YAGT:Am I about to screw up?

Skiguy411

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Just seeing what you guys would do.
I have been dating this girl for 4 months, and right now she is in England for 3 and 1/2 weeks. I was at the beach and I met a girl there who lives near me. After getting back from the beach me and this new girl talked for a bit and she wants to hang out. Neither of them know about each other, so should I hang out with this other girl as friends? Should I tell them about each other?
 

Lager

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Are you attracted to this new girl? If so, I suggest you stay away.

I would never cheat on my girlfriend, because opportunity comes once in a lifetime.
 

T3C

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well, have fun and do what makes you happy. Thats all that you realy need to be worried about is what you want to do..
 

Eli

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Definately a bad idea.

Why would your mind stray after only 4 months? Definately doesen't bode well for your current relationship...

<--- 1.7 years and couldn't imagine meeting another girl
 

ThaGrandCow

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I'd say as long as you tell your current GF about her, and make sure you're just hanging out as friends, then it's all good
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
I'd say as long as you tell your current GF about her, and make sure you're just hanging out as friends, then it's all good
Well yeah, I agree.

I was just under the impression that he was having thoughts other than "just friends".. But if that's not the case, then there shouldn't be a problem with it.
 

NutBucket

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Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
I'd say as long as you tell your current GF about her, and make sure you're just hanging out as friends, then it's all good
Well yeah, I agree.

I was just under the impression that he was having thoughts other than "just friends".. But if that's not the case, then there shouldn't be a problem with it.

I somehow doubt that's the girl's intention; His gf would certainly think so.
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: NutBucket
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
I'd say as long as you tell your current GF about her, and make sure you're just hanging out as friends, then it's all good
Well yeah, I agree.

I was just under the impression that he was having thoughts other than "just friends".. But if that's not the case, then there shouldn't be a problem with it.

I somehow doubt that's the girl's intention; His gf would certainly think so.
I agree.

If you care about your current relationship, it's probably just a bad idea in general.
 

Skiguy411

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Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
I'd say as long as you tell your current GF about her, and make sure you're just hanging out as friends, then it's all good
Well yeah, I agree.

I was just under the impression that he was having thoughts other than "just friends".. But if that's not the case, then there shouldn't be a problem with it.

Well see thats what I am scared of. I will admit that the new girl is pretty hot ( sorry no pics) , but I dont wanna screw up what my girlfriend and I have.
 

NutBucket

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Originally posted by: Skiguy411
Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow
I'd say as long as you tell your current GF about her, and make sure you're just hanging out as friends, then it's all good
Well yeah, I agree.

I was just under the impression that he was having thoughts other than "just friends".. But if that's not the case, then there shouldn't be a problem with it.

Well see thats what I am scared of. I will admit that the new girl is pretty hot ( sorry no pics) , but I dont wanna screw up what my girlfriend and I have.

Then stay away from her.
 

PsychoAndy

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Get her number, and never ever ever call her, unless you break up and need to make a booty call.

If you see her and she asks why you never call, say you were locked up by John Ashcroft in Cuba for no reason.
 

HappyPuppy

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Originally posted by: Spac3d
I'd bang em both.


Smart man. Girlfriends are a dime a dozen. They control your life even when they aren't around. Besides, the chick in England is probably banging all the Cockneys.:D

 

IBuyUFO

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If you have to jump into a forum and ask people if it's a bad idea then it probably is.
 

WinkOsmosis

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Now, I don't know what I'm talking about, but I don't see it as a danger if you end up liking this girl more than your girlfriend. If that's the case, maybe it wasn't meant to be.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: PsychoAndy
Get her number, and never ever ever call her, unless you break up and need to make a booty call.

If you see her and she asks why you never call, say you were locked up by John Ashcroft in Cuba for no reason.

If you think you can *control* yourself then no problems in hanging out with her. If not then stay away from her.

Man don't tell your gf your only hanging out............

I'm sure she'll be hanging out with a few guys.........

 

wnied

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I would never cheat on my girlfriend, because opportunity comes once in a lifetime

Unless you have a third eye, or dont get out much...then this opprotunity comes more than once bub.


More opprotunities than I care to remember...
~wnied~