YAGT: Am I overreacting? OLD THREAD

[Corn]

Better yet......get a stripper!!!!

I second that recommendation. Nothing like a nice set of hooters in your face to help you forget about your troubles with your girlfriend. I can't see a downside..........

 

[KC5AV]

Dude, yeah... you're over-reacting. At least she told you about it. Let it go.

Next time you talk to her, tell her how much you are looking forward to her return. Sound pathetic. Chicks dig that.

 

[Mallow]

buy the next girls gone wild, if you see her on it be mad If she gets mad at you for having it just explain you were checking up on her, lol!

 

[lilFajita]

let it go. you are probably mostly feeling bad because you don't get to enjoy it with her. if she told you about it, then i think you are ok.

 

[TubStain]

Originally posted by: Mallow
buy the next girls gone wild, if you see her on it be mad If she gets mad at you for having it just explain you were checking up on her, lol!

HAHA....

Man some of these replies are cracking me up...

 

[Kadarin]

How would she react if you told her you freaked some chick at a club?

 

[slycat]

maybe i'm the jealous type or controlling type or ...
but thats just wrong.

 

[AgentEL]

dancing is nothing... don't get all worked up about it.

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: Skoorb
Not sure. I can say I wouldn't like it - I don't think any guy would. I wouldn't cut her body into 5 pieces, individually garbage bag each of them, and bury them in our previous five favorite places to visit though.

Is THAT what happened to MrsSkoorb. Huh.

 

[Lola]

i understand where you are coming from. I don't know if you are overracting or not, but i bet you miss her and are a bit upset that you cannot be with her. Plus, 1.5 years is a good amount of time to be with someone seriously. But, If you trust her, then i wouldn't worry about anything. Make sure you tell her how much you missed her when she gets home!

 

[TubStain]

Originally posted by: slycat
maybe i'm the jealous type or controlling type or ...
but thats just wrong.

Yeah I think I'm slightly like that too. Though, I think it stems from the fact that she is having so much fun, and keeps calling me telling me what shes been upto, while I look at my pathetic surroundings and start getting depressed. I think inside, though this might sound bad, I dont want her to have so much fun....atleast without me.

Anyways, I just talked to her, shes out on a boat basking in the sun, and she said she'd make it up to me woohoo...

 

[alm99]

Originally posted by: mpitts
Your girlfriend is on Spring Break in Miami?

If I were you, I would be happy if this is the worst thing that she does with another guy while she is there.

True statement, now thats she knows how you will react she won't tell you next time.

 

[kaymin]

I would be freaking pissed.

 

[EvilYoda]

Don't forget that the biggest reason why you're feeling bad is because she's not with you right now...I think your reaction was fine, just don't do anything more to react, and you'll be fine. If she was cool enough to tell you about it, and it was just for a bit, you can't expect any better. She's on SB, in Miami, at a club, and she's not going to have some fun? psssht, right. Just make sure you have your fun when she gets back and you'll feel much better. They love hearing how much you missed them, so don't forget to SAY it.

 

[XZeroII]

you realize it's still winter, right? Not spring.

 

[Ciber]

I guess most guys here dont have a problem with their girl practically dry humping a guy .


I know my gf would rip my head off if i did that crap with some girl.

Those of you wondering why she told him, it was because she was feeling guilty.

 

[giguana]

Originally posted by: Ciber
I guess most guys here dont have a problem with their girl practically dry humping a guy .


I know my gf would rip my head off if i did that crap with some girl.

Those of you wondering why she told him, it was because she was feeling guilty.

It would only bother me if SHE initiated it. You can't get mad at her for something that isn't technically her fault. You also can't expect her to sit in the hotel room while her girlfriends go out and party.

She was also honest enough to tell me that she "freak danced" with one of the guys for just a little bit, but that she did not initiate it.

If she left out that last part, then there would be grounds to be more upset.

I wouldn't worry about it unless it happens every night that she's there, and it's the same guy.

 

[Hammer]

its not that big a deal. and she told you about it. let it go.

 

[Ciber]

Originally posted by: giguana

Originally posted by: Ciber
I guess most guys here dont have a problem with their girl practically dry humping a guy .


I know my gf would rip my head off if i did that crap with some girl.

Those of you wondering why she told him, it was because she was feeling guilty.

It would only bother me if SHE initiated it. You can't get mad at her for something that isn't technically her fault. You also can't expect her to sit in the hotel room while her girlfriends go out and party.

She was also honest enough to tell me that she "freak danced" with one of the guys for just a little bit, but that she did not initiate it.

If she left out that last part, then there would be grounds to be more upset.

I wouldn't worry about it unless it happens every night that she's there, and it's the same guy.

So you would be ok with your gf sleeping with someone as long as she doesnt initiate it?

She is responsible for letting it continue regardless of who started it.

 

[TubStain]

Originally posted by: Hammer
its not that big a deal. and she told you about it. let it go.

I have let it go

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: kaymin
I would be freaking pissed.

I don't think I'd be pissed.... but I'd be extremely curious... That can be considered crossing the line by MOST people.

 

[melly]

Originally posted by: johngute

if she was honest enough to tell you about it, i wouldn't worry about it

 

[giguana]

Originally posted by: Ciber

So you would be ok with your gf sleeping with someone as long as she doesnt initiate it?

Guys at clubs are like dogs, you give them some water and then they want a bone, next they want the whole steak .

If she let it go that far, then of course I'd be pissed. Personally, I trust my gf enough that she wouldn't let it go that far. You have to pick your battles, and dancing with a guy would not be a battle that I would pick. I know first hand how guys at the clubs are, I used to be one of those guys(I used to do promotions for one of the biggest clubs in Utah).

 

[Brutuskend]

What's your definition of "freak danced"?
Is that the horizontal bump?

If so, I would so no, you didn't overreact

 

[Sid59]

first it starts with freak dancing .. then, all of a sudden, you see her flashing on the new edition of Girls Gone Wild: Girls with Boyfriends