Would you commit to a relationship with a hot girl?

[StageLeft]

The ladder theory is as much a joke as anything. Certainly using it to guide one's decisions is folly.

 

[Pacfanweb]

I'd commit to an indefinite period of some serious drilling, but not love.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: m4ch0dude

Actually she was pretty dumb, I just never expected to be traded up for some old dude who sure as hell will need viagra to get her going.

Stupid is as stupid does. Maybe you need to think about how reasonable your expectations were.

 

[Mo0o]

Um.. i'd just get a hooker

 

[m4ch0dude]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: m4ch0dude
I read the thing about the ladder theory and the more you think about it, the more fvcked up it seems, how women really want the guy with the money/power. Why not just kill the bastad and take the money, not even have to have sex with the typical fat, bald rich guy. If you think about it, they just want the money, not the guy. And to be honest, there's no way in hell I would want to commit to a long term relationship with somebody who's primarily interested in my money (which I dont actually have yet, but I'm 24 and I happen to be a good loking guy so I'm not complaining). The only sensible thing to do it seems is to hook up with the girl , and then move on to the next one. But that kind of attitude is not gonna work when you get old, so how do you deal with something like that? It's like being unofficially stuck with a whore, only you have to put up with all the relationship cr@p. Neways, I'd like to hear what other ppl think about this.

This might come as a shock but there are actually good looking women out there who not only will love you for you but who would also work to support you should that become needed to sustain the two of you.

OK, let me ask you this: you have a choice between a good looking guy whos not so rich, and a rich guy who's not so hot. Which one would you initially be more attracted to?

 

[miri]

Reverse the question.

Would you commit to staying with one hot dude if he was only interested in sex?

 

[GoingUp]

Originally posted by: DaiShan
I would never commit to a girl like that. As a rule I NEVER talk money with girls.

 

[iversonyin]

This is full of crap. If the girl was attracted to your money initially, and you still decide to committ, thats totally your fault

This is under the false assumption that every hot women wants a rich man

And put yourself in their shoes, who want to marry a bum anyway?

If the whole relationship started with the attraction of your wealth and not you. you ought to end the relationship..... unless she beomce emotionally attach to you as well...which can happens

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: m4ch0dude

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: m4ch0dude
I read the thing about the ladder theory and the more you think about it, the more fvcked up it seems, how women really want the guy with the money/power. Why not just kill the bastad and take the money, not even have to have sex with the typical fat, bald rich guy. If you think about it, they just want the money, not the guy. And to be honest, there's no way in hell I would want to commit to a long term relationship with somebody who's primarily interested in my money (which I dont actually have yet, but I'm 24 and I happen to be a good loking guy so I'm not complaining). The only sensible thing to do it seems is to hook up with the girl , and then move on to the next one. But that kind of attitude is not gonna work when you get old, so how do you deal with something like that? It's like being unofficially stuck with a whore, only you have to put up with all the relationship cr@p. Neways, I'd like to hear what other ppl think about this.

This might come as a shock but there are actually good looking women out there who not only will love you for you but who would also work to support you should that become needed to sustain the two of you.

OK, let me ask you this: you have a choice between a good looking guy whos not so rich, and a rich guy who's not so hot. Which one would you initially be more attracted to?

unless he's got his checkbook attached to his butt I'm not "initially" gonna know he's rich am I am ?

perhaps the 44 yr old is simply better in bed than you are.

 

[miri]

You sound like a dating noob and with that attitude good luck finding dates. You need to just relax and meet people and quit worrying so much man.

 

[acemcmac]

I'm in that situation now, not that I'm fabulously wealthy or anything, but I am *very* well off for a college kid, and unlike most other college kids with money, I made it all myself. My valentines day gifts have carrots in them, I always take the tab and I never refuse *any date* on the grounds of price. If I'm going to have enough fun to justify the outlay, it's a done deal.

unfortunatley, I seem to have dug myself quite a hole with the gf.... and now I'm in a boat where she completley takes me for granted (money is only one dimension of this, as I feel I redifine what it means to be a considerate bf.... didn't even raise an eyebrow when she went skiing with the ex and didn't tell me it was the ex until after the fact), tools all over me and leaves me yearning for any of the half dozen 200x more considerate girls I could have instead...

I hate thinking about this, I'm gunna have to play some pirates to get my mind off of it....

 

[vtqanh]

Reading the Ladder Theory...

 

[m4ch0dude]

Originally posted by: acemcmac
I'm in that situation now, not that I'm fabulously wealthy or anything, but I am *very* well off for a college kid, and unlike most other college kids with money, I made it all myself. My valentines day gifts have carrots in them, I always take the tab and I never refuse *any date* on the grounds of price. If I'm going to have enough fun to justify the outlay, it's a done deal.

unfortunatley, I seem to have dug myself quite a hole with the gf.... and now I'm in a boat where she completley takes me for granted (money is only one dimension of this, as I feel I redifine what it means to be a considerate bf.... didn't even raise an eyebrow when she went skiing with the ex and didn't tell me it was the ex until after the fact), tools all over me and leaves me yearning for any of the half dozen 200x more considerate girls I could have instead...

I hate thinking about this, I'm gunna have to play some pirates to get my mind off of it....

Maybe you should go skiing with one of your exes

 

[OverVolt]

bang and run

 

[m4ch0dude]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: m4ch0dude

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: m4ch0dude
I read the thing about the ladder theory and the more you think about it, the more fvcked up it seems, how women really want the guy with the money/power. Why not just kill the bastad and take the money, not even have to have sex with the typical fat, bald rich guy. If you think about it, they just want the money, not the guy. And to be honest, there's no way in hell I would want to commit to a long term relationship with somebody who's primarily interested in my money (which I dont actually have yet, but I'm 24 and I happen to be a good loking guy so I'm not complaining). The only sensible thing to do it seems is to hook up with the girl , and then move on to the next one. But that kind of attitude is not gonna work when you get old, so how do you deal with something like that? It's like being unofficially stuck with a whore, only you have to put up with all the relationship cr@p. Neways, I'd like to hear what other ppl think about this.

This might come as a shock but there are actually good looking women out there who not only will love you for you but who would also work to support you should that become needed to sustain the two of you.

OK, let me ask you this: you have a choice between a good looking guy whos not so rich, and a rich guy who's not so hot. Which one would you initially be more attracted to?

unless he's got his checkbook attached to his butt I'm not "initially" gonna know he's rich am I am ?

perhaps the 44 yr old is simply better in bed than you are.

Maybe he's got a footlong... otherwise I seriously doubt it.

 

[m4ch0dude]

Originally posted by: miri
You sound like a dating noob and with that attitude good luck finding dates. You need to just relax and meet people and quit worrying so much man.

I got no problem dating ppl, but when you start getting into a serious potentially long term relationship, it's no joke.