WTF? i am feeling incredibly stressed right now.

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Rufio

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I was feeling fine at work

Then my g/f called me, and told me some real bad news about some stuff.

now i can't stop being INCREDIBLY stressed. I have that feeling like something bad is going to happen. Something real bad.

AAAGHGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!

**i feel better, updated below**
 
Platypus

Platypus

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it's time like this when you just close your eyes and kiss cause everything after this is just bullshlt and being cruel.
 
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Rufio

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is this a panic attack??

here is the bad news:

my grandpa has very bad failing health

my g/f's grandma has emergency surgery right now. kidneys failed. she is dying.

my uncle has jsut been diagnosed with liver cancer.

i cannot get any results done at work. no one replies to my repeated requests.

i am highly annoyed at some people at work.

i cannot get anhyone to do anything i need to get done at work. and they are supposed to do this stuff.

my mom is in taiwan taking care of my uncle and she is doing real bad too. she si a mess. i am very worried for her.

money issues.

oh man. oh man. i feel so wound up rightnow.
 
Azraele

Azraele

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Wow, that's rough. Naturally, you're going to feel stressed given the circumstances. The best you can do is try to handle each issue as it comes, day by day. Don't let the whole overwhelm you. To combat stress, get some exercise and give yourself some quiet time to sort things out or to just relax for a second. And, as always, with time, these things will pass.

My thoughts with you and your loved ones.
 
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ajpa123

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Hey Rufio,
Sounds like you should be stressed, it's natural with the amount of problems you're facing. Just deal with it like you are.. like a man :beer:
If you're at work, drive home carefully tonite, you sound really distracted and stressed, keep your mind on the road.
Get home, have a nice meal and a beer :) and hopefully things will get better !
 
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Rufio

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i am getting off work at 3pm pst.

i have to drive to meet someone for an appt for my otehr side business.

then i ahve to go to my grandpas and take care of him, feed him, take him for a walk aroud the courtyard.

then i have to go home and help my g/f.

we have tickets to a show tonite that iv'e been looking forward to . i don't think we can go. it's non refundable. and i saved up for a long tmie for the tickets.

and then i have to talk to my mom and uncle and help them get stuff situatined in USA.

i want to go home and drink some beer instead. AGH
 
Azraele

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Take it one step at a time. Some things are out of your hands, other things will work themselves out.
 
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Rufio

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Originally posted by: Azraele
Take it one step at a time. Some things are out of your hands, other things will work themselves out.
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thanks.

thanks all for the words.

i want to be a Superman and save everyone from thse problems.

i think it has caught up with me and i am super panicknig.

i awnt to throw up and cry all at once.
 
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Electric Amish

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You're problem is that you care too much.

My grandmother just had a heart attack and went into the hospital for a quad-bypass. Do you see me whining? No. It's because I really don't care. She'll either die or she'll live. Nothing I can do about it.
 
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Originally posted by: Electric Amish
You're problem is that you care too much.

My grandmother just had a heart attack and went into the hospital for a quad-bypass. Do you see me whining? No. It's because I really don't care. She'll either die or she'll live. Nothing I can do about it.
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Some people have emotions ;)

 
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Pennstate

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try this trick. It works amazingly well. Take a soup bowl, scream as loud as u can into it for 5 seconds. It works.:)
 
Azraele

Azraele

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It's nice that you want to help with all the problems and be Superman. Even Superman, though was not perfect. You can let yourself be overwhelmed or you'll end up like Superman with a ton of kryptonite around. When problems like that arise, it can feel (to me anyway) like things speed up. Things can be a blur and feel like they go by too fast to do anything about.

It's ok to cry. It's ok to feel the way you do.
 
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gwlam12

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i think he 's saying that after talking to his gf, he feels stressed for no reason at all.
 
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imported_Tomato

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I hope everything's okay, Rufio. :( *big hugs* Feel free to call me if you need to talk... hang in there, and take things one step at a time.
 
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