Wife beaten and raped while her husband hides and does nothing

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rivan

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Everyone's moral is different. I don't care what you think of me but if you believe that it's ok to do nothing while your wife is getting beaten and raped then you are a coward and do not deserve her one bit. You are worse than scum if you're willing to listen and see your wife getting raped and try to rationalize it later.

You obviously haven't read everything I've written in this thread.
 

eits

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I would and just did. Police were useless so I had to do something because the pain of not getting revenge was simply too great. Besides, I think I did them a favor because my other idea was to setup the robber with a girl I knew that had AIDS.

LOLOLOL!! you're cracking me up... and full of shit.
 

Dari

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Please...................it sounds good.....................real good and tough............

On the internet........................

At least I know I'm reading the words of a coward when I read your posts from now on. I hope you don't have many women in your family because you're as useless as tits on a bull when it comes to their security. You'll probably be the guy running the other way when thugs come to assault them.
 

classy

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And I wonder why America is going down the toilet. It's full of cowards like you. It used to be something bad happened, people came out of the woodwork to help. Now people sit back and only hope that nothing bad happens to them.

I'd rather die fighting off a pack of intruders than to run and hide. Hell go to the kitchen and get a knife, and iron, something to fight back.
Luckily, I live in America and I'd just shoot the sum'bitch and all his friends.

Thats because you live here. You don't know oppression, you think you know, but you don't. They would have probably killed him, raped his wife anyway, then started on his children. I am not saying what I would have done, I can say a lof things, we all can, but I am not sure until I was in that situation.

Man is there like any "normal" motherfrackers here. Is everybody here bad ass, married to a model, college graduated with a masters, 6 figure salaries, and zero fear of nothing. I swear, lol, I just swear Bruce Banner is alive in everyone here....wtf
 

Dari

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LOLOLOL!! you're cracking me up... and full of shit.

Whether or not you believe me means nothing to me. And I sure as hell am not going to give you names, dates and addresses, lol.

EDIT: But it must feel good knowing I'm not willing to give you proof, doesn't it? Because, if I did, it would show that there are better men out there than you. And that would bother you, wouldn't it? Just admit it, it would bother you knowing that you're all talk while others do things:)
 
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Red Storm

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Thats because you live here. You don't know oppression, you think you know, but you don't. They would have probably killed him, raped his wife anyway, then started on his children. I am not saying what I would have done, I can say a lof things, we all can, but I am not sure until I was in that situation.

Man is there like any "normal" motherfrackers here. Is everybody here bad ass, married to a model, college graduated with a masters, 6 figure salaries, and zero fear of nothing. I swear, lol, I just swear Bruce Banner is alive in everyone here....wtf

It's your fucking wife! It doesn't matter if you're scared, you get up and save her or die trying. I'm shocked that anyone would think differently.
 

classy

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Whether or not you believe me means nothing to me. And I sure as hell am not going to give you names, dates and addresses, lol.

Well look here playa, I have been a few situations I need to have solved. Think you can help me out :)

Holla back, if you hear me :)
 

classy

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It's your fucking wife! It doesn't matter if you're scared, you get up and save her or die trying. I'm shocked that anyone would think differently.

I'll say this and then I am done. I can't say what I would have done. But he may have saved his life and his family's as well. I know you may not be able to understand that. It may seem like a totally coward thing to do, but see what you and so many just don't get, death is permanent. Ain't no coming back from that.

He sees the charges go through, hopefully see this maggot will go to jail, but who knows this is China. Maybe even leave and start over somewhere else. Again I can't say this man made the wrong decision.
 

AppaTheBison

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Don't worry this is China. Punishment will actually be swift and severe for the Rapist relative to a rape sentence in America.
 

cubby1223

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Thats because you live here. You don't know oppression, you think you know, but you don't. They would have probably killed him, raped his wife anyway, then started on his children. I am not saying what I would have done, I can say a lof things, we all can, but I am not sure until I was in that situation.

Man is there like any "normal" motherfrackers here. Is everybody here bad ass, married to a model, college graduated with a masters, 6 figure salaries, and zero fear of nothing. I swear, lol, I just swear Bruce Banner is alive in everyone here....wtf

Don't fret - you're the only sane person in this thread. We all know internet forum dwellers ain't exactly the toughest crowd around.




I think over in England if someone invades your home and you fight back, you are the one prosecuted! I remember hearing a lengthy discussion about this during the times of the London riots earlier this year.
 

lowrider69

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It may seem like a totally coward thing to do, but see what you and so many just don't get, death is permanent. Ain't no coming back from that.

Some mental images are permanent and people don't come back from that at times either. You could walk around like a walking dead person after experiencing that. I understand what you are saying though.

It really depends on your way of thinking. Some people are wired to fight when presented with something like that, some flee. Fight or flight.
 

DesiPower

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there are several things that suggest that he indeed is totally a waste of Oxygen. firstly it went on for an hour, that enough time to act when he's detracted, secondly attacker was one, alone, not a group, if it was a quick attack it was understandable, but it went on for an hour, enough time to get over the shock and calm down and plan and act.
 

Texashiker

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The husband probably planned the whole thing.

I bet the husband had some kind of fantasy of seeing his wife raped. His wife would not go along with the acting, so the husband got someone to rape her instead of just acting like it.
 

crownjules

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there are several things that suggest that he indeed is totally a waste of Oxygen. firstly it went on for an hour, that enough time to act when he's detracted, secondly attacker was one, alone, not a group, if it was a quick attack it was understandable, but it went on for an hour, enough time to get over the shock and calm down and plan and act.

The husband says quite clearly that the rapist had two accomplices with him.
 

Specop 007

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I don't fault the guy here at all. In this situation I don't think there is a right answer. He fights back and dies, they are going to rape her anyway. I might have fought back, but who knows what any of us would really do in that situation.

I'd beat him to death with my clothes hanger if I had to. Whatever it took so my wife could get away.
 

bfdd

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I don't fault the guy here at all. In this situation I don't think there is a right answer. He fights back and dies, they are going to rape her anyway. I might have fought back, but who knows what any of us would really do in that situation.

I understand we aren't in his position, but I would much rather be dead and be remembered as the loving husband that died trying to save his wife from being raped than the dude that just stood by and let it happen. I don't have any hang ups about "saving face", it just seems like the right thing to do.
 

rasczak

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I don't fault the guy here at all. In this situation I don't think there is a right answer. He fights back and dies, they are going to rape her anyway. I might have fought back, but who knows what any of us would really do in that situation.

You fight to the death. In the end you have to protect your wife and children with your own life.
 

gevorg

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Its better to die with honor than live like a coward.

The least he can do now is revenge.
 

GundamW

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You know, the reason you are reading that article is because he is still alive and was able to tell the story.

If he charged out like an idiot, he would have been killed for certain. The rapists would still rape the wife. After that, to get rid of the evidence, they would probably killed all of them, bury them somewhere remote, and go on their business as usual. Victim's family file a missing person(s) to the local police. Police does nothing, or do a half-ass/drag-out investigation, or find the rapists but got bribed into keeping it a secret.
No one would have known anything at all.

Getting your stupid self killed solves nothing. It's better to live and fight another day.

Now that the story is out, let's hope the scum rapists get their just punishments.
 
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Thats because you live here. You don't know oppression, you think you know, but you don't. They would have probably killed him, raped his wife anyway, then started on his children. I am not saying what I would have done, I can say a lof things, we all can, but I am not sure until I was in that situation.

Man is there like any "normal" motherfrackers here. Is everybody here bad ass, married to a model, college graduated with a masters, 6 figure salaries, and zero fear of nothing. I swear, lol, I just swear Bruce Banner is alive in everyone here....wtf

Some of us have been in life or death situations and know how we react.
Face it. you are a coward and that's that. Others of us here have some moral convictions and won't sit idly by and let our wives, girl friends, children, mothers, whoever we care about, be beaten and raped.
The pathetic justification of you'll get killed and she'll get raped anyways so why bother is sickening.
If you do nothing, like the husband in the story, your wife will hate you. You will hate yourself, and so will everyone else.
If you fight back, they may kill you, they may realize it isn't worth the hassle or risk and just leave. Killing someone tends to cause the local officials, even in shit holes, to actually do something about it.

BTW, if by normal you mean whipped, snivelling cowards, there are some here with you.
 
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