Would you let your S.O. go through and read all your posts?

AreaCode707

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Just reading the flamefest in the CC debt thread where luvly and (I forget who else) are going at it. I don't know why this raised the question for me (maybe it was the sperm donor references) but...

Assuming you are single now, would you let your future S.O. read through the archives and see everything you've posted? What are your feelings on that idea? (Do you cringe or shrug?)

If you're not single, do you let your S.O. read through (have you even told them about the forums? do they want to see what you posted? do they have any idea what it's like to post someplace like this?)


For me, anything I post is fair game for my S.O. now or in the future. I want to be open with who I am with him, even the flaws, faults, prejudices, and things that might not make him happy. I cringe a little bit, probably unreasonably so, about what he might think of some of the things I've said (nothing in particular comes to mind) but there's nothing I'd restrict.
 

iwearnosox

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She used to go through my email all the time. What's wrong with inviting another girl over for some innocent hot tubbing? :D
 

SackOfAllTrades

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i have no problems with it, but knowing her she'd read some of them and then say "You're suck a dork!" and then throw a shoe at me. ahhh love :)
 

Gyrene

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Yup. In fact, she's normally reading what I type, as I type it. Like right now for instance.
 

iwearnosox

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Originally posted by: dtyn
Yup. In fact, she's normally reading what I type, as I type it. Like right now for instance.
I hope your leash at least reaches the litterbox. :D


 

Gyrene

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Originally posted by: HotChic
Originally posted by: dtyn
Yup. In fact, she's normally reading what I type, as I type it. Like right now for instance.

/me waves

Wonderful, nows she's all giddy, and right when I was getting ready to go to sleep.

"Haha, Brad, this is soooo cool. It's like...they actually are, you know, interacting with me."

/me hits her with a pillow "Shut up, I'm ready to go to bed."

Thanks alot HotChic. :p
 

Gyrene

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Originally posted by: iwearnosox
Originally posted by: dtyn
Yup. In fact, she's normally reading what I type, as I type it. Like right now for instance.
I hope your leash at least reaches the litterbox. :D

Sometimes I have to really stretch to pull it within reach, but normally I'm ok. ;)
 
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All i have to say.. I am no longer posting YAGT or anything related to women on these threads..


yes I got "caught" when she went thru all my posts. I admit my mistake but she still doesnt understand the ATOT reasoning for why a person wants pics and why ppl say someone is hot when they arent etc etc. One thing I learnt, there is no arguing with a women. Sometimes i wish she wasnt as smart as she is.. but i still love her.. I mean i wish she would understand the ATOT thinge.. and i wish she would stop putting emphasis on the ppl who are not really nice.

I have invited her here, but she wouldnt come, oh well

 

Wolfsraider

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yes honesty is the only policy


that said she thinks this is only "computer talk" which she avoids like the plague;):p:D
 

KC5AV

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I've probably said a few things I'd rather my wife not see, but mostly I wouldn't mind.
 

Gravity

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It wouldn't matter, after 15 years of marriage, how much worse could it get? LMAO!!!
 

Aves

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Originally posted by: Skoorb
No I hope mrsskoorb doesn't read anything I write :Q

Yeah especially threads about not washing your hands after using a public restroom.


My S.O. probably has read everything I've posted. I don't really know.
 

radioouman

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I'd probably end up divorced if she read everything that I've posted here and at yagt.org.

* Goes to tell wife what ATOT and yagt.org are! *
 

rh71

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No I wouldn't let her. She dislikes Jessica Alba and I wouldn't want her to get even more jealous. :D
 

CT2TXtech

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after the infamous cheating thread, NEVER:beer:
But if someone i could persuade the mods to delete that one, then sure why not
 

GalvanizedYankee

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All my cards are face up on the table.

She knows much more about me than I've posted here.

"I'm only as sick as my secrets" ..........:sun:
 

matt426malm

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Originally posted by: SackOfAllTrades
i have no problems with it, but knowing her she'd read some of them and then say "You're suck a dork!" and then throw a shoe at me. ahhh love :)

same here.... but then again I am one; online at least. :)
 

TwinkleToes77

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Id let my hubby read what i posted. I normally try not to incriminate myself on anything that's public. I learned my lesson before when I had an online diary :p