rudder
Lifer
There's one constant in this story.
Your friend.
Guess he was a douche.
My guess is he is immature and would rather party than work on establishing a career. The father knew he would likely piss through 8 million and made the right choice.
My good friend recently passed away from cancer. He had at least 10 rental houses among his assets. He left everything to his 2nd wife who he knew for years but had just married 1 yr prior to him passing. He told me he knew his kids would piss away whatever he gave them. At least they each ended up getting a house and the 2nd wife does help them out with school bills. Of course there were many lawsuits in between.