YAGT .... boo hoo!

zCypher

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Yep yep yep. Fortunately for you the reader, though, it's not a "WAhhhhhhhhhhhh life sucks!" type. ;)

Yesterday I got back together w/my exgf. :D We talked for hours, basically discussed everything from the beginning to present. Discussed the issues we had back then, reasons why it didn't work out, and the differences between now and back then. After much discussion, ponderation and a small break to contemplate, it was decided/agreed - to give it another shot. :)

I'm pretty happy about this, because I was almost certain me bringing the whole thing up would result in a bad ending, depression, the type of "YAGT" that you don't want to hear.. :p But it was great, we were both very straight forward with one another, no beating around the bush running in circles around issues.. just straight up clear questions/answers, discussion on all the topics involved. It was nice, and surprising. :)

Today started off a little annoyingly though! I was going to meet her at 7:15 on the bus, even though I don't have class till 10:00. A couple times I did that I accidentally missed the bus, and I felt terrible about that. I definitely didn't want that to happen again, especially not on the first day of our new relationship. So I get to the bus stop ten minutes early. The minutes click by... no bus. :confused: It came about 20 minutes late. The whole time I was thinking "sh!t... did I miss it somehow? ahhhhh!", but it turned out there was an accident, preventing the bus from getting anywhere in any decent time. Phew. :D So I think ok everything's cool now.. so we get to school, and before I get the chance to talk to her about anything serious, we bump into a 'friend' (I don't particularly like the person) and ended up walking around with her for a little bit.. then ran into ANOTHER person. I was a little annoyed... but we lost them both pretty soon so it was ok. :p Just a bad start for the first day.. just my luck. :p

So we didn't get to have a serious talk before she had to go to class, that's ok. I go get something done for her next class (she wouldn't have time to do it, and she forgot about it this weekend, so I figured it'd be handy for her if I did this), and while I'm at it I check the cancelled classes. Both my classes end up being cancelled! :confused: :confused: :confused: That's never happened before, it was quite creepy. All this had to happen today! Dammit. Oh well, no class isn't too bad anyway, nothing to worry about now. :)

So I'll be back there to meet up with her at 12.. probably go have some lunch or something. Just thought I'd share this with you all while I'm sitting at home. :D
 

zCypher

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It's funny how the downer threads get so much response, yet everyone complains about them. haha.

Yes, I'd like a cookie, please. And no, I'm not a twisted bastard, so no pics for you.
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: zCypher
It's funny how the downer threads get so much response, yet everyone complains about them. haha.

Yes, I'd like a cookie, please. And no, I'm not a twisted bastard, so no pics for you.

The downer threads get responses because everyone loves to share their tales of woe. Plus, I doubt many of the guys here have actually had many successes...
 

zCypher

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Zak, while that's probably true of a fair percentage of this forum's members, it certainly can't be representative of everyone here. After all, I'm here. :p

Anyway, I haven't really had any successes, although when her and I broke up, we somehow managed to keep our friendship and kind of rebuild it up, which is more than I can say for most of the excouples I know. I hope this will be successful now! I think it will be. :)

I'm sure some people have tales of success they can share :p

edit: or even advice/tips! :D
 

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Muwahahahahahahahhahahahahaha!! I'll tell you the reason I'm laughing in a minute. Muwahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

Ok, now that I've got that out of my system.... I just finished the workout thread where zcypher mentioned he was going to start working out again. And now I know the reason!!!!! :D

dfi
 

Deeko

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Good for you. How long were you broken up with her? Why did you break up with her in the first place?
 

zCypher

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Originally posted by: iamwiz82
do you honestly think complete strangers care about your love life?
Nope, but if you give so little of a fvck, why'd you post in here? Just curious.
 

zCypher

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Originally posted by: dfi
Muwahahahahahahahhahahahahaha!! I'll tell you the reason I'm laughing in a minute. Muwahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

Ok, now that I've got that out of my system.... I just finished the workout thread where zcypher mentioned he was going to start working out again. And now I know the reason!!!!! :D

dfi
Actually, you're wrong. But I don't blame you for thinking that. :)

This has been planned (working out) for a couple months actually, way before this. Nice try though ;) I'm not that kind of person. Besides - she likes me the way I am, why would I have to work out just cause I'm going out with her?
 

zCypher

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Originally posted by: Deeko
Good for you. How long were you broken up with her? Why did you break up with her in the first place?
Thanks. Well let's see, it's been nearly a year and a half. Probably closer to a year and a quarter. Basically, we hadn't known each other for that long - and because of other factors, namely trust issues (long story there, but it's not because of me or anything I did, thankfully :D).. but we made it, and we pretty much spent hours together daily since. :)