YAGT : 2 days to your 6mnth anniv and these problems crop up..

[The Stigenator]

vanny and I nearly broke up today. She wasnt happy with me yesterday (long story) and so today I left a note at the desk saying i will walk away.. in the mean time she had a change of mind..

anyway we solved that problem.. and we got back together..

then tonite i called her and she was balling again.. needless to say its her mom..
she doesnt want vanessa to see me. She thinks she can do better and the fact that vanessa has given me slack (too much slack - which i understand and know) and that she thinks her daughter should go after someone else.

Needless to say I am not happy.

We got to see what comes up tommorow..

Worse comes to worse we become friends and be friends. We planned to become friends when we move away end of next month.. but only time will tell.

 

[amnesiac]

You both need to learn how to handle your disagreements better. Acting like children doesn't ever solve anything.

And apparently you didn't follow "kiss up to the parents rule." Her mom hates you which will make your relationship that much harder. Try getting on her good side, if you can. If you can't prepare for the fight of your life if you want to make it last, otherwise move on.

 

[The Stigenator]

Originally posted by: amnesiac
You both need to learn how to handle your disagreements better. Acting like children doesn't ever solve anything. And apparently you didn't follow "kiss up to the parents rule." Her mom hates you which will make your relationship that much harder. Try getting on her good side, if you can. If you can't prepare for the fight of your life if you want to make it last, otherwise move on.

well that aint going to be easy.. she knows her daughter and bf did something that she did not approve.. and she wanted us to get married for that.

she had gotten over it but then she still thinks i am not worth it. However unlike any other guy I am actually caring.. and not an asshole (as vanessa puts it).

I will know the full story tommorow.. hopefully mom doesnt make her break up with me one day before 6mnth (thursday 24th of july, 2003) is the 6mnth.

 

[amnesiac]

If your balls are so shrunken that you let her MOM run the relationship for you guys, then get up an RUN as far away as possible. If she already has a cow about you two boinking, and is the sole dictator of whether or not you break up, it will only get MUCH MUCH MUCH worse as time goes by.

 

[Kadarin]

Has Vanessa or her mom by any chance read any of your previous YAGTs either here or on SWForums? That might explain the hostility....

 

[The Stigenator]

the boinking can be considered not even boinking.. I am sure even a single guy who visits bars gets much more than we did.

needless to say it was a mutual decision and i didnt force her into it (despite her mom thinks otherwise).

As for the other YAGT and SWF threads.. no.. i didnt tell her, but she is a member of ATOT..

 

[isekii]

pics ?

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
the boinking can be considered not even boinking.. I am sure even a single guy who visits bars gets much more than we did.

needless to say it was a mutual decision and i didnt force her into it (despite her mom thinks otherwise).

As for the other YAGT and SWF threads.. no.. i didnt tell her, but she is a member of ATOT..

:Q

 

[Dragon365]

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
the boinking can be considered not even boinking.. I am sure even a single guy who visits bars gets much more than we did.

needless to say it was a mutual decision and i didnt force her into it (despite her mom thinks otherwise).

As for the other YAGT and SWF threads.. no.. i didnt tell her, but she is a member of ATOT..

:Q

:Q!!!!!!!!!!

 

[notfred]

six months is not an anniversary.

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: amnesiac
If your balls are so shrunken that you let her MOM run the relationship for you guys, then get up an RUN as far away as possible. If she already has a cow about you two boinking, and is the sole dictator of whether or not you break up, it will only get MUCH MUCH MUCH worse as time goes by.

No sh!t. If her mom is that opposed to you dating her daughter, you need to end this, or your girlfriend needs to move out, or you need to tell her mom to keep her nose out of your relationship. If her mom is this in control, you've got a serious problem that isn't going to get any better.

 

[Red Dawn]

she doesnt want vanessa to see me. She thinks she can do better

She's wrong!

 

[Banana]

vanessa has given me slack (too much slack - which i understand and know)

What bad things have you done? Are they contributing to the problem? Are you trying to "reform?"

 

[Yoshiniro]

Originally posted by: notfred
six months is not an anniversary.

unless you buy her a car

 

[loup garou]

Originally posted by: notfred
six months is not an anniversary.

 

[Cyberian]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
the boinking can be considered not even boinking.. I am sure even a single guy who visits bars gets much more than we did.

needless to say it was a mutual decision and i didnt force her into it (despite her mom thinks otherwise).

As for the other YAGT and SWF threads.. no.. i didnt tell her, but she is a member of ATOT..

I gotta remember this line!

 

[Lola]

Originally posted by: werk

Originally posted by: notfred
six months is not an anniversary.

really... come and talk to me after 3 years and having arguements on your anniversary....

 

[Nitemare]

Originally posted by: Dragon365

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
the boinking can be considered not even boinking.. I am sure even a single guy who visits bars gets much more than we did.

needless to say it was a mutual decision and i didnt force her into it (despite her mom thinks otherwise).

As for the other YAGT and SWF threads.. no.. i didnt tell her, but she is a member of ATOT..

:Q

:Q!!!!!!!!!!

MILF?

 

[dirtboy]

6 month anniversary.

 

[bleeb]

Hope things work out for you Good_Guy. You sound like a Good_Guy, Good_Guy.

 

[Encryptic]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
the boinking can be considered not even boinking.. I am sure even a single guy who visits bars gets much more than we did.

needless to say it was a mutual decision and i didnt force her into it (despite her mom thinks otherwise).

As for the other YAGT and SWF threads.. no.. i didnt tell her, but she is a member of ATOT..

You're going to be "the_dumped_and_balls_cut_off_guy" if she ever finds out about that.

 

[notfred]

Originally posted by: ActPrincess

Originally posted by: werk

Originally posted by: notfred
six months is not an anniversary.

really... come and talk to me after 3 years and having arguements on your anniversary....

About what? The definition of "anniversary" isn't going to change no matter how much you argue with the dictionary.

 

[jjones]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy

then tonite i called her and she was balling again.. needless to say its her mom..
she doesnt want vanessa to see me. She thinks she can do better and the fact that vanessa has given me slack (too much slack - which i understand and know) and that she thinks her daughter should go after someone else.

One of the few times I would defer to a mom's opinion. Seems like she has this one nailed.

 

[Lonyo]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
Worse comes to worse we become friends and be friends. We planned to become friends when we move away end of next month.. but only time will tell.

Your freaking well breaking up next month (I'm assuming from this line) so who the $#@! cares if it comes a month early. Man, why is it so much of an issue if it's not even going to last.

 

[ragazzo]

psst. 6 months time isn't called an anniversary. with that said, good luck.