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[lokiju]

Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
What's five years older than you? If you're 18 and she's 23 then I'd say it believable that she's that busy. What's the work? Do you both do the same thing?

It's also possible that she's just trying to force it slow....ya know the phrase "fools rush in blah blah blah". Or maybe it's just a bad week for her...

No offense PG, but I think you're assuming a helluva lot with what very little info we have to go on.

We work for the same company but I don't get into the office much, which she works in, maybe tops 2 days a week for an hour or so, but can be weeks or even over a month sometimes before I get into the office.

I'm 25 and she's 29 going on 30.

 

[PG]

Originally posted by: Gooberlx2
What's five years older than you? If you're 18 and she's 23 then I'd say it believable that she's that busy. What's the work? Do you both do the same thing?

It's also possible that she's just trying to force it slow....ya know the phrase "fools rush in blah blah blah". Or maybe it's just a bad week for her...

No offense PG, but I think you're assuming a helluva lot with what very little info we have to go on.

I know I could be way off, but it's something to think about....

Any updates blazert40?

 

[electricJ]

Sounds like you've already got stuck in the "friend zone"

 

[gigapet]

if a girl likes you she will go to extremes to hang around you. Its clear she isn't interested. I'd call off the saturday plans and leave her alone. She'll come back if she really is interested.

This should be obvious to you. Go get 10 more girls numbers and keep trying.

stop being a needy bastard.

 

[Cal166]

Don't waste your money, been there done that.

 

[apologetic]

Originally posted by: PG
I would back WAY OFF if I were you.
My bet is that she has wanted to have fun with you on certain occasions, especially when drinking and out in a group, but she probably isn't looking for any real relationship and that's the reason she's blowing you off. She wants things on her terms.
If you keep pushing then you could end up "making her feel uncomfortable" which is one step away from "harassment" and that's one step away from getting booted out the door.
Sorry to be blunt and it's not as if you've done anything wrong. I just want to help a fellow guy stay out of trouble. She seems like trouble with a capital T.

 

[necine]

sex... wild and unadulterated.

 

[HomeBrewerDude]

Take her to a play. Even if it sucks it will give you something to talk about.

 

[iwantanewcomputer]

tell her to stay at her computer browsing ATOT all night while you are sending her tantilizing pms all night

 

[huesmann]

Originally posted by: blazert40
I'm 25 and she's 29 going on 30.

Dude, knock the bottom out of that!

 

[Doboji]

Trust me on this.... Comedy club

That way you don't have to work as hard to make her laugh....

-Max

 

[Pepsei]

i dislike syringered yagt posts.

 

[Doboji]

agreed....

Motion for a ban

 

[lokiju]

WTF? How the hell did this get bumped?

Nothing happening with her, she stood me up and I've stopped talking her, not worth my time IMO.

Looking now for other options and realize I was over thinking it.


I went out last weekend and really did have a great time and got the number of two girls, made me realize why bother wasting time on a chick I don't click with?

 

[lokiju]

Originally posted by: necine
sex... wild and unadulterated.

You offering?

 

[newParadigm]

Ya know wahts weird, every girl i've dated, i've been freinds for like mutliple years beforehand.

 

[lokiju]

Originally posted by: newParadime
Ya know wahts weird, every girl i've dated, i've been freinds for like mutliple years beforehand.

Same with me for the ones that have lasted somewhat.

 

[Pepsei]

thanks for the update. i needed closure.

 

[lokiju]

Originally posted by: Pepsei
thanks for the update. i needed closure.

No problem.

:beer: