YADT.

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: shilala
...and enjoy nipple clamps hooked to a battery charger?

Time to lay off the ZFX porn...

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: eigen

Nope.I just need to not have friend with big fvcking mouths.

p.s their will be no pics call shens if you want....dont care.

attaboy! it's your friend's fault!

look I see the chicks lined up already!

 

[Koing]

Harsh dude.

If your friend didn't 'blab' would you want to be with her? I think that is the real question.

Good luck with your choices :beer:

Koing

 

[Toastedlightly]

Now that yhou are a 'lying sack of shyte,' who are you gonna get teh sex from? How will she know you won't cheat on her?!!

 

[dderidex]

Originally posted by: eigen
I am not really depressed or anything.I just dont think the concept of one person for the rest of your life is gonna work out for me.I realize that i can be loved but i just dont think that any love can last forever.


Yup I am a cheater.

Q: No offense, but....did you ever really LOVE your wife in the first place?

Seriously, totally, romantically "in love" with her?

I wonder....

 

[eigen]

Originally posted by: Toastedlightly
Now that yhou are a 'lying sack of shyte,' who are you gonna get teh sex from? How will she know you won't cheat on her?!!

well the girl that I cheated with actually cheated on her boyfriend to cheat with me.We are a match made in Hell.How do I know she wont cheat..... I dont know and dont care.We have have/had a good time together and what she does on her own time is her business.

Did someone cheat on you alkemyst?Let it all out alkemyst.

 

[PHiuR]

good that youre getting out of it.
I just think cheating is so wrong especially when youre married.
if you think you need multiple partners in life then maybe youre better off not getting married (nothing wrong with that).
goodluck.

 

[eigen]

Thanks ATOT.I expected some more flames ( alkemyst was enough).But you guys were generally supportive.

In conclusion, I am actually feeling good about the future.Seems pretty bright.We will see where me in this other girl go ( prolly to her bed then the gutter).
Oh If you dont want your kids to turn out like me then...um...dont get married and remarried multiple times like my folks did.Kinda sets a precedent.

This is eigen signing off.

 

[KarenMarie]

Originally posted by: eigen
Thanks ATOT.I expected some more flames ( alkemyst was enough).But you guys were generally supportive.

In conclusion, I am actually feeling good about the future.Seems pretty bright.We will see where me in this other girl go ( prolly to her bed then the gutter).
Oh If you dont want your kids to turn out like me then...um...dont get married and remarried multiple times like my folks did.Kinda sets a precedent.

This is eigen signing off.

WOW..

so this is EVERYone elses fault.

You wife cause she nagged.
Your friends caused they blabbed.
You parents cause they divorced and remarried.

hahaha... you really are a lying sack of sh!t... but the worst of it is that you are lying to yourself.

Good Luck!

 

[dderidex]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie

Originally posted by: eigen
Thanks ATOT.I expected some more flames ( alkemyst was enough).But you guys were generally supportive.

In conclusion, I am actually feeling good about the future.Seems pretty bright.We will see where me in this other girl go ( prolly to her bed then the gutter).
Oh If you dont want your kids to turn out like me then...um...dont get married and remarried multiple times like my folks did.Kinda sets a precedent.

This is eigen signing off.

WOW..

so this is EVERYone elses fault.

You wife cause she nagged.
Your friends caused they blabbed.
You parents cause they divorced and remarried.

hahaha... you really are a lying sack of sh!t... but the worst of it is that you are lying to yourself.

Good Luck!

Ummm....he pretty much said in his first few posts that it was his fault.

But, ya know, don't let that get in the way of your man-hating or anything.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: eigen
Thanks ATOT.I expected some more flames ( alkemyst was enough).But you guys were generally supportive.

In conclusion, I am actually feeling good about the future.Seems pretty bright.We will see where me in this other girl go ( prolly to her bed then the gutter).
Oh If you dont want your kids to turn out like me then...um...dont get married and remarried multiple times like my folks did.Kinda sets a precedent.

This is eigen signing off.

already assuming the gutter?

If you realize what your parents did, then if you are affected by it you are either an idiot, or rejecting therapy. Go to a therapist and work it out if the latter.

In all of reality though, most get 'married' for comfort, then find a new comfort zone.

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

Originally posted by: Chrono
You're dumb. You think sex = love, don't you? HAHA.

i don't think he ever said that, and i would be careful calling someone with the username eigen dumb

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

Originally posted by: dderidex

Originally posted by: KarenMarie

Originally posted by: eigen
Thanks ATOT.I expected some more flames ( alkemyst was enough).But you guys were generally supportive.

In conclusion, I am actually feeling good about the future.Seems pretty bright.We will see where me in this other girl go ( prolly to her bed then the gutter).
Oh If you dont want your kids to turn out like me then...um...dont get married and remarried multiple times like my folks did.Kinda sets a precedent.

This is eigen signing off.

WOW..

so this is EVERYone elses fault.

You wife cause she nagged.
Your friends caused they blabbed.
You parents cause they divorced and remarried.

hahaha... you really are a lying sack of sh!t... but the worst of it is that you are lying to yourself.

Good Luck!

Ummm....he pretty much said in his first few posts that it was his fault.

But, ya know, don't let that get in the way of your man-hating or anything.

that's what happens when we let wimmens on the intarnet...they turn into man butch man hating dykes

 

[Miramonti]

Marrying early is certainly tough, no question about it.

But atleast you've matured and become a better man as you've gotten older. lol :laugh:

Seriously, on behalf of society, thanks for not procreating.

 

[Ismisus]

eigen, you are my hero

 

[KarenMarie]

hey.. i dont hate men... i love men.

i think that for the majority they are great. i perfer their company to womans most of the time.

but when some guy comes in and says he is getting divorced cause... his wife nagged, his friend blabbed and his parents divorced and remarried... well, he is exactly what he said he is...

and whenever you read that i posted anything negative about ALL men... let me know...

until then... dont read what i did not post.

thanks.

 

[Cobalt]

Originally posted by: eigen

Originally posted by: blazert40
So how old are you now?

Soon to be 25.

See thats the thing. Why are people getting married so young now? You just got lucky you realized you didn't want to waste (for the lack of a better word) your young years with someone that might not be right for you. I think thats why the divorce rate is so high now. People get married in their 20s but they weren't ready to settle down. They still have so much ahead of them, to experiance. Your early 20s is NO time to settle down and have kids, it's a time to get out into the world and make something of yourself.

I wouldn't want to get married until I was atleast 30. When people get tied down too early they feel like they missed out, especially guys. They might think about the people they could of been with, could of met, places they could of gone. Early 20s is no time for marriage IMHO.

 

[dderidex]

Originally posted by: cobalt
See thats the thing. Why are people getting married so young now? You just got lucky you realized you didn't want to waste (for the lack of a better word) your young years with someone that might not be right for you. I think thats why the divorce rate is so high now. People get married in their 20s but they weren't ready to settle down. They still have so much ahead of them, to experiance. Your early 20s is NO time to settle down and have kids, it's a time to get out into the world and make something of yourself.

I wouldn't want to get married until I was atleast 30. When people get tied down too early they feel like they missed out, especially guys. They might think about the people they could of been with, could of met, places they could of gone. Early 20s is no time for marriage IMHO.

[personal reason for marrying at 18]Ummm....because the country is going through a fundamentalist religious revival, and those of us raised in ultra-religious families aren't allowed to have any sexual contact before marriage? So you tend to get married VERY YOUNG.[/personal reason for marrying at 18]

That certainly couldn't have ANYTHING to do with it, could it?

I've never understood that fundie argument. People act shocked at the high divorce rate and blame it on 'secularization' of society. Then they act equally shocked at people having sex before/outside of marriage.

I mean, it's no surprise. Look, our species evolved to where it is because people have a VERY strong biological drive to have sex! You either allow for sex outside marriage to be socially acceptable, or you allow for a high rate of marriages-just-for-the-purpose-of-intimacy to fail.

The alternative of having the population just try and suppress their sex drive only increases the number and severity of sex crimes when individuals start to 'snap'.

 

[Cobalt]

Originally posted by: dderidex

Originally posted by: cobalt
See thats the thing. Why are people getting married so young now? You just got lucky you realized you didn't want to waste (for the lack of a better word) your young years with someone that might not be right for you. I think thats why the divorce rate is so high now. People get married in their 20s but they weren't ready to settle down. They still have so much ahead of them, to experiance. Your early 20s is NO time to settle down and have kids, it's a time to get out into the world and make something of yourself.

I wouldn't want to get married until I was atleast 30. When people get tied down too early they feel like they missed out, especially guys. They might think about the people they could of been with, could of met, places they could of gone. Early 20s is no time for marriage IMHO.

[personal reason for marrying at 18]Ummm....because the country is going through a fundamentalist religious revival, and those of us raised in ultra-religious families aren't allowed to have any sexual contact before marriage? So you tend to get married VERY YOUNG.[/personal reason for marrying at 18]

That certainly couldn't have ANYTHING to do with it, could it?

I've never understood that fundie argument. People act shocked at the high divorce rate and blame it on 'secularization' of society. Then they act equally shocked at people having sex before/outside of marriage.

I mean, it's no surprise. Look, our species evolved to where it is because people have a VERY strong biological drive to have sex! You either allow for sex outside marriage to be socially acceptable, or you allow for a high rate of marriages-just-for-the-purpose-of-intimacy to fail.

The alternative of having the population just try and suppress their sex drive only increases the number and severity of sex crimes when individuals start to 'snap'.

I think that's horse shit. Most of my generation would not be so tight-assed as to wait for marriage to have sex. I don't buy that for a second. I stick by what I said, it's not so much about the sex it's just people are to young to settle down at that age.

 

[dderidex]

Originally posted by: cobalt
I think that's horse shit. Most of my generation would not be so tight-assed as to wait for marriage to have sex. I don't buy that for a second. I stick by what I said, it's not so much about the sex it's just people are to young to settle down at that age.

I'd be REALLY surprised if anyone marrying at 18 was doing it because they really thought they were ready to 'settle down'.

Did you marry at 18?

No?

Then where do you get off stating why people do so?

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: dderidex

Originally posted by: cobalt
See thats the thing. Why are people getting married so young now? You just got lucky you realized you didn't want to waste (for the lack of a better word) your young years with someone that might not be right for you. I think thats why the divorce rate is so high now. People get married in their 20s but they weren't ready to settle down. They still have so much ahead of them, to experiance. Your early 20s is NO time to settle down and have kids, it's a time to get out into the world and make something of yourself.

I wouldn't want to get married until I was atleast 30. When people get tied down too early they feel like they missed out, especially guys. They might think about the people they could of been with, could of met, places they could of gone. Early 20s is no time for marriage IMHO.

[personal reason for marrying at 18]Ummm....because the country is going through a fundamentalist religious revival, and those of us raised in ultra-religious families aren't allowed to have any sexual contact before marriage? So you tend to get married VERY YOUNG.[/personal reason for marrying at 18]

That certainly couldn't have ANYTHING to do with it, could it?

I've never understood that fundie argument. People act shocked at the high divorce rate and blame it on 'secularization' of society. Then they act equally shocked at people having sex before/outside of marriage.

I mean, it's no surprise. Look, our species evolved to where it is because people have a VERY strong biological drive to have sex! You either allow for sex outside marriage to be socially acceptable, or you allow for a high rate of marriages-just-for-the-purpose-of-intimacy to fail.

The alternative of having the population just try and suppress their sex drive only increases the number and severity of sex crimes when individuals start to 'snap'.

That fundy religion thing might have something to do with your wife not giving any oral sex. That or that "alcohol" thing has something to do with me mixing you up with another member. Either/or.