YADivorceT: How long does it take...

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: Armitage

Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Look at it this way, at least you don't have to live in the walk in closet like I do a couple days a month

It's stuffy in here, thank god for Dell notebook deals & 802.11g:thumbsup:

(it's sorta dark too )

Uhm ... why do you live in a closet? More comfortable then the doghouse?

Doghouse is a good second choice, bad WiFi reception, but a large open area so I have a chance to escape...

Your ex didn't get PMS?

 

[Geekbabe]

Maybe I'm weird but the best healer for me after my divorce came from being alone.

I remember the 1st time grocery shopping after the spilt, I had no idea how disconnected I had become from my self till I was standing there and it dawned on me that though I could buy and cook anything I wanted for dinner that I had no idea of what it was that I wanted to eat

 

Originally posted by: Adica
Just move on...feeling sorry for yourself will not change anything. As in my signiture, 'feelings are uncontrolable, but behavior should always be controlled'

Yeah, what she said. Armitage, I understand that it can be hard, but sometimes we make excuses for everything. Maybe this is what's happening here. Didn't you go on a date not too long ago? So why not just start again and go through the process like anyone else? It's hard for single, never married men too, I suppose. You can't stay depressed and think about your past often. I'm not saying that I expect you to get over everything suddenly, but I don't think blaming your divorce for your low spirit and all that goes wrong is any good either. Cheer up!