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Wuts Wrong With WOmen these days!!!

Buttzilla

Buttzilla

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you know....man...i ... women these days i swear! they all think that us men are mind readers or something. GOD dammit! if u have a problem then friggin say it! dont' just sit there and be all quiet and $h!t. i know i'm venting right now. It just that i'm in this relationship where things were kool when we first met...no expectations, no obligations...cause we were like 'hey, we're both kewl and not ready for anything serious', we just got out of stupid relationships and understands eachothers problems, and now,
a couple of months passed she forgets all we talk about and is becoming wut i hate! arrghhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
WHY WHY WHY!
i've always believed that communication is the key to a great and healthy relationship. If theres a problem, bring it up in a nice and mature way. always use 'i', so u don't make the other feel uncomfortable and stuff. like "i feel this...and i feel that...'

i dont know guys...especially those members here that are married ( no pun intended) how do u do it. do u just give in and just say sorry?
just for the sake of the relationship...i mean come on! i feel that if i'm not wrong...i mean, for sure i'm not wrong, i'm not gonna apologize. in my pass relationships i used to always give in...then one of my friends told me why do i do it? if ur not wrong then don't apologize, that they need to know that they (the women) too are at fault sometimes also.

i really donnt know wut i'm getting at here...i just want to vent a little.
 
Just because you're in a dysfunctional relationship doesn't mean there is something wrong with Women.

Maybe you chose poorly. Maybe there is something wrong with You. 😉
 


<< Just because you're in a dysfunctional relationship doesn't mean there is something wrong with Women.

Maybe you chose poorly. Maybe there is something wrong with You. 😉 >>



Actually, I think Maul's right.
 
Your view isn't very surprising comming from someone named buttzilla. :Q

lol...
 
Sounds like yo bitch ain't repectin' you, man. She gots to get in line.

I'd punch da bitch in da mouf and say "why you makin' me hit you?"

If she call da cops, I'd have one of my boys bust a cap.

Wurd.
 
She knows which buttons to push and you respond with the expected behavoir 😉 She evidently has you "Buggin" so my question is; what was her mood like when last you saw her??? I ask because you present situation reminds of a storyIt goes like this-----I'm taking a nap on the couch when my 4 year old Daughter stabs me with a pencil! I wake up screaming in pain, and this results in frightening my daughter who begins to cry. I hug her and tell her it's O.K. daddy was just startled and I say "I'm sorry sweetie, Daddy is sorry, he didn't mean to scare you" That's when looking over my daughter's shoulder I see my wife leaning against the doorway and nodding her head and smiling 😕 Then it hits me why she's smiling like that; Because my 4 year old daughter has already learned how to hurt men and make them appologize to her for it 😉
 
sorry if i make it sound like all women are like this...it just feels i'm being tested half the time we're together now. I came to believe that we had a mutual understanding since we just came from similar relationships. I wanted to take this one slow...start out as friends....we've been close friends for 4 months before we became mutually exclusive to each other. but when we decided to be exclusive, thats when things changed. then came the expecations, then came the testing, she starts to test me on how much i want her, the extent to which i would go to be w/ her.

games...wuts up w/ that. she's playing games, you don't play games w/ a person you agreed not to, especially if you already establised something.
 
For a guy who believes that "communications is the key", you haven't given us much to go on here...lol

If you're just noticing that women don't act like men....well, brace yourself for many new revelations during the upcoming years. You've probably shrugged off the "men are from Mars, women are from Venus" talk, but it's much truer than you'd think. Women don't want the same thing from a conversation that men do. As you suggest, men generally want to have real content in their conversations like "what's the problem" and then let's agree on a solution. Women generally engage in conversation to share feelings. They'll talk about problems, but they're more interested in how you feel about these problems and want to be sure you know how they feel about them too. They want to feel at the end of a conversation that you have validated their concerns. They usually do not want you to dismiss their concerns by telling them there's no real problem thanks to your solution.

I'm afraid you'll also find that it will be necessary from time to time to apologize for something that you don't really think you did wrong. I suggest you start by looking at how the other person reacted to whatever you did, and (assuming you didn't mean to trigger that reaction) you can say you are sorry (i.e. apologize) that your actions triggered that reaction. You can explain how you meant your actions to be interpretted, and ask the person to help you come up with a better way of going about whatever it was you were trying to accomplish.

Good luck!
 


<< i've always believed that communication is the key to a great and healthy relationship. If theres a problem, bring it up in a nice and mature way. always use 'i', so u don't make the other feel uncomfortable and stuff. like "i feel this...and i feel that...' >>

You are on your way to developing a great and healthy relationship with ATOT then. You'd need to communicate with your girlfriend to have her understand what the problem is - - unless she browses here in Off Topic & knows you are Buttzilla.
 
wuts wrong w/ a little humor? Buttzilla...wut does my name have to do w/ my personality...
do i see RGN and say "wut the hells wrong w/ RGN...wut no sense of Identity or wut" i'm not capping on ur name
just respect me thats it.
 
Did you even read my story? Are you mental? She's manipulating you because she knows your going to put up with it! Furthermore, she right 😉 She knows all you'll do is go whine and lick your nuts to your guy friends 😛
 
yeah i read ur story Dapunisher. so, now that u know that even ur daughter can turn things around like that...how do you react to it. Wut if she does it again later? are you gonna be like...'hehehe, i know ur game now' and change things? basically wut ur saying is that ur gonna let her step all over u and people are gonna interpret it and say its because she's 'daddy's little girl'
 
My advice to you is when she pushes your buttons, don't react. Appear indifferent despite any threats or further "button pushing" Refuse to salivate when she rings the bell because in the end analysis that is essentially the dynamic at work. Tell her your willing to lucidly discuss anything under the bright yellow sun and that your willing to compromise but that your not going to capitulate to her need for an appology because she knows as well as you that it would be you caving in and that she'd begin loosing respect for you because you kiss her ass and call her queen and no long-term relationship can survive unless mutual trust and respect are there. If she remains intractable then you need to come to the healthy conclusion that she's a manipulative bitch and inform her that either she be reasonable or......BE GONE!!!
 
i know wut ur saying...but you know when it comes down to it, putting ur foot down, thats the hard part. i'll keep wut u said in mind the next time something like this comes up. i'll be like biatziach! stop fuking w/ me head! and lates!
 


<< i know wut ur saying...but you know when it comes down to it, putting ur foot down, thats the hard part. i'll keep wut u said in mind the next time something like this comes up. i'll be like biatziach! stop fuking w/ me head! and lates! >>



1. Dude, are you 12?

2. You can't type, I have No idea what the hell you are trying to convey. Either you are, as stated above, 12 years old...OR, you are retarded beyond all possible hope.

3. *put emphasis on 1 and 2*
 
Damn dude! if I'd known it could be condensed to one short sentence by using ebonics it would have saved a lot of typing 🙂
 
women like drama. it inspires anger, passion, conflicted emotions, hesitation, and driving us lesser males absophukinlutely nuts. A woman without drama, is a woman without excitement. I'm sure it's all about make up sex, but they also seem to just like toying with our emotions.
 
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