships. i am 21 and have never been in a serious relationship. but from what everyone is saying, i am not sure if i want one.

 

[Nocturnal]

Time heals all wounds. That's a fact and it's going to be tough. I understand where you're coming from as I've been down that road. Try to man up and hang out with friends and family. They're your best support at this point and time. Just try to remember how badly she treated you and how messed up things were and try to look at it from that stand point as opposed to remembering you guys cuddling, kissing, etc.

 

[ITJunkie]

Originally posted by: Mucho
Dont cry because it ended laugh because it happned.

True...

 

[slycat]

post her pic.

 

[austin316]

Originally posted by: purbeast0
dude please edit your post to have some kind of formatting. no one is going to read it that way, its too hard on the eyes.

i agree

 

[ZOOYUKA]

Originally posted by: purbeast0
dude please edit your post to have some kind of formatting. no one is going to read it that way, its too hard on the eyes.

What he said

 

[Orsorum]

Laugh because it happened now, and not when you're married.

 

[clarkey01]

I can relate to that somewhat. I was hurt but I f*cked enough girls after and blanked my ex and now after 2 months shes begging for me back.

She hurt me by being twisted towards the end, I was cold & ignored her. She heard I was getting around and she rings me up crying saying she wants me back.You can f*ck right off.

Funny, the money I had for our holiday went on my BMW 330i improvments 60 extra BHP, and paid for loads of binges and fun stuff. I loved her and when we broke up I was in a bad way and she got twisted and tried taunting me, now shes crying for me back. And the bitch Im with now is 10x better, but I dont know if I'll make it a relationship. Ah well :beer:

 

[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: PanzerIV

Originally posted by: Tomato
Seriously, though.... personally, I'd really appreciate it if you wouldn't make such jokes in the future though, jjones. I'm fiercely loyal to my fiance, and don't like that questioned or even kidded about... just my personal preference, and I would like that for me as well as for him (since he reads the forums as well).

Could Tomato or somebody please tell me what happened that night as I never saw a follow up and didn't see one using search.

The mods deleted the original thread posted by the hacker, but here is my "clearing everything up" post.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: PanzerIV

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: Nik

Originally posted by: brigden
It's cliche as Hell, but time does heal all wounds.

You're going to hurt. It's going to take time. You can either feel sorry for yourself and get depressed during this time, or you can look at it from a positive perspective and know that she wasn't the one and that you will meet another woman and your life will get better.

Go out with your mates, get drunk. Listen to music. Work out. Do whatever you need to do to occupy yourself.

Good luck.

This man speaks the truth. :thumbsup:

Not true

10 years now and I'm still hurting from losing my wife of 10 years...
not a day goes by I dont feel it..

there may be alot of fish in the sea.. but most of them are sharks and barracudas... out for $$ not love..

life is a sh!tty vicious circle...

Didn't she die though or am I confusing you with another poster?

yeh thats me...
but time doesnt heal all wounds when it comes to women and love...

I bet you would feel differently if she knowingly, purposefully betrayed your trust and cheated on you. It's different when someone basically tells you "sorry, all the work we've done isn't worth a few nights with someone else" because you're more inclinded to kick in those defense mechanisms that urge you not to care about her either, which make it easier to find a replacement.