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why is she shrugging you off? do you think she's really that busy? sounds like there's not as much chemistry as usually accompanies the courtship period. it's usually hot & amazing and you can't get enough (hanging out i mean - duh!). 😛

i say go back to the Palm sisters. 😉
 
Originally posted by: meltdown75
why is she shrugging you off? do you think she's really that busy? sounds like there's not as much chemistry as usually accompanies the courtship period. it's usually hot & amazing and you can't get enough (hanging out i mean - duh!). 😛

i say go back to the Palm sisters. 😉
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I have no f'ing clue, but that's an issue already, though when we're together she's very touchy feeley and we have a good time, though its been only a few times that we've spent any time together, and I wouldn't even bother trying to do anything with her EVERY night this past week if it wasn't for her saying she wanted to. I'm really starting to think that she's just that way about things but in the back of my head know its most likely not the case.

Thats why I'm going to give it my best shot on Saturday, if it goes horrible then I'm planning on just calling the whole thing off, I'm am very attracted to her looks wise and she came on to me to start with but if there's not chemistry then its just not going to work as far as I'm concerned.

Guess I'll see this weekend as far as that goes.

 
Originally posted by: iroast
if you're talkative, that's a plus. just don't be a motormouth heh
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I'm talkative when I'm comfortable, but being that I'm not very comfortable with her, it's going to be something I'll have to struggle with.
 
Originally posted by: blazert40
Originally posted by: meltdown75
why is she shrugging you off? do you think she's really that busy? sounds like there's not as much chemistry as usually accompanies the courtship period. it's usually hot & amazing and you can't get enough (hanging out i mean - duh!). 😛

i say go back to the Palm sisters. 😉
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I have no f'ing clue, but that's an issue already, though when we're together she's very touchy feeley and we have a good time, though its been only a few times that we've spent any time together, and I wouldn't even bother trying to do anything with her EVERY night this past week if it wasn't for her saying she wanted to. I'm really starting to think that she's just that way about things but in the back of my head know its most likely not the case.

Thats why I'm going to give it my best shot on Saturday, if it goes horrible then I'm planning on just calling the whole thing off, I'm am very attracted to her looks wise and she came on to me to start with but if there's not chemistry then its just not going to work as far as I'm concerned.

Guess I'll see this weekend as far as that goes.
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Did you uh - tap it yet? ehheh! g3t teh s3x0rz!!

just kidding. good luck with it.
 
Originally posted by: chuckywang
dinner and a movie is always classic.
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Movie was my second option, though I'm not sure which one, maybe Cinderella Man?

And she doesn't like Star Wars!! that broke my heart!
 
Have a few shots before you go out with her, or a few hits, depending on your preference. That should loosen you up.
 
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: blazert40
Originally posted by: meltdown75
why is she shrugging you off? do you think she's really that busy? sounds like there's not as much chemistry as usually accompanies the courtship period. it's usually hot & amazing and you can't get enough (hanging out i mean - duh!). 😛

i say go back to the Palm sisters. 😉
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I have no f'ing clue, but that's an issue already, though when we're together she's very touchy feeley and we have a good time, though its been only a few times that we've spent any time together, and I wouldn't even bother trying to do anything with her EVERY night this past week if it wasn't for her saying she wanted to. I'm really starting to think that she's just that way about things but in the back of my head know its most likely not the case.

Thats why I'm going to give it my best shot on Saturday, if it goes horrible then I'm planning on just calling the whole thing off, I'm am very attracted to her looks wise and she came on to me to start with but if there's not chemistry then its just not going to work as far as I'm concerned.

Guess I'll see this weekend as far as that goes.
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Did you uh - tap it yet? ehheh! g3t teh s3x0rz!!

just kidding. good luck with it.
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Nope, not even close!

I was ridding in my car and said to her "I'm going to try something, hold out your hand" and she looked at me all weird, I'm not sure why?
























j/k!




But really though we've kissed (lips only) a number couple of times and of course the whole holding hands thing and hugging.

Nothing overly exciting but still something I guess.


 
Originally posted by: huesmann
Have a few shots before you go out with her, or a few hits, depending on your preference. That should loosen you up.
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That would likely make me feel better, but at the same time, I'm fare skinned and my face usually gets pretty red when drinking, so that would be kind of hard to hide!


BTW I hardly drink anymore.
 
Originally posted by: huesmann
Have a few shots before you go out with her, or a few hits, depending on your preference. That should loosen you up.
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some lines will do as well. tickle your anus while you're at it.






obligatory WTF
 
do something active:

kayaking (you know, where she wears a string bikini and you splash water on her in the normal course of business)

Jogging at the track (where you can check out her can as she runs in front of you. this is also applicable to roller blading and hitting the stair master at the gym)

Bowling (see jogging)

The problem with comedy show/movie/anything involving seeing someone perform is that you don't get to interact as much.

I know that didn't really help, but good luck!
 
Originally posted by: jaedaliu
do something active:

kayaking (you know, where she wears a string bikini and you splash water on her in the normal course of business)

Jogging at the track (where you can check out her can as she runs in front of you. this is also applicable to roller blading and hitting the stair master at the gym)

Bowling (see jogging)

The problem with comedy show/movie/anything involving seeing someone perform is that you don't get to interact as much.

I know that didn't really help, but good luck!
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I'd make it worse if I tried to be atheltic, come on this is a computer forum! 😛

One thing I like about the comedy club over a movie is that we can still talk somewhat, but then again in a movie I don't HAVE to talk.
 
Originally posted by: blazert40
Originally posted by: huesmann
Have a few shots before you go out with her, or a few hits, depending on your preference. That should loosen you up.
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That would likely make me feel better, but at the same time, I'm fare skinned and my face usually gets pretty red when drinking, so that would be kind of hard to hide!


BTW I hardly drink anymore.
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Some foundation will hide your pinkness. 😉
 
First off, you're breaking the work + hanky panky rule.
Second, you've already kissed her, forget the date and just bring her back to your place before you end up in the "friend zone"
 
I would back WAY OFF if I were you.
My bet is that she has wanted to have fun with you on certain occasions, especially when drinking and out in a group, but she probably isn't looking for any real relationship and that's the reason she's blowing you off. She wants things on her terms.
If you keep pushing then you could end up "making her feel uncomfortable" which is one step away from "harassment" and that's one step away from getting booted out the door.
Sorry to be blunt and it's not as if you've done anything wrong. I just want to help a fellow guy stay out of trouble. She seems like trouble with a capital T.



 
What's five years older than you? If you're 18 and she's 23 then I'd say it believable that she's that busy. What's the work? Do you both do the same thing?

It's also possible that she's just trying to force it slow....ya know the phrase "fools rush in blah blah blah". Or maybe it's just a bad week for her...

No offense PG, but I think you're assuming a helluva lot with what very little info we have to go on.
 
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