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DarkKnight69

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So here is the situation. I am taking a very good friend out on a date tonight for dinner and I am not sure the certain things to talk about to 'win her over' so to speak. Let me clarify, I care for this girl very much and I am not in it for the sex. I would just prefer to have a more involved relationship with her.

it is obvious we both have interest but i am looking for suggestions on how not ot fvck up!!

Thanks
 
OrByte

OrByte

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why are you looking for just a womens opinion?

just be yourself. It's the only way to know for sure.

 
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DarkKnight69

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meh, this is OT..

and there are some women here, i find guys are either A. never had a date and are going off movies/tv or b. dont wanna offer good advise!
 
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Lola

enjoy the time.
really listen to what she is saying and be an active participant in the conversations.
start the night off right by getting her a single flower... but something unexpected like a calla lily or sunflower. (whatever you do, dont get a rose or carnation!)

be yourself and don't be afraid to talk about anything. if you send out a "warm" vibe she will be able to tell and will gladly open up more!
you'll be fine! have fun!
oh, if she has a sleeveless top/dress on and the restraunt is cool, offer her your jacket too!
 
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mitmot

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be yourself.

if she doesn't like you for who you are then you are wasting your time.
 
BrokenVisage

BrokenVisage

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Originally posted by: DarkKnight69
Originally posted by: BrokenVisage
Don't be yourself, try to be Brad Pitt FTW her over.
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and there proves my point!
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He asked for women to answer so obviously my post wouldn't be considered relevant. Nef happens.
 
Nitemare

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Originally posted by: mitmot
be yourself.

if she doesn't like you for who you are then you are wasting your time.
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What if you make Napoleon Dynamite seem hip?
 
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DarkKnight69

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seems so much easier witha chick at the bar...a few drinks and corney lines and you are in.

My issue is i am not really sure what to talk about!!
 
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habib89

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just talk about whatever comes up.. if she brings up a topic, talk about it.. if you have an interesting story or soemthing on current events, talk about it.. if she gives you yes and no answers all night, and doesn't help with the progression of the conversation, that means she's not interested.. in that case, you're sh!it out of luck
 
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Juice Box

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i know what you mean man, but all you can do is just be yourself....been there done that, worked fine. Just let her start conversation if you are scared....they are usualy good about that
 
GuitarDaddy

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Be very attentive, don't babble on about yourself, try and stick to topics that you know she's interested in.

Don't check out other women "look at that hottie with the big rack" :(

Use your best table manners, no slurping, eating with fingers, etc...

Drink moderately, don't get drunk.

Use some old fashion civalry, open doors for her, pull her chair out for her, etc...

Make her know this is special night for you, clean the car, dress your best, bring her some flowers, etc...

 
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Start by telling her you love her and then show her all the pictures that's you've been taking of her. Then just be yourself for the rest of the night. As soon as you know she's back home call her and say you just wanted to talk. either that or follow the guy above me's directions.

That gets the ladies everytime

 
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