Originally posted by: Kalenal
You have to understand though there is nothing wrong with being a pedophile.
Originally posted by: Saint Michael
Originally posted by: Kalenal
You have to understand though there is nothing wrong with being a pedophile.
Here's the point. There is nothing wrong with being a pedophile (see edit), there is something wrong with molesting children. The reason we need to be able to talk about it is we say that people need to get help, but if they come out and seek help we vilify and shun them. This attitude actually increases the risk to children of being abused, because it prevents people with these urges from dealing with them in a positive, constructive way. People need to end these knee-jerk emotional reactions so real progress can be made.
Edit: Er, not that there's nothing wrong with being a pedophile, rather there's nothing illegal about being a pedophile. There's also no reason hate somebody because they are a pedophile, they need help.
Professor of Sociology David Finkelhor, director of the Crimes against Children Research Center, describes "child sexual abuse" as requiring two components, "(1) sexual activities involving a child and (2) an 'abusive condition' such as coercion or a large age gap between the participants indicating a lack of consensuality." Finkelhor wrote that in the USA as of 1994, approximately 20% of women and 5% to 15% of men had experienced some form of sexual abuse as children; and that he did not find evidence of dramatic increases in recent generations, or that socioeconomic circumstances are major risk factors.[12][13][14]
When an adult seeks or engages in sexual activity with a child, public sentiment usually concludes these actions as a manifestation of pedophilia, however most studies investigating incarcerated sex offenders suggest that the majority of convicted child sex offenders are not primarily or exclusively attracted to children.[15][16][17] Pro-pedophile activists use the phrase "adult-child sex" and related academic defenses to redefine "child sexual abuse" through value-neutral terminology to normalize and promote the idea that children can consent to sex with adults and are not necessarily harmed by such practice.
the minor starts it and agrees to it
Originally posted by: loki8481
the minor starts it and agrees to it
is a 12-13 year-old really capable of consent?
certainly not in the eyes of the law, and I'd agree.
Originally posted by: loki8481
the minor starts it and agrees to it
is a 12-13 year-old really capable of consent?
certainly not in the eyes of the law, and I'd agree.
Originally posted by: Baloo
OK, he's a bad guy, but the example given, two boys 16 and 13, is not pedophilia. If they were 11 and 8, that would be pedophilia.
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
He is not a pedophile.
Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
He is not a pedophile.
Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
He is not a pedophile.
Originally posted by: PHiuR
Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
He is not a pedophile.
He's a child molester.
Are you a pedophile, Kalenal?
I had friends that had sex in middle school, (13-14 years old), but they were both the same age, therefore I don't believe that one took advantage of the other.
However, if you throw in an adult, whom has much more experience and the know how of manipulation...then it's just the adult taking advantage of the child.
a pedophile does not love children. :|Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: PHiuR
Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
He is not a pedophile.
He's a child molester.
Are you a pedophile, Kalenal?
I had friends that had sex in middle school, (13-14 years old), but they were both the same age, therefore I don't believe that one took advantage of the other.
However, if you throw in an adult, whom has much more experience and the know how of manipulation...then it's just the adult taking advantage of the child.
I am more of a child lover than a pedophile. You could angry they are both the same thing.
Originally posted by: moshquerade
a pedophile does not love children. :|Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: PHiuR
Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
He is not a pedophile.
He's a child molester.
Are you a pedophile, Kalenal?
I had friends that had sex in middle school, (13-14 years old), but they were both the same age, therefore I don't believe that one took advantage of the other.
However, if you throw in an adult, whom has much more experience and the know how of manipulation...then it's just the adult taking advantage of the child.
I am more of a child lover than a pedophile. You could angry they are both the same thing.
that's not loveOriginally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: moshquerade
a pedophile does not love children. :|Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: PHiuR
Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
He is not a pedophile.
He's a child molester.
Are you a pedophile, Kalenal?
I had friends that had sex in middle school, (13-14 years old), but they were both the same age, therefore I don't believe that one took advantage of the other.
However, if you throw in an adult, whom has much more experience and the know how of manipulation...then it's just the adult taking advantage of the child.
I am more of a child lover than a pedophile. You could angry they are both the same thing.
Some genuinely do. Being a pedophile is just the attraction. There is nothing wrong with it.
Originally posted by: moshquerade
that's not loveOriginally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: moshquerade
a pedophile does not love children. :|Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: PHiuR
Originally posted by: Kalenal
Originally posted by: NanoStuff
It's not nice to confront pedophiles like that. Maybe he was on his way to some little boy's house, he doesn't need shit like that.
He is not a pedophile.
He's a child molester.
Are you a pedophile, Kalenal?
I had friends that had sex in middle school, (13-14 years old), but they were both the same age, therefore I don't believe that one took advantage of the other.
However, if you throw in an adult, whom has much more experience and the know how of manipulation...then it's just the adult taking advantage of the child.
I am more of a child lover than a pedophile. You could angry they are both the same thing.
Some genuinely do. Being a pedophile is just the attraction. There is nothing wrong with it.
there is nothing wrong with being a pedophile? did you just say that?
there are plenty of child molester boards on the net. this isn't one of them. go post there.
