Would you guys date a skinny girl?

[ILikeStuff]

Originally posted by: tkim
5'4" and 110 is perfect

<--- current GF 5'3" 115 lbs

 

[Ulfwald]

Annorexic skinny? No way.
Slender and trim. Yes, as long as she is healthy.
Stocky and thick, yes.


What many people fail to realize, is that there is some beauty in everyone. I have seen large women with features that go unnoticed because men can't get past their size. Stunning eyes, Beautiful hair, full luscious lips that also form a great smile. Some have beautiful voices that would drive most men insane with desire.

Then there is their heart. Most of the ladies of size that I know have been hurt because of what society deems as "beautiful, sexy, alluring, etc". They just want to be loved and appreciated as much as the next lady, but, because they have not been accepted by most men, they are even more loyal and dedicated to the person that does accept them and love them.

Remember, no matter how pretty a girl is, or how sexy and good in bed she is, somewhere there is some guy who is sick of her crap. So before you decide that a woman is Miss Right, you had better figure out if she is only looking at you as Mr. Rightnow.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: Ulfwald
Annorexic skinny? No way.
Slender and trim. Yes, as long as she is healthy.
Stocky and thick, yes.


What many people fail to realize, is that there is some beauty in everyone. I have seen large women with features that go unnoticed because men can't get past their size. Stunning eyes, Beautiful hair, full luscious lips that also form a great smile. Some have beautiful voices that would drive most men insane with desire.

Then there is their heart. Most of the ladies of size that I know have been hurt because of what society deems as "beautiful, sexy, alluring, etc". They just want to be loved and appreciated as much as the next lady, but, because they have not been accepted by most men, they are even more loyal and dedicated to the person that does accept them and love them.

Remember, no matter how pretty a girl is, or how sexy and good in bed she is, somewhere there is some guy who is sick of her crap. So before you decide that a woman is Miss Right, you had better figure out if she is only looking at you as Mr. Rightnow.

LOL,good thoughts! the fellows here seem to forget that we also have a choice in these matters and we do indeed get sick of his shiat sometimes too! Appreciate what you've got or very often you'll turn around and find it's gone!

 

[Fritzo]

I don't care about the weight or their looks. True beauty is found inside the woman's smile, the woman's heart, and the woman's soul.

Oh...and she has to be rich and put out too.

 

[Richdog]

Got to be slim with a nice arse... yum

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: luvly
On that note: no problem here. We skinny women--who also happen to have the curves that you assume we can't have--find our men with great physique. You think our times are wasted when we play volleyball or any other sport or walk the runway? Don't be fooled, geeks. I'll be lmao as I eat healthy and stay skinny and in shape. But most importantly, I'll lmao at you guys as I strut down the runway next weekend at SF and on mags whilst living a healthy and comfortable life.

Runway next weekend at SF, eh? That's easily within driving distance of me. Where will you be?

She'll be at the 10th annual Bulimic Cross Dressers Fashion Show. Just follow the smell of bile and you should find it!

 

[Hammer]

Originally posted by: Richdog
Got to be slim with a nice arse... yum

 

[ShotgunSteven]

I am not particularly fond of women that are too skinny, but I do not go asking random women out on dates based upon their looks, I go out with women that I am friends with first. Well, I did before I got engaged.

I think it is ridiculous for guys (Especially ATOT guys, considering what most of them probably look like) to go around with these ridiculous standards for the women they date. Someone had a thread about it once. Someone said their woman had to be a certain weight and height, have her own car, a good paying job, etc. What if she was perfect in every way, but had no car? What if she had no car and was between jobs? If you hold to your standards 100% over crap like that, you're a fool. Funny not one of them mentioned similiar interests, personality, etc. Keep talking about your "dream girls" guys, that is all they will ever be to you.

I have to call bullshit on all these guys talking like that, most of them would probably sh!t their pants if a woman of the type they describe as "ideal" asked them the time of day.

 

[LuckyTaxi]

doesnt matter

 

[ZaneNBK]

Originally posted by: Ronstang

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
A better question might be would you date a guy that got off on being as breath takingly cruel as some here appear to do?

I'm sorry but having likes and dislikes is not being cruel. Whether I agree with these guys or not doesn't matter but it isn't fair for you to call them cruel for not being attracted to "fat girls". While they might come off rather crass and insensitive here where they are anonymous I highly doubt most or any of them would be cruel to a girl in person over her weight. I personally am not attracted to larger women myself but I would never consider myself cruel. I have slept with some larger women from time to time, mostly because I was free and everyone needs some loving now and then, but I was always up front with them about not being intereested in a relationship.

I agree. Having been a fat-ass most my life and then getting in shape recently I realized that my being fat was a choice, and thus a reflection of who I was and the values I held. The only real excuse for being overweight is a medical condition. Previously I'd date overweight women, I will not now. Not only do I find it unattractive, but it tells me they lack the discipline or desire to correct their situation. It also puts me at risk for going back to being overweight myself if I spend a large ammount of time with them.

I don't view it as shallow, since I'm judging them on a personal trait that they (most of the time) have full control over. I'm not mean to them and I'd still be friends with them, I just wouldn't get into a relationship with an overweight person.