Originally posted by: Scribe
Originally posted by: MrMaster
I'm not the greatest at picking up chicks but I would definitely NOT call this Sat. afternoon. Shows desperation. Maybe Sunday night would work but otherwise put it off for a day or two.
You already called. She has your number. Ball is in her court. Ofcourse something can happen or come up and that is when you call a few days later.
Sound advice. Any ideas on what I should say if I have to wait till say, Monday to call her back?
Don't bring up the you forgot to call me. Don't ask her why or anything. Pretend it never happened. As soon as you bring it up you'll be dead in the water. You have to brush it off like it is no bid deal. Also, I guess it has something to do with a male/female thing but women look at not calling someone back as no big deal while most men expect a callback from a person(male or female) when they call them.
Now, what do you lead with? That's where I would have to let someone else help you with. This situation (not the mom hooking me up with a date part) happened to me last week and I just started with a 'hey how are you doing" smalltalk stuff. It ended with me telling her to call me later. I wanted to put the ball in her court to see if she was just being nice or actually interested. She did call back the next time when she said she would.