Would you or have you ever cheated?
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No way in the world...when I get with someone, I get way too attached to risk anything that would cause problems
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Yes.
Sex is just sex. I like having sex. It has nothing to do with emotions or love, its fvcking. If my girl wont give it to me, I'll get it somewhere else from a one night stand.
That said, I wont do it anymore because I'm married and things change when you go from dating to marriage.
Sex is just sex. I like having sex. It has nothing to do with emotions or love, its fvcking. If my girl wont give it to me, I'll get it somewhere else from a one night stand.
That said, I wont do it anymore because I'm married and things change when you go from dating to marriage.
yes i have cheated before...I was young and stupid.
no i will not cheat again...i've learned my lesson. It's unnecessary drama that I never ever want to go through again.
i just can't seem to find anyone who WON'T cheat on me tho...ex cheated on me multiple times b/c he wanted more "variety", current bf is cheating on me emotionally (which I find worse than cheating for sex) with his ex who lives on the other side of the country. I just can't win.
no i will not cheat again...i've learned my lesson. It's unnecessary drama that I never ever want to go through again.
i just can't seem to find anyone who WON'T cheat on me tho...ex cheated on me multiple times b/c he wanted more "variety", current bf is cheating on me emotionally (which I find worse than cheating for sex) with his ex who lives on the other side of the country. I just can't win.
Originally posted by: Jikininki
yes i have cheated before...I was young and stupid.
no i will not cheat again...i've learned my lesson. It's unnecessary drama that I never ever want to go through again.
i just can't seem to find anyone who WON'T cheat on me tho...ex cheated on me multiple times b/c he wanted more "variety", current bf is cheating on me emotionally (which I find worse than cheating for sex) with his ex who lives on the other side of the country. I just can't win.
emotional at times could be worse
i've been with other people while I was still by definition, "in a relationship". But that only happened towards the end of the relationship, where it was already, by all accounts - dead in my mind. Meaning, I've never invested effort afterwards to try and hide what had happened, or to make things up, or to redeem myself in her eyes, etc.
What has happened in the past is that I will "cheat" on an SO to be with someone I am interested in having a relationship with (vs. one-night-stand). It's sort of like breaking up without "the talk", and finding a new SO without passing the interim normally reserved for mourning and searching.
Current SO - 1 year and more stable and connected than any I've ever been with. Real commitment and a ring in the tea leaves? Who knows.
What has happened in the past is that I will "cheat" on an SO to be with someone I am interested in having a relationship with (vs. one-night-stand). It's sort of like breaking up without "the talk", and finding a new SO without passing the interim normally reserved for mourning and searching.
Current SO - 1 year and more stable and connected than any I've ever been with. Real commitment and a ring in the tea leaves? Who knows.
Originally posted by: Jikininki
yes i have cheated before...I was young and stupid.
no i will not cheat again...i've learned my lesson. It's unnecessary drama that I never ever want to go through again.
i just can't seem to find anyone who WON'T cheat on me tho...ex cheated on me multiple times b/c he wanted more "variety", current bf is cheating on me emotionally (which I find worse than cheating for sex) with his ex who lives on the other side of the country. I just can't win.
it's hard, really hard to fight with ex's...
there's history, usually a lot of it- both emotional and physical... add to that the fact that they're now "just a friend" with nothing to lose, versus you with everything to lose -- they can pretty much say whatever they damn want without worrying in the slightest, verbally sex the sh!t out of your man while you cry and beg and plea...
yes, it's happened (getting verbally sexed the sh!t out of is pretty damn enjoyable and hard to ignore).
Originally posted by: pclstyle
Originally posted by: Jikininki
yes i have cheated before...I was young and stupid.
no i will not cheat again...i've learned my lesson. It's unnecessary drama that I never ever want to go through again.
i just can't seem to find anyone who WON'T cheat on me tho...ex cheated on me multiple times b/c he wanted more "variety", current bf is cheating on me emotionally (which I find worse than cheating for sex) with his ex who lives on the other side of the country. I just can't win.
it's hard, really hard to fight with ex's...
there's history, usually a lot of it- both emotional and physical... add to that the fact that they're now "just a friend" with nothing to lose, versus you with everything to lose -- they can pretty much say whatever they damn want without worrying in the slightest, verbally sex the sh!t out of your man while you cry and beg and plea...
yes, it's happened (getting verbally sexed the sh!t out of is pretty damn enjoyable and hard to ignore).
thanks for rubbing it in.
Originally posted by: Ktulu
as in, "way too attached" usually means (or evolves into) emotionally imbalanced and insecure, to the point where it becomes controlling and oppressive. No, this isn't some under-the-belt verbal jab @ juice, it's just something that's pretty damn prevalent among those who consider themselves "way too attached".
You can call it love, commitment, being dedicated -- name it whatever you want. But when taken to an extreme, it can get dangerous. Not every girl (most IMO) wants a guy that's a lap dog, at their every beck and call, pouring out apologies and near-tears everytime something comes up.
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I cheated in high school on my girlfriend of 3 years... it was just a drawn out 10 minute passionate kiss with another girl, but it sank in hard. This was just before I was moving to another state and had to end the relationship w/ my g/f anyway - but she never knew it happened before I moved. Actually now that I think about it, I kissed 2-3 girls while we were dating but it never amounted to anything more. I think I just liked to see where my options were as I wanted to feel like I was still attractive. Today I've completely changed. I am so in love with my fiancee that I would NEVER cheat on her... I don't even think about it. I've grown up and she means the world to me. I know how important trust is to her and respect it completely.. if she ever cheated on me, I'd be crushed and lost not to mention infuriated. Ok, enough on the novel - just wanted to blurt that out.
No
NO
Being cheated on was a big blow to the gut, it hurt so bad I don't think I would ever do that to someone else.
NO
Being cheated on was a big blow to the gut, it hurt so bad I don't think I would ever do that to someone else.
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