by the time I was 15 I had had hair on my balls for years, and I was fapping fruitlessly and looking at pictures of naked women even before that.
When I turned 16 I had had sex with 3 different girls and *checks puls* I'm still here, I don't have any kids and consider myself a well rounded, responsible adult. Safe and responsible sex is something you're either taught or learn the hard way, not something that magically comes with age. Thankfully I had great parents who weren't prudish about sex or alcohol and told me all I needed to know and made sure I always had condoms (My dad usually offered me a beer after I had my girlfriend over and we'd talk a little, we aren't all that great with emotions in my family so drinking a beer and watching sports is about as close as me and my dad will ever get to say "I love you son/dad").
edit: infact, had this been me in this situation my mom would have just said "good for him" and read a magazine as she waited for me to finish up. (inb4 it wouldn't have been a long wait jokes

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