Fair enough, if you have a strong attachment to a character from the very beginning I can understand it more. I kind of like the creative side of things though, where people try and do an interesting take on a traditional character/theme/genre. It can be so much fun if done well, though it's often not done well. :\
FWIW I liked 3 as well, though I did not like a lot of the action parts, more of the story bits. The personal side of Spiderman is what makes him such a great character with a relatable story, more than a character like Batman who is not really relatable at all (I like Batman a lot, but more because of the cool baddassery than the personal, character side of things).
KT