Would you have an affair with an older married woman?

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Kadarin

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No. Technically speaking, I would be having the "affair" if I were cheating on my hypothetical wife, and I would not do that. However, let's assume the OP didn't mean this and is simply asking the question of whether we would consider having sex with an older woman who happens to be married. IMO, it would depend on a lot of factors, such as (in no particular order): Relative age, how good she looks, what kind of person she is, whether there was "chemistry" between us, what the actual status of her marriage was, what her long and short-term intentions were, and so forth.
 

Lonyo

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
No. Technically speaking, I would be having the "affair" if I were cheating on my hypothetical wife, and I would not do that. However, let's assume the OP didn't mean this and is simply asking the question of whether we would consider having sex with an older woman who happens to be married. IMO, it would depend on a lot of factors, such as (in no particular order): Relative age, how good she looks, what kind of person she is, whether there was "chemistry" between us, what the actual status of her marriage was, what her long and short-term intentions were, and so forth.

Of course it depends on things, but your answer is yes nonetheless, since "yes" means "I would if the situation were right" and "no" means "I would never do that".
 

shimsham

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Originally posted by: Astaroth33
No. Technically speaking, I would be having the "affair" if I were cheating on my hypothetical wife, and I would not do that. However, let's assume the OP didn't mean this and is simply asking the question of whether we would consider having sex with an older woman who happens to be married. IMO, it would depend on a lot of factors, such as (in no particular order): Relative age, how good she looks, what kind of person she is, whether there was "chemistry" between us, what the actual status of her marriage was, what her long and short-term intentions were, and so forth.



do you always overthink getting laid this much?
 

datalink7

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I wouldn't ever cheat on anyone or help anyone cheat on anyone, no matter what their age.
 
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
why would you want to?

because older women, say 30-40, are more sexually driven. so if we're speaking of monica bellucci or catherine zeta jones type of older women. then hell YES i would!
 

Allanv

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a guy i knew was playing around with a younger woman so i had an affair with his wife and the younger woman :)
 

Kadarin

Lifer
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Originally posted by: shimsham
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
No. Technically speaking, I would be having the "affair" if I were cheating on my hypothetical wife, and I would not do that. However, let's assume the OP didn't mean this and is simply asking the question of whether we would consider having sex with an older woman who happens to be married. IMO, it would depend on a lot of factors, such as (in no particular order): Relative age, how good she looks, what kind of person she is, whether there was "chemistry" between us, what the actual status of her marriage was, what her long and short-term intentions were, and so forth.



do you always overthink getting laid this much?

It could be why I'm currently single... :eek:
 

GeneValgene

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you guys are nuts for wanting to mess with around with a married person

that's asking for trouble
 

J Heartless Slick

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After trying adultery (or having it done to me) 20 to 30 times. I have decided it is in the middle and long run a bad idea and I avoid it.

Yes that means turning down sex.