YACT - Let my buddy borrow my truck ***added pics***

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JDMnAR1

Lifer
May 12, 2003
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Originally posted by: GeekDrew
First - calm down.

Then, go to the person that *asked you* if the truck could be borrowed, or the person you handed the keys to, and ask him about it.

Yep, and then vote for the other guy. ;)

 

nakedfrog

No Lifer
Apr 3, 2001
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Eh, doesn't look all that bad. Not to say I wouldn't be upset, but I was picturing something worse.
 

Blieb

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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Eh, doesn't look all that bad. Not to say I wouldn't be upset, but I was picturing something worse.

It's worse in person ... pics don't convey the cosmetic ugliness good enough ... too much glare
 

Doboji

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May 18, 2001
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Go get a quote to have it fixed.... then simply ask the guys who borrowed it to pay for it.

If they give you sh!t about it. Send them registered mail containing the quote, pics of the damage, a description of the situation, and again request they pay for it.

They'll belly up to the bar.

-Max
 

dabuddha

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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Damn dude, you shouldn't have loaned your truck. But either way, that's just unacceptable.
 

ahurtt

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Well on the one hand, it is a pickup truck. Did you really expect to keep it in shiny new condition forever? (assuming you use it for what pick up trucks are meant to be used for) Cars are not investments for this reason. . .they wear out and depreciate rapidly. That is why I will never buy an expensive car or get too bent out of shape when mine gets a little dinged up. On the other hand, it sucks that you didn't get to scratch it up yourself but had somebody, supposedly a "friend", do it for you and the guy didn't mention it or apologize when he brought back the truck. But keep a cool head. . .maybe somebody else did it when he wasn't looking and he honestly didn't see it happen and doesn't know about it. Flying off the handle and jumping to conclusions isn't going to help anything. Check the grill to see if you can find any evidence that it has some of your trucks paint on it first. Build up some evidence and then lead him into a line of questioning where he ends up incriminating himself before you just pop out first with "did you F up my truck?" Gotta play it tactfully.
 

mcvickj

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Dec 13, 2001
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I know I would feel like crap if I scratched a vehicle that wasn't mine. I'd own up to what happened and tell the owner. I would ask the guy and see what he does.
 

Blieb

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Originally posted by: ahurtt
Well on the one hand, it is a pickup truck. Did you really expect to keep it in shiny new condition forever? (assuming you use it for what pick up trucks are meant to be used for) Cars are not investments for this reason. . .they wear out and depreciate rapidly. That is why I will never buy an expensive car or get too bent out of shape when mine gets a little dinged up. On the other hand, it sucks that you didn't get to scratch it up yourself but had somebody, supposedly a "friend", do it for you and the guy didn't mention it or apologize when he brought back the truck. But keep a cool head. . .maybe somebody else did it when he wasn't looking and he honestly didn't see it happen and doesn't know about it. Flying off the handle and jumping to conclusions isn't going to help anything. Check the grill to see if you can find any evidence that it has some of your trucks paint on it first. Build up some evidence and then lead him into a line of questioning where he ends up incriminating himself before you just pop out first with "did you F up my truck?" Gotta play it tactfully.


hahahahah this made me raf.

It's been shiny and new for 8 years ... so yes, I expected it to continue to be shiny and sh!t through the weekend.

I don't get bend out of shape over dings and scratches. This was abuse, negligence, and lack of respect.

There's a grease puddle in my truck. They leaned the grill over. Plain as day.

I won't go off the handle ... I'm gonna be tactful ... let's just hope they see my way.



 

Blieb

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Apr 17, 2000
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Originally posted by: Doboji
Go get a quote to have it fixed.... then simply ask the guys who borrowed it to pay for it.

If they give you sh!t about it. Send them registered mail containing the quote, pics of the damage, a description of the situation, and again request they pay for it.

They'll belly up to the bar.

-Max


Yeah I'm gonna get a quote tomorrow ... thx
 

JDMnAR1

Lifer
May 12, 2003
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Originally posted by: ahurtt
Well on the one hand, it is a pickup truck. Did you really expect to keep it in shiny new condition forever? (assuming you use it for what pick up trucks are meant to be used for).

Thanks for playing, but most people I know who use their trucks as trucks (myself included) don't generally haul cargo on the outside of the bed where it would scratch exterior paint. I can certainly see that attitude for inside the cargo area - but fenders/body panels? :disgust:
 

jadinolf

Lifer
Oct 12, 1999
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Originally posted by: TheSlamma
A fact I learned a long time ago, MOST people just do not care about your stuff.

"Respect" for people and their property is not a natural thing for Americans.

Scratch Americans and substitute "some people". :(
 

ahurtt

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Originally posted by: Blieb
Originally posted by: ahurtt
Well on the one hand, it is a pickup truck. Did you really expect to keep it in shiny new condition forever? (assuming you use it for what pick up trucks are meant to be used for) Cars are not investments for this reason. . .they wear out and depreciate rapidly. That is why I will never buy an expensive car or get too bent out of shape when mine gets a little dinged up. On the other hand, it sucks that you didn't get to scratch it up yourself but had somebody, supposedly a "friend", do it for you and the guy didn't mention it or apologize when he brought back the truck. But keep a cool head. . .maybe somebody else did it when he wasn't looking and he honestly didn't see it happen and doesn't know about it. Flying off the handle and jumping to conclusions isn't going to help anything. Check the grill to see if you can find any evidence that it has some of your trucks paint on it first. Build up some evidence and then lead him into a line of questioning where he ends up incriminating himself before you just pop out first with "did you F up my truck?" Gotta play it tactfully.


hahahahah this made me raf.

It's been shiny and new for 8 years ... so yes, I expected it to continue to be shiny and sh!t through the weekend.

I don't get bend out of shape over dings and scratches. This was abuse, negligence, and lack of respect.

There's a grease puddle in my truck. They leaned the grill over. Plain as day.

I won't go off the handle ... I'm gonna be tactful ... let's just hope they see my way.

8 years huh? well that's a pretty good run. But something was bound to happen like this sooner or later. That's all I was saying.
 

Pepsei

Lifer
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it's a truck, when i haul heavy ass servers... i expect stuff like this, however, you are the only person who can scratch up your own truck , pretty much.... so chew them out.
 

Blieb

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Apr 17, 2000
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They knew about the damage and were waiting for me to say something.

They're going to take care of it, they were just bitches and were hoping I wouldn't notice, I guess ... @@ Standup guys ... when called out ... *sigh*

I'm going to take it to the body shop for an estimate ...

*phew*
 

geno

Lifer
Dec 26, 1999
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Originally posted by: TheSlamma
A fact I learned a long time ago, MOST people just do not care about your stuff.

"Respect" for people and their property is not a natural thing for humans.

fixed.