It all depends on your values and the inner human nature of whether or not it realize it's true needs and will be able to overcome such urges in exchange for something deeper.
By what I mean, would you want to spend time with only one person in one year's time with no other interaction but only one based on lust or would you have friends, interaction, a fast computer

, and a once in a lifetime chance if it shows up to meet someone special here not based on lust but of love.
And besides, you might have both if you are the "professor" and designed a GHz computer out of coconuts and seashells...
