Would you or have you ever cheated?

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Scarpozzi

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No I haven't...

I can say this much. I could never cheat on my S.O. I wouldn't be able to look her in the eye ever again. I simply love her too much.
 

ITJunkie

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Originally posted by: dullard
Nope. I never have and never will cheat. If my relationship is that bad that I need to find another person, I'll do the right thing and end the relationship first. Then I'd find another person.

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I did cheat a time or two on my ex before we were married, but never during the time that we were actually married (not that that really makes it any better, but at least it shows I took the vow of marriage seriously).

I also have been the "other guy", the one who some guys girl cheats on with. Oddly enough this made me feel worse than actually cheating on my ex. It eats at my soul for some reason. It's my cross to bear and I have no one to blame but myself and my weak moral fortitude.

I'm fixing that though.

The girl I'm with now is awesome and I'd never do that to her. I care for her greatly.
 

ockky

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yes...twice

the 1st time i cheated, i did it just to see if i could get away with humpin both girls in the same day

the 2nd time i cheated was with a chick that has been in playboy...and i did that for all of you guys out there reading this right now lol

... i'm such a dirtbag
 

GeekDrew

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Originally posted by: pclstyle
Originally posted by: Ktulu
Originally posted by: pclstyle
Originally posted by: Juice Box
No way in the world...when I get with someone, I get way too attached to risk anything that would cause problems

you're the type that gets cheated on...

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as in, "way too attached" usually means (or evolves into) emotionally imbalanced and insecure, to the point where it becomes controlling and oppressive. No, this isn't some under-the-belt verbal jab @ juice, it's just something that's pretty damn prevalent among those who consider themselves "way too attached".


You can call it love, commitment, being dedicated -- name it whatever you want. But when taken to an extreme, it can get dangerous. Not every girl (most IMO) wants a guy that's a lap dog, at their every beck and call, pouring out apologies and near-tears everytime something comes up.

Well, I was going to quote Juice Box, saying that I'm the same way... but I don't agree that any of your commentary would apply to me, nor neceessarily to Juice Box (though I know it does to many).