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LookingGlass

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Well, you said that you guys are already good friends. Right? Well, what brought you two together in the first place?

Talk about what you know, what she knows. What are your interests? Talk about the latest movie, good book, family, friends, current events. Whatever happens, let the conversation flow, ask her what does she like to do. Just relax, and have fun.

 

DarkKnight69

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Originally posted by: RandomFool
Start by telling her you love her and then show her all the pictures that's you've been taking of her. Then just be yourself for the rest of the night. As soon as you know she's back home call her and say you just wanted to talk. either that or follow the guy above me's directions.

That gets the ladies everytime

i said we were friends, not that I stalked her!
 

tweakmm

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Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
Originally posted by: RandomFool
Start by telling her you love her and then show her all the pictures that's you've been taking of her. Then just be yourself for the rest of the night. As soon as you know she's back home call her and say you just wanted to talk. either that or follow the guy above me's directions.

That gets the ladies everytime

i said we were friends, not that I stalked her!
You should work on that.
Chicks dig stalkers.

 

DarkKnight69

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she asked me to come 'straighten out' the guy that follows her around college...

I know she is not into stalkers!
 

RandomFool

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Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
Originally posted by: RandomFool
Start by telling her you love her and then show her all the pictures that's you've been taking of her. Then just be yourself for the rest of the night. As soon as you know she's back home call her and say you just wanted to talk. either that or follow the guy above me's directions.

That gets the ladies everytime

i said we were friends, not that I stalked her!

that's your problem right there. You're going to have to break into her house and steal some of her panties now. Wear them to the date and show her those instead of the pictures.

Oh! and chicks love it when you touch them while they're talking to you.
 

Bryophyte

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Don't talk about yourself all evening. Make casual body contact once in awhile (walk close to her and brush your arm with yours, touch her arm or shoulder, stuff like that.) Push her chair in at the restaurant.

Make sure you brush your teeth (bad breath is a date killer) and wear something nice. Wear a little cologne if you have something nice, but not too much.

Avoid negative topics, like stress at work or problems you're having with friends or family members or coworkers.
 
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I hereby submit this thread as proof contrary to the accepted belief that humans are social creatures. Are you really that inept at interaction? :p

The only time I was ever nervous talking to a girl was when I proposed to my fiancée - and that's a pretty damned good excuse! :)

- M4H
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
So here is the situation. I am taking a very good friend out on a date tonight for dinner and I am not sure the certain things to talk about to 'win her over' so to speak. Let me clarify, I care for this girl very much and I am not in it for the sex. I would just prefer to have a more involved relationship with her.

it is obvious we both have interest but i am looking for suggestions on how not ot fvck up!!

Thanks
don't be a candyass and act too much into her. that is a turnoff. show you are interested but don't be a sappy wimp.

also, touch her hair and tell her how soft it is and then ask if it's alright to give her a kiss.

 

Taggart

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
So here is the situation. I am taking a very good friend out on a date tonight for dinner and I am not sure the certain things to talk about to 'win her over' so to speak. Let me clarify, I care for this girl very much and I am not in it for the sex. I would just prefer to have a more involved relationship with her.

it is obvious we both have interest but i am looking for suggestions on how not ot fvck up!!

Thanks
don't be a candyass and act too much into her. that is a turnoff. show you are interested but don't be a sappy wimp.

also, touch her hair and tell her how soft it is and then ask if it's alright to give her a kiss.

Physical contact is good, right? Do women like it when you put a hand on their knee or whatever when talking? Or 'accidentally' brushing their hand on the table?
 

moshquerade

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Originally posted by: Taggart
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
So here is the situation. I am taking a very good friend out on a date tonight for dinner and I am not sure the certain things to talk about to 'win her over' so to speak. Let me clarify, I care for this girl very much and I am not in it for the sex. I would just prefer to have a more involved relationship with her.

it is obvious we both have interest but i am looking for suggestions on how not ot fvck up!!

Thanks
don't be a candyass and act too much into her. that is a turnoff. show you are interested but don't be a sappy wimp.

also, touch her hair and tell her how soft it is and then ask if it's alright to give her a kiss.

Physical contact is good, right? Do women like it when you put a hand on their knee or whatever when talking? Or 'accidentally' brushing their hand on the table?
they like it if they are attracted to you.
i was at my doctors the other day for a routine physical, and he was listening to my heart
and he leaned in so that his dick was touching my hand through his pants.
i am not attracted to him, i did NOT like that physical contact. :Q
and i'm gonna go with it just being innocent. :eek:
 

DarkKnight69

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i have NEVER had an issue talking to other girls ever, but this is not some random bar ho!!!

and my last breakup didnt go well...i think that is likely part of the issue!
 

ed21x

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be a man of initiative... girls like guys that have confidence and comfort