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Would you still cheat if there was a 0% chance of your SO finding out?

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eyecandy86

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Originally posted by: shimsham
Originally posted by: deathkoba
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lol. what was it you said?

"i already did but it doesnt matter because i still love my gf"

i think that was it. can anyone confirm? looks like eyecandy tried to quote but just missed it.

Yep, taht's what he said. But he was fast to edit it.

Hope she's lurking, cuz u suck. That's so wrong.:|
 

shimsham

Lifer
May 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: eyecandy86
Originally posted by: shimsham
Originally posted by: deathkoba
nm


lol. what was it you said?

"i already did but it doesnt matter because i still love my gf"

i think that was it. can anyone confirm? looks like eyecandy tried to quote but just missed it.

Yep, taht's what he said. But he was fast to edit it.

Hope she's lurking, cuz u suck. That's so wrong.:|


uh-oh. deathkoba is busted now.
 

thirdlegstump

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Feb 12, 2001
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Thing is, I don't think it's such a bad thing. Sure it's bad in terms of your relationship with your current SO but the way I see it is that you'd be lying to yourself and your SO by not cheating. You may love someone else enough to make love to them instead of your wife/gf. That simply means it's time to move on. What's wrong with that? It's human nature IMHO and should have no right or wrong.
 

shortylickens

No Lifer
Jul 15, 2003
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"Lets say a spaceship lands"

I would know. Thats enough. I still believe certain things are wrong even if nobody finds out.

On the other hand, most of my relationships are flings. SO means monogomy. I would be happier in a meaningless relationship.
 

thirdlegstump

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Feb 12, 2001
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I was kidding about cheating on my gf btw : ) Otherwise I would've bowed out of the relationship. I'm not that demoralized.
 

shimsham

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May 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: deathkoba
Thing is, I don't think it's such a bad thing. Sure it's bad in terms of your relationship with your current SO but the way I see it is that you'd be lying to yourself and your SO by not cheating. You may love someone else enough to make love to them instead of your wife/gf. That simply means it's time to move on. What's wrong with that? It's human nature IMHO and should have no right or wrong.


i think i understand what youre saying. but you see, theres these little things call honor and respect that just kind of muck all that up for you.
 

SuperTool

Lifer
Jan 25, 2000
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Would you still cheat if there was 0% chance of your SO finding out, and you wouldn't remember anything about it afterwards?
 

Miramonti

Lifer
Aug 26, 2000
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if my SO was really Significant with a capital S, no. If she wasn't, then I probably wouldn't either and haven't.
 

thirdlegstump

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Feb 12, 2001
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Originally posted by: shimsham
Originally posted by: deathkoba
Thing is, I don't think it's such a bad thing. Sure it's bad in terms of your relationship with your current SO but the way I see it is that you'd be lying to yourself and your SO by not cheating. You may love someone else enough to make love to them instead of your wife/gf. That simply means it's time to move on. What's wrong with that? It's human nature IMHO and should have no right or wrong.


i think i understand what youre saying. but you see, theres these little things call honor and respect that just kind of muck all that up for you.

Yes honor and respect meaning you should bow out if you don't love your SO as much anymore instead of hanging on to her and lying to her and yourself. If your SO loves you enough, she will let you go and hope for your best instead of becoming jealous and destructive.
 

shimsham

Lifer
May 9, 2002
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Originally posted by: deathkoba
Originally posted by: shimsham
Originally posted by: deathkoba
Thing is, I don't think it's such a bad thing. Sure it's bad in terms of your relationship with your current SO but the way I see it is that you'd be lying to yourself and your SO by not cheating. You may love someone else enough to make love to them instead of your wife/gf. That simply means it's time to move on. What's wrong with that? It's human nature IMHO and should have no right or wrong.


i think i understand what youre saying. but you see, theres these little things call honor and respect that just kind of muck all that up for you.

Yes honor and respect meaning you should bow out if you don't love your SO as much anymore instead of hanging on to her and lying to her and yourself. If your SO loves you enough, she will let you go and hope for your best instead of becoming jealous and destructive.

i agree, but you show honor and respect by dumping her and then getting the strange, not cheating on her.
 

SilentZero

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Apr 8, 2003
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Would I cheat on my wife? No. Now if I was not married and just had a GF, then hell yes. Until your married its all fair game as long as you don't get caught.
 

cyberfuzz

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if you are hooking up with someone else, then i dont think you can call the other person your SO.