YAG(irl)T - I got hit on today!

[Vic]

There was no reason to tell her that you're gay. She probably already knew. 99.9% of all women can tell a gay man at first glance. Most women will say that it's because he's effeminate or some other such BS, but I found out that the truth is that a gay man does not look at an attractive woman the way a straight man does. A gay man doesn't size her up, admire her rack and/or ass, and determine his chances.

BTW most women I know call this ability to tell a gay man at first glance "gay-dar".

 

[aplefka]

Originally posted by: Nikamichi

Originally posted by: edro13

Originally posted by: rbloedow
"Marisa - just so you know, I'm gay".

The similarities are astounding.
Out of the clear blue...

Marisa: So Ryan, tell me, what do you do in your free time? 😉

Ryan: Umm, I'm a pretty boring person, just work and school.

Marisa: Well, if you've got some time off - can I get your phone number, maybe we could go......


</Long pause>


Ryan: Walker told me that I'm gay.

:laugh:

A Nikamichi post I enjoyed, how rare.

 

[thomsbrain]

you're not an ass. no worries.

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: Vic
There was no reason to tell her that you're gay. She probably already knew. 99.9% of all women can tell a gay man at first glance. Most women will say that it's because he's effeminate or some other such BS, but I found out that the truth is that a gay man does not look at an attractive woman the way a straight man does. A gay man doesn't size her up, admire her rack and/or ass, and determine his chances.

BTW most women I know call this ability to tell a gay man at first glance "gay-dar".

Well alrighty then, Dr. Ruth.

 

[KMurphy]

Originally posted by: rbloedow


I stopped her at this point - it totally seemed like she was asking me out. "Marisa - just so you know, I'm gay" . She was like "Oh....🙁...well, I'll get your number anyway" and I gave it to her.

Arg - I feel like an ass. Am I an ass?

I would have responded the same way; only if it was a guy asking me out (I'm hetro). No, you're not an ass for laying it out on the table up front.

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: deftron
Once you go bi, you never run dry (?)

You realized it was questionable yet posted anyway.

:beer:

For the record rbloedow I don't fault the assumption and while I think you could send some time in self-analysis as to why you 'out and shouted your gayness', in the end it's fine. It's the truth, and you were just saving yourself from a potentially painful interaction in the future.

 

[GoingUp]

I like the fact that you used this thread as an excuse to say that youre gay.

AGAIN.

 

[Random Variable]

Close your eyes and pretend she has a pee-pee.

 

[dragonballgtz]

Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
I like the fact that you used this thread as an excuse to say that youre gay.

AGAIN.

:roll:

Anyway, that was pretty funny. It was kind of rude. You could of told her after she gave her number to you. Both of you could of had fun looking for men together.

 

[Nikamichi]

Originally posted by: aplefka

Originally posted by: Nikamichi

Originally posted by: edro13

Originally posted by: rbloedow
"Marisa - just so you know, I'm gay".

The similarities are astounding.
Out of the clear blue...

Marisa: So Ryan, tell me, what do you do in your free time? 😉

Ryan: Umm, I'm a pretty boring person, just work and school.

Marisa: Well, if you've got some time off - can I get your phone number, maybe we could go......


</Long pause>


Ryan: Walker told me that I'm gay.

:laugh:

A Nikamichi post I enjoyed, how rare.

Hater.


:thumbsdown:😀

 

[weezergirl]

pics??????

of YOU i mean. 🙂

 

Originally posted by: rbloedow
This is actually a girl that was in my Biology class in high school, she currently goes to college. About a month ago she started working at this drive thru smoothie shop that I go to everyday. I pulled through and ordered my usual double banana smoothie with soy protein 🙂D), and she was at the window.

The first time I saw here - I was like "MARISA! What's up 😀" and she seemed shocked that I even knew her name - I guess she didn't remember who I was. So I do the usual chit chat - what are you up to, yadda yadda yadda, and she gives me this puppy dog smile everyday I drive through. She flirts a little - I just smile and try to be nice 🙂 She's a looker too - one of those "I went from Geek TO Chic" types you see on maury or something - I found it pretty flattering.

Today while I was waiting, I had my phone out, and she starts asking me what kinds of things I do in my spare time. I replied by saying that I'm a pretty boring person, just work and school........and she says, "Well, if you've got some time off - can I get your phone number, maybe we could go......"

I stopped her at this point - it totally seemed like she was asking me out. "Marisa - just so you know, I'm gay" . She was like "Oh....🙁...well, I'll get your number anyway" and I gave it to her.

At this point, I'm slapping myself upside the head. I've NEVER said anything like that to someone. And I didn't even let her finish what she was going to ask me - I just made she assumption that she was asking me out. For all I know, she could just wanted to hang out 🙁 How concieted of me 🙁 I feel bad about it - I am probably looking too much into it though. It's just that I shot her down from the getgo - I've never done something like that to a girl 🙁

Arg - I feel like an ass. Am I an ass?

Geeez, you can't get over yourself, can you? From Mariah Carey fanatic, how pretty she was ... to my close friend is lesbian and her mom won't accept it; I have to defend her ... to confession of "I'm gay" ... to puppy love ... and then now telling a girl your sexuality before she could even finish her sentence? Don't be so presumptuous: Maybe she just wanted to be a close friend? Get over yourself, dear! 😛 And come to terms with your own sexuality. I guarantee you that you would not always be on the defensive side if you came to terms with it.

 

[CTrain]

Originally posted by: DearQT

Originally posted by: rbloedow
This is actually a girl that was in my Biology class in high school, she currently goes to college. About a month ago she started working at this drive thru smoothie shop that I go to everyday. I pulled through and ordered my usual double banana smoothie with soy protein 🙂D), and she was at the window.

The first time I saw here - I was like "MARISA! What's up 😀" and she seemed shocked that I even knew her name - I guess she didn't remember who I was. So I do the usual chit chat - what are you up to, yadda yadda yadda, and she gives me this puppy dog smile everyday I drive through. She flirts a little - I just smile and try to be nice 🙂 She's a looker too - one of those "I went from Geek TO Chic" types you see on maury or something - I found it pretty flattering.

Today while I was waiting, I had my phone out, and she starts asking me what kinds of things I do in my spare time. I replied by saying that I'm a pretty boring person, just work and school........and she says, "Well, if you've got some time off - can I get your phone number, maybe we could go......"

I stopped her at this point - it totally seemed like she was asking me out. "Marisa - just so you know, I'm gay" . She was like "Oh....🙁...well, I'll get your number anyway" and I gave it to her.

At this point, I'm slapping myself upside the head. I've NEVER said anything like that to someone. And I didn't even let her finish what she was going to ask me - I just made she assumption that she was asking me out. For all I know, she could just wanted to hang out 🙁 How concieted of me 🙁 I feel bad about it - I am probably looking too much into it though. It's just that I shot her down from the getgo - I've never done something like that to a girl 🙁

Arg - I feel like an ass. Am I an ass?

Geeez, you can't get over yourself, can you? From Mariah Carey fanatic, how pretty she was ... to my close friend is lesbian and her mom won't accept it; I have to defend her ... to confession of "I'm gay" ... to puppy love ... and then now telling a girl your sexuality before she could even finish her sentence? Don't be so presumptuous: Maybe she just wanted to be a close friend? Get over yourself, dear! 😛 And come to terms with your own sexuality. I guarantee you that you would not always be on the defensive side if you came to terms with it.

Very keen observation.

 

[aplefka]

Originally posted by: Nikamichi

Originally posted by: aplefka

Originally posted by: Nikamichi

Originally posted by: edro13

Originally posted by: rbloedow
"Marisa - just so you know, I'm gay".

The similarities are astounding.
Out of the clear blue...

Marisa: So Ryan, tell me, what do you do in your free time? 😉

Ryan: Umm, I'm a pretty boring person, just work and school.

Marisa: Well, if you've got some time off - can I get your phone number, maybe we could go......


</Long pause>


Ryan: Walker told me that I'm gay.

:laugh:

A Nikamichi post I enjoyed, how rare.

Hater.


:thumbsdown:😀

I don't hate the forum, just the poster. 😛

Or better yet, I don't hate blank posts, I hate pointless nefs complemented by blank posts.