You can force people to tolerate alternative lifestyles, but you can't force them to like it. If the guy gets uncomfortable but doesn't get out of line, then leave the poor bastard alone. He is doing the best he can.
Zenmervolt
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Personally, if anyone pinched my arse in public I'd be more than a little peeved. And if anyone other than a girlfriend pinched it at any time I would be more than a little peeved. We can't just go around pinching people's arses. I mean, why not just randomly grab people's crotches?
As for the rest of the stuff, he does seem a trifle over-worried to say the least.
ZV
As for the rest of the stuff, he does seem a trifle over-worried to say the least.
ZV
He's a bit oversensitive but I don't think homophobic.
I'm not a fan of gayness but I don't hate it either. I'd definitely feel a bit uncomfortable around gays and wouldn't see it as a pleasant sight. If anyone pinched my arse in public, espeically a guy, I'd be peeved. As for the sitting next thing, I never thought of that but I think I do tend to sit across out of natural tendency... wierd, maybe its because of the "gayness" factor of sitting next to. Never even thought out that, probably in my subconscious.
Now, I'm not supportive of the gay marriage but I'm not agains't either you see. I really don't care enough either way, which I think you're friend would fall under and feel.
Yep, he's homophobic, as are several chest-thumping dumbass highschool boys in this thread. Not everyone is that bad, but some of you need to lighten the fvck up. Not every gay man wants to have sex with you - as a matter of fact, I'd bet that you're as unattractive to them as you are to that girl you've been feeding drinks to all night. :beer:
- M4H
- M4H
He should at least have the balls to admit it, instead of trying to be sociable.
Another vote for him being in the closet.
I must say that the most uncomfortable night I have ever had in my life was when I was living in DC and went with my Wife and our mutual lesbian friends to an all lesbian party at one of the local bars, I along with one other guy were the only men there and I could more than tell from the looks and the attitudes of most of the women that I was certainly not welcome...so if it is wrong to feel uncomfortable in such a situation then I am guilty of being morally wrong and can live with that 
with regards to your friend, I can understand how some could be intimidated when placed in situations or with people whom they are not comfortable..personally I would have been greatly upset if someone touched me in an inappropriate manner, jokingly or not without consent, as someone else said had he have been a woman it would be harassment plain and simple.
with regards to your friend, I can understand how some could be intimidated when placed in situations or with people whom they are not comfortable..personally I would have been greatly upset if someone touched me in an inappropriate manner, jokingly or not without consent, as someone else said had he have been a woman it would be harassment plain and simple.
I think you are nit-picking this.
You know exactly what I mean.
If you are not smart enough to know what I mean then you have no business saying I am wrong, because you obviously can not rationally think.
Thanks Gopunk however I somehow doubt it
, not really worried per say, just saying that it was obvious that I was not welcome there and that made the situation very awkward...not something I would want to do again.So you're this friend that the OP is talking about?
It was proven in the 1600s that the universe did not revolve around the Earth. That includes you.
- M4H
So you're this friend that the OP is talking about?
It was proven in the 1600s that the universe did not revolve around the Earth. That includes you.
- M4H
HUH?
It was proven in the 1600s that the universe did not revolve around the Earth. That includes you.
- M4H
HUH?
English isn't one of your strong points, I see. Neither is knowing what the "Quote" button is.
Wuffsunie: "Another vote for him (The OP's 'friend') being in the closet."
TooOne21: "OMgZ h3 is saying I am teh g4y0r!!!1!!!!1!1!one"
- M4H
There was a really funny study done a few years ago. Some researchers took a group of men and had them fill out a questionnaire and then showed them various hetero and homo porn films. They had some devices hooked up to them to measure arousal (something attached to their penis I think among other things like heartrate and so on). The men that answered with the highest content of homphobia on the questionnaire were also the ones that measured the highest on the arousal scale for the man on man films, lol.
mercenary for hire, I Think you need to read the whole thread b4 making yourself look like a moron....
edit: what do I care if you think I am gay...?
Should I feel ashamed, embarrassed?
edit: what do I care if you think I am gay...?
Should I feel ashamed, embarrassed?
I did. And you seem to be doing a fine job of making yourself look like a moron on your own. You seem to think that the "gay lifestyle" means that every minute of every day, gay men are doing something different than straight men.
I suggest investing in some knuckle padding before venturing any further, or those scrapes will never heal.
Edit:
Holy crap, he's still going. What the hell kind of component is misifiring in your head that makes you think that everyone is accusing you of being gay? Stop posting.
- M4H
You mean to tell me that gay people are not gay people 24 hours a day?
If you walked up to a gay person and asked them if they are straight or gay evey minute of the day they would say they were gay evey time not only 15 times. The same would happen with a straight person.
I meant look at the thread.... I know how to quote. You are pathetic.
No, dumbass. I'll try again. I'm sure it was clear enough to everyone else, as it's already been stated, but here goes.
If you follow around two men - one gay, one straight - how different would their days be outside their sexual preferences?
Would the gay man have a different lunch? Type at his keyboard differently? Listen to different music while he's driving in his different car on his way to a totally different line of work?
- M4H
It's amusing to see everyone attack those that say there is nothing wrong with homophobia. It's a rush to be the one that is "holier than thou" and it's those that prevent others from speaking their true feelings.
All you morons can do is roll your eyes at them but why exactly must those homophobes be forced to accept homosexuals? No one is forcing those that accept homosexuals to hate them so why argue? If you accept homosexuals, that is fine but most of us believe it's unacceptable so get over it.
All you morons can do is roll your eyes at them but why exactly must those homophobes be forced to accept homosexuals? No one is forcing those that accept homosexuals to hate them so why argue? If you accept homosexuals, that is fine but most of us believe it's unacceptable so get over it.
Here's a shovel to keep digging yourself into that hole you've got yourself in.
He didn't say that gay people are not gay 24/7. What he meant was that they're people just LIKE YOU AND I. They just happen to have a different sexual preference. They go to work, pay their taxes, etc., just like anyone else does. It's not like they live on another planet where life is completely different than it is on Earth.
I think you are nit-picking this.
You know exactly what I mean.
If you are not smart enough to know what I mean then you have no business saying I am wrong, because you obviously can not rationally think.
Hey, I'm not lambasting him because he's a homophobe.
I'm doing it because he's a dumbass.
Get over it.
- M4H
What did you mean by this line, then? "You mean to tell me that gay people are not gay people 24 hours a day?"
Sounds like nit-picking to me.
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