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Would you want to have been born a girl?

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Blackroat said:
How did you begin?
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I started finding social events to go to and started talking to people. I learned how to read body language and how to notice when people were flirting with me. It took longer for me to believe I could do it than anything else - that is the hardest part. Once you stop feeling like everything is impossible, things change.
 
Blackroat said:
Are you living in australia? Cause I heard girl population is high there. I believe I would have more chance there.
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In the 15-64yo age bracket, there are more women than men (in Hungary). Not so for Australia.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio

Regardless, with a negative attitude it isn't really going to matter how many women there are. You need to establish a level of self worth and positivity first.

What reasons are there for someone to date you? What makes you worth spending time with?
 
Maximilian said:
Not a bad point but although there are plenty of guys who cant get a girl and are rather vocal about it, there are also plenty of girls who are in the same boat but they are less vocal. Heres one:

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=22350578

Funny thing... I see that hambeast crop up occasionally and last time I distinctly remember her "longest relationship" stat saying "under 1 year" :colbert:

Anyways yeah guys have to look good or have something... same rules apply to girls though 😉 You gonna date a girl that looks like the above? Yeah me neither.
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The conundrum with women is that they can't find love, someone surely sticks it in her occasionally because a hard cock has no conscience. The conundrum with men is they can't find either.

DrPhil had honest decent advice
 
jlee said:
In the 15-64yo age bracket, there are more women than men (in Hungary). Not so for Australia.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_sex_ratio

Regardless, with a negative attitude it isn't really going to matter how many women there are. You need to establish a level of self worth and positivity first.

What reasons are there for someone to date you? What makes you worth spending time with?
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What makes girls worth spending time with? Just being girls. Cause boys would fucking want to spend times with girls for whatever reason. The reason is being girls to answer that. Why is it not the same for girls. Why are they looking for a diffrent reason? What makes them valuable?
 
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I am trying to help you. If you don't answer questions, I'll stop trying because there's no point.
 
No. I never wanted to be a girl.

But humans are hormone driven creatures. First you must learn to control the urges that originate from hormones. Men are always horny, learn to recognize that urge and then learn to control it. Most older men have mastered that. They just accept it, control it and give priority by conscience decisions to other feelings, desires and thoughts. Reason why most women feel save with older men.

Women are less horny, but they do become it and if memory serves me right, being horny, peaks when the new egg is ready to be fertilized.
But this is all just pure hormone driven behavior. You still have to add in the conscience decisions that are made both by men and women.
And then there are instincts as well, first impression can make a winner or a loser.
 
Blackroat said:
How did you begin?
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My advice: Date. A lot. It's old fashioned. It's awkward. It can sometimes be downright embarrassing.

But...

It gets easier. You cannot help but get better at it. There's a bit of an implied protocol, so you eventually learn what to do and not to do, even if you have no idea at first.

You _don't_ want to start dating at 30. Or 40. Because it won't get easier without experience, and the women you'll date will have been doing so for 15 or 20 years. Don't be afraid of rejection. Don't be afraid of going out with someone one time and done. Or ten times and done. Don't be afraid that you don't make enough money, or have a nice enough apartment. Or that you're too fat or too skinny, or your family isn't good enough. If it clicks with someone, it clicks. If not, move on.
 
Blackroat said:
Why dont you think girls are more valuable? You can even see it on internet. Go to omegle and say you are a girl and see it. You can even see it on internet
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No, girls are not more valuable. Just because someone wants to screw you doesn't make you more valuable.

Girls have value and boys also have value. They are not the same type of value, but they are equal.

You have a VERY LOW opinion of yourself. And we are starting to agree with you.
 
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pcgeek11 said:
No, girls are not more valuable. Just because someone wants to screw you doesn't make you more valuable.

Girls have value and boys also have value. They are not the same type of value, but they are equal.

You have a VERY LOW opinion of yourself. And we are starting to agree with you.
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But boys are the ones who try to have them. Girls just wait, they dont make any effort. If one boy doesnt ask her, the girl doesnt go ask him cuz there will be plenty of boys asking her. In nature its also the same. 2 male dogs fight each other to have one femela dog. Male animals fight each other to get female animals. In nature its also like that. A female fly is more valuable than a male fly or a female cat is more valuable than a male cat. They fight each other to have the female. A male dog chases a female dog and the female dog runs. He tries to catch her. The male dog is the one that chases the female dog. He also fights with the other dogs to be able to get the female dog. In nature female gender is more valuable. Male gender fights each other to get female gender. Its smilar for human being too. Boys go and ask girls and girls may reject or accept. Its up to girls. Boys chase girls.Boys try to get the girls.
 
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Blackroat said:
But boys are the ones who try to have them. Girls just wait, they dont make any effort. If the boy doesnt ask girl, the girl doesnt go ask him cuz there will be plenty of boys asking them. In nature its also the same. 2 male dogs fight each other to have that one femela dog. Male animals fight each other to get female animals. In nature its also like that. A female fly is more valuable than a male fly or a female cat is more valuable than a male cat. They fight each other to have the female. A male dog chases a female dog and the female dog runs. He tries to catch her. The male dog is the one that chases the female dog. He also fights with the other dogs to be able to get the female dog. In nature female gender is more valuable. Male gender fights each other to get female gender. Its smilar for human being too. Boys go and ask girls and girls may reject or accept. Its up to girls. Boys chase girls.Boys try to get the girls.
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Yea, but I can get my own damned sauerkraut off the top shelf, AND open the jar :^D
 
Blackroat said:
But boys are the ones who try to have them. Girls just wait, they dont make any effort. If one boy doesnt ask her, the girl doesnt go ask him cuz there will be plenty of boys asking her. In nature its also the same. 2 male dogs fight each other to have one femela dog. Male animals fight each other to get female animals. In nature its also like that. A female fly is more valuable than a male fly or a female cat is more valuable than a male cat. They fight each other to have the female. A male dog chases a female dog and the female dog runs. He tries to catch her. The male dog is the one that chases the female dog. He also fights with the other dogs to be able to get the female dog. In nature female gender is more valuable. Male gender fights each other to get female gender. Its smilar for human being too. Boys go and ask girls and girls may reject or accept. Its up to girls. Boys chase girls.Boys try to get the girls.
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1) That is not always the case.

2) Neither is that.
 
I remember when I was 5~6 I thought women had it so easy in that they could wear skirts without having to put pants on (I think I might have been mildly autistic and used to have issues getting clothing on). As a result, I came up with the great idea of just wearing an oversized sweater and undies. My dad asked me why I was wearing no pants, and I said it was a dress like mom could wear. He yelled at me and told me to get pants on. :'(
 
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