Does it ever happen?
It's been a really bad day. It's gotta get better sometime, because I can't keep this up
It's been a really bad day. It's gotta get better sometime, because I can't keep this up
YADivorceT: How long does it take...
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Dr. Detroit
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Best way to get over it is find some tramp ass slut and get her good and liquored up and bring her home and grudge F the living S out of her while having her beg for more.
Guranteed to make you feel alive once again and realize life is really good!
$1K to two fine call girls for a little Menage a Trois action will surely get you upbeat as well.
Guranteed to make you feel alive once again and realize life is really good!
$1K to two fine call girls for a little Menage a Trois action will surely get you upbeat as well.
Well, I got divorced about a year ago, and most of the time now I feel normal. Except that we're going thru a lot of continued money and custody litigation, which kicks me back into crazy again for a while.
I remember about 7 - 8 months after the divorce, I was sitting around one day and I just thought, hey, why don't I go out with somebody and have a good time? It took about that long for me to get comfortable hanging out with the opposite sex again. Now I'm fine with that.
I remember about 7 - 8 months after the divorce, I was sitting around one day and I just thought, hey, why don't I go out with somebody and have a good time? It took about that long for me to get comfortable hanging out with the opposite sex again. Now I'm fine with that.
Just move on...feeling sorry for yourself will not change anything. As in my signiture, 'feelings are uncontrolable, but behavior should always be controlled'
Figure at least a year...probably 2.
It'll be 2 years at the end of Feb. for me and I'm just now really getting into a groove in life again.
It'll be 2 years at the end of Feb. for me and I'm just now really getting into a groove in life again.
After my first divorce, I didn't even think about dating until about a month later. I asked a nice looking blonde with a hot bod if she'd just like to go to dinner. That's all I wanted and expected, but it turned into a drunk fvckfest a couple hours later. I woke up feeling like a new man and that was the start of getting over my painful divorce.
About six months later, the pain was mostly gone, but I didn't have any kids at the time.
I know what you're going through, time will make you feel better but meanwhile, get out and socialize, I guarantee you'll feel better, especially if you can hook up with a slut.
Edit: Even my ex-sister in law told me that the best medicine for the way I was feeling was to get laid. Those were her exact words! Too bad I couldn't have hooked up with her, she was a really hot US Air flight attendant. I wouldn't have dated her or anything, but it would have been an ideal grudge fvck for me.
About six months later, the pain was mostly gone, but I didn't have any kids at the time.
I know what you're going through, time will make you feel better but meanwhile, get out and socialize, I guarantee you'll feel better, especially if you can hook up with a slut.
Edit: Even my ex-sister in law told me that the best medicine for the way I was feeling was to get laid. Those were her exact words! Too bad I couldn't have hooked up with her, she was a really hot US Air flight attendant. I wouldn't have dated her or anything, but it would have been an ideal grudge fvck for me.
Pliablemoose
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It took me a couple of years...
Not everyday you get your heart ripped out & shown to you in public.
Biggest trick is to not do a knee jerk remarriage, tendancy is to marry someone completely oppisite of your ex, and you really don't want that, you want someone between the 2 extremes.
Not everyday you get your heart ripped out & shown to you in public.
Biggest trick is to not do a knee jerk remarriage, tendancy is to marry someone completely oppisite of your ex, and you really don't want that, you want someone between the 2 extremes.
Or you could hook up with a 50 year old man that will pay you cash to DH1TB as per the locked thread.
Originally posted by: Armitage
Does it ever happen?
It's been a really bad day. It's gotta get better sometime, because I can't keep this up
Hang in there, man.
If you are finding things tough, you may find that it is a good idea to talk with a counselor, pastor, confidant, or etc.
maybe for some, i got laid (and laid well) by a girl in her 20s (i'm... older) and although it eased the pain while it lasted i found it to be superficial at best.
I don't feel sorry for myself ... I'm just fvcking pissed off/angry/depressed (no, that's not the same as feeling sorry for yourself).
MaxDepth
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Never married but engaged and cohabited for 5 years.
After the break-up it took eight months. Many things like unforwarded mail of hers, first times (events or ocassions whene we were no longer a couple. e.g. birthdays, holidays), and simply coming home to an empty house always had a chance of bumming me out.
But some posters here are correct about sex. I spent a weekend at the beach (Wilmington, NC). My cousin living there introduced me to Wilmington's Hawain Tropic model. The next morning as I stood on the balcony, looking back in the bedroom at her lying there, I realized it was the first morning that I didn't wake up and automatically think about my ex. I want to say that I felt like I should feel guilty for not thinking about the ex, but at that point, I didn't care anymore. I can remember me smiling then, going back in and kissing that pert sweet ass and then making breakfast for us.
Knowing that someone else besides your ex wants your bod is powerful medicine.
And later on when your ex realizes just how good you were in the sack and hasn't had anyone else equal you is the best revenge.
After the break-up it took eight months. Many things like unforwarded mail of hers, first times (events or ocassions whene we were no longer a couple. e.g. birthdays, holidays), and simply coming home to an empty house always had a chance of bumming me out.
But some posters here are correct about sex. I spent a weekend at the beach (Wilmington, NC). My cousin living there introduced me to Wilmington's Hawain Tropic model. The next morning as I stood on the balcony, looking back in the bedroom at her lying there, I realized it was the first morning that I didn't wake up and automatically think about my ex. I want to say that I felt like I should feel guilty for not thinking about the ex, but at that point, I didn't care anymore. I can remember me smiling then, going back in and kissing that pert sweet ass and then making breakfast for us.
Knowing that someone else besides your ex wants your bod is powerful medicine.
And later on when your ex realizes just how good you were in the sack and hasn't had anyone else equal you is the best revenge.
Pliablemoose
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Look at it this way, at least you don't have to live in the walk in closet like I do a couple days a month
It's stuffy in here, thank god for Dell notebook deals & 802.11g:thumbsup:
(it's sorta dark too )
It's stuffy in here, thank god for Dell notebook deals & 802.11g:thumbsup:
(it's sorta dark too
)Originally posted by: Pliablemoose
Look at it this way, at least you don't have to live in the walk in closet like I do a couple days a month
It's stuffy in here, thank god for Dell notebook deals & 802.11g:thumbsup:
(it's sorta dark too
Uhm ... why do you live in a closet? More comfortable then the doghouse?
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