Brutuskend
Lifer
- Apr 2, 2001
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Ah, well at least I'm staying in character.
But it WAS ment to be a joke.
Even though you must admit it IS true!
But it WAS ment to be a joke.
Even though you must admit it IS true!
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Ah, well at least I'm staying in character.
But it WAS ment to be a joke.
Even though you must admit it IS true!
Originally posted by: Yossarian
I would not, could not, with a mom. I would not, could not, with a guy named Tom. I will not fvck them here or there, I will not fvck them anywhere.
Originally posted by: Yossarian
I would not, could not, with a mom. I would not, could not, with a guy named Tom. I will not fvck them here or there, I will not fvck them anywhere.
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: Yossarian
I would not, could not, with a mom. I would not, could not, with a guy named Tom. I will not fvck them here or there, I will not fvck them anywhere.
And it IS much less Idiotic than OTHERS posted, is it NOT?
Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Ah, well at least I'm staying in character.
But it WAS meant to be a joke.
Even though you must admit it IS true!
whether or not it is true is besides the point.
the fact that it is used as a reason to date a single mom is what makes it ignorant.
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Ah, well at least I'm staying in character.
But it WAS meant to be a joke.
Even though you must admit it IS true!
whether or not it is true is besides the point.
the fact that it is used as a reason to date a single mom is what makes it ignorant.
It isn't a reason, just a side observation.
My last lady friend was a single MOM. The fact she was a single MOM had nothing to do with my dating her. The fact we had things in common, found each-other attractive, and were both available was the deciding factor.
While we're on the subject of reason's for dating. How many women out there would date a guy that was dirt poor? Or at least had less money than YOU?
Would not dating a poor guy be any less ignorant than what you pointed out?
Or one shorter than you?
Or any other number of "reasons" I could point out?
Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Ah, well at least I'm staying in character.
But it WAS meant to be a joke.
Even though you must admit it IS true!
whether or not it is true is besides the point.
the fact that it is used as a reason to date a single mom is what makes it ignorant.
It isn't a reason, just a side observation.
My last lady friend was a single MOM. The fact she was a single MOM had nothing to do with my dating her. The fact we had things in common, found each-other attractive, and were both available was the deciding factor.
While we're on the subject of reason's for dating. How many women out there would date a guy that was dirt poor? Or at least had less money than YOU?
Would not dating a poor guy be any less ignorant than what you pointed out?
Or one shorter than you?
Or any other number of "reasons" I could point out?
yes, those reasons would be just as ignorant. that's why i made my original comments about the posts here - because they appeared to NOT be based on the factors you mentioned. what you said about your last gf was exactly why people should date each other. that's what i try to base my relationships on. most guys i date make less money than i do...that's not really a factor for me, as i'm not dating just to find someone to take care of me. i'd rather they didnt, actually.
FWIW...
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Ah, well at least I'm staying in character.
But it WAS meant to be a joke.
Even though you must admit it IS true!
whether or not it is true is besides the point.
the fact that it is used as a reason to date a single mom is what makes it ignorant.
It isn't a reason, just a side observation.
My last lady friend was a single MOM. The fact she was a single MOM had nothing to do with my dating her. The fact we had things in common, found each-other attractive, and were both available was the deciding factor.
While we're on the subject of reason's for dating. How many women out there would date a guy that was dirt poor? Or at least had less money than YOU?
Would not dating a poor guy be any less ignorant than what you pointed out?
Or one shorter than you?
Or any other number of "reasons" I could point out?
yes, those reasons would be just as ignorant. that's why i made my original comments about the posts here - because they appeared to NOT be based on the factors you mentioned. what you said about your last gf was exactly why people should date each other. that's what i try to base my relationships on. most guys i date make less money than i do...that's not really a factor for me, as i'm not dating just to find someone to take care of me. i'd rather they didnt, actually.
FWIW...
:wine: Kudos to you then!
Assuming that the guys who made those comments about "putting Out" were serious though... well do you ACTUALLY believe they WERE?
Guys are guys, and as all you women know, we say dumb things ALL the time.(sometimes just to get a chuckle) Doesn't mean we MEAN them though.
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
:wine: Kudos to you then!
Assuming that the guys who made those comments about "putting Out" were serious though... well do you ACTUALLY believe they WERE?
Guys are guys, and as all you women know, we say dumb things ALL the time.(sometimes just to get a chuckle) Doesn't mean we MEAN them though.
Originally posted by: Sysadmin
At my age there would be no other option
Sysadmin
BTW: Just because a dog once bit someone, does NOT automatically mean that it will bite YOU!!!
Originally posted by: TekChik
BTW: Just because a dog once bit someone, does NOT automatically mean that it will bite YOU!!!
Sure...but if there's other dogs there and i realllly want to pet a dog, i think i'll go pet a dog that i haven't seen bite someone. call me crazy...LOL.
it is true, i dont know you. but if all you know of someone is what is on a screen, then that's all you can go by.
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: TekChik
BTW: Just because a dog once bit someone, does NOT automatically mean that it will bite YOU!!!
Sure...but if there's other dogs there and i realllly want to pet a dog, i think i'll go pet a dog that i haven't seen bite someone. call me crazy...LOL.
it is true, i dont know you. but if all you know of someone is what is on a screen, then that's all you can go by.
I think you may have misunderstood my analogy.
Just because a dog once bit someone (Just because a woman has a kid and at one time had sex with someone) etc...
Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: TekChik
BTW: Just because a dog once bit someone, does NOT automatically mean that it will bite YOU!!!
Sure...but if there's other dogs there and i realllly want to pet a dog, i think i'll go pet a dog that i haven't seen bite someone. call me crazy...LOL.
it is true, i dont know you. but if all you know of someone is what is on a screen, then that's all you can go by.
I think you may have misunderstood my analogy.
Just because a dog once bit someone (Just because a woman has a kid and at one time had sex with someone) etc...
oooohhhhh...LOL
yeah, that was kinda obtuse.
anyway, we don't need to belabor this. i think we both understand each other, and i'm sure we're both wonderful human beings.
you're definitely right about people being more open about these kinds of things as they get older, tho.
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: TekChik
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Originally posted by: TekChik
BTW: Just because a dog once bit someone, does NOT automatically mean that it will bite YOU!!!
Sure...but if there's other dogs there and i realllly want to pet a dog, i think i'll go pet a dog that i haven't seen bite someone. call me crazy...LOL.
it is true, i dont know you. but if all you know of someone is what is on a screen, then that's all you can go by.
I think you may have misunderstood my analogy.
Just because a dog once bit someone (Just because a woman has a kid and at one time had sex with someone) etc...
oooohhhhh...LOL
yeah, that was kinda obtuse.
anyway, we don't need to belabor this. i think we both understand each other, and i'm sure we're both wonderful human beings.
you're definitely right about people being more open about these kinds of things as they get older, tho.
Well, it's been FUN!
But off to work I go.
Have a nice day.
If you want to that is!
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
My guess is that at least 90% of the guys that said the would NOT date a single MOM were in their 20's or under. Believe me, your views WILL change as you get older!
Originally posted by: WannaFly
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
My guess is that at least 90% of the guys that said the would NOT date a single MOM were in their 20's or under. Believe me, your views WILL change as you get older!
What? There are people over 30 that post here? nonsense.
I'll agree with that comment, I was thinking the exact same thing. As some of the previous posters mentioned, you have to be mature enough to deal with the kid also (if you are together for any length of time). I'm almost 24 and I know i'm too selfish with my time to want to deal with kids right now but I think i'd be willing if I liked the girl enough.