wtf (girl problems)

[Buttzilla]

you know what??? there are no expectaions!!! that is the key to every friendship...because you two are still just friends! when or if you do become something more than that then their are still no expectations! your assuming things will happed between you two and thats just not the way it goes man.

 

[Valhalla2000]

Never trust the NET.

 

[Brandino]

I would say true, but then again I can never find any girls that are my type in the real world (read: gaming chicks-please don't make fun of me). I've tried and perhaps I haven't tried hard enough, but no luck there.

the reason I say gaming chicks is because they have a lot in common with me and are easy to talk to and actually give a damn about what I do in my spare time (be a loser computer geek).

 

[Weyoun]

Brandino:

I've basically been in the position you are in now. I've met a girl that means the world to me, i would literally die for her, but again, i dont know what she thinks of me for a multitude of reasons. First being that she's leaving the country in 3 weeks. Hell i have problems without seeing/talking to her over the weekend let alone 6 weeks of holidays....

And what the people here are saying is true, the people out there are just like you. Here's a poem anna (the girl) gave me, one of her friends wrote it.

reality

i want to write a poem
about who people really are,
and how they build defensive walls
to keep themselfs afar,
from people just like themselfs
on that they must abide,
by the rules and pressures
that create the person that's inside.

i want to write a poem
about what people really think,
and how they should be a massive chain,
and not a tiny link.

They try to be the best they are,
and think it's not enough.
Rely to much on luck and fate,
and life becomes to tough.

I want to write a poem that says,
what people have become,
they hide their souls inside their shells,
don't realise that it's dumb.

to hide themselfs behind a wall
away from prying eyes,
of people all just like themselves,
creatures in disguse.

People who try to be somebody else,
because they think they won't be accepted,
for who they really are.

This was written by a 16 year old, and it literally describes me down to a T. I was under teh impression i was the only one who thought like this, sorry but it just aint so.

we send emails to eachother, even though she goes to my school. im far more open and much more like myself at home, rather than changing your personality so the jocks think slightly higher of you. trust me, the jocks can go to hell

Be yourself. That's all that matters. the biggest mistake you can make is being taken for the person that you're not. it happened to me, and im still wearing the effects of it. ive spend a good year trying to clear my name, and it's finally wearing off.

just talk, remember, you aren't the only one out there

Just my $0.02

BTW, to all u adult readers out there, just a little insight into your teenagers

 

[dababus]

Brandino, be brave, my friend. She is knocking out your door and you gotta open it. She may never knock at your door again and you may regert it through out your life.

 

[Ranger X]

What's the harm in meeting her? Do you have no self-esteem? Shy or not, meet her first. If you don't like her or she doesn't like you, then block her and get away from her. Who knows, what if she's "The One"? You'll never know man.

 

[montanafan]

Brandino, I get the feeling that there's more to this than you're telling us. There's a bigger reason that you don't want to meet her in person isn't there?

 

[dababus]

It sounds like Brandino is hiding something.

 

[thereds]

To the earlier post, which said something like
"When the door swings open, you walk inside"
I have to say -

Amen!

 

[Brandino]

Well first of all that poem was beautiful.

I'm not really sure why I don't want to meet her right now, but I've known her for all of 3 weeks and I don't feel comfortable going through with it. Not sure if you understand quite what I mean, but it took me more than a year (did I say that before? oh well if I did) to meet my other friend I met on the internet.

After I told her that I wasn't ready to meet though, she basically told me that shes sick of who I am, and that I'm a burden on her *OUCH* and that she reminds me of a friend who really tore up her heart, and she doesn't want it to happen again. Dunno if that was pure anger, but I said some stupid crap the other day (thats what I'm not telling you) that is one of those things where I loose a friend from it. It's happened before and I dunno when I'm going to learn.. just another example of *think* before you speak. I do however appriciate all the help you people have offered-

-Brandon

 

[dababus]

Brandino, if you really regret losing her and are sorry of what you have said to her, then go to her house and admit your fault. If you know of something that she likes or is favorite, then get it for her. Or just get a boquet of flowers and stick a card in it, which states your apology and ask her to come back to your life. I hope you can write something sweet in the card, that would cherish her and may bring her back to you. If you REALY care on getting her back, then take some action. Otherwise, disregard whatever i have said.

you gotta learn that a girl's heart is just like glass. Its pretty fargile. If it breaks, it becomes hard to put it back and may be completely impossible.