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Why would anyone be against gay marriage?

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Originally posted by: moshquerade
you don't need a subsidy either then.

except heterosexual partnerships provide a benefit to the state that homosexual partnerships do not

and thus the state finds it worthy to subsidize them

 
Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
Let's say the government removed all tax breaks (or as you call them, erroneously, subsidies) from marriage. Would marriage cease to exist? Would it be impossible for the government to now recognize a man and a woman as being "married" because the "subsidies" have been revoked? No, because although a legal marriage in USA may be composed of "subsidies" (and other things), a legal marriage is not, by definition, a subsidy.

if the government removed all benefits of marriage, it would no longer have a need to recognize marriages

it recognizes marriages as a way of recognizing who is eligible for certain benefits

if there are no benefits to give out, then the whole reason for the state recognizing marriages goes away

I didn't say anything about removing all of the benefits of marriage, I specifically addressed your assertion that marriage IS A subsidy. Don't try to change my argument you fucking snake.

Now I'm outta here, I have no interest in arguing with a dishonest bigot such as yourself and frankly I don't give a shit how you bigoted Americans choose to treat homosexuals, I'm happy living in a free country where homosexuals are afforded the same rights as other human beings (or at least we're very, very close).

dude, please don't generalize. he doesn't represent America.
 
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you don't need a subsidy either then.

except heterosexual partnerships provide a benefit to the state that homosexual partnerships do not

and thus the state finds it worthy to subsidize them

listen, here's the deal. i hope you have a homosexual child. i hope you realize you will love this child no matter what. i hope you realize then that all your bigotry and homophobia is idiotic.
 
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: TruePaige

Ugh, I can't believe I'm lowering myself to indulge in your idiotic approach but here is one for you.

Gay people can have babies too.

but not with members of the same sex

thus marriage between two members of the same sex does not increase the odds of a baby being produced

and is thus not worth subsidizing

Actually to follow your own half-baked logic....having the gay couple be married would increase the odds that they would feel comfortable bringing a child into their home / the world and could provide for it.

No difference from straight people.
 
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you don't need a subsidy either then.

except heterosexual partnerships provide a benefit to the state that homosexual partnerships do not

and thus the state finds it worthy to subsidize them

you're logic is gay
 
Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
I didn't say anything about removing all of the benefits of marriage, I specifically addressed your assertion that marriage IS A subsidy. Don't try to change my argument you fucking snake.

fine, you want to play word games, marriage is a recognition of who is eligible for a group of subsidies

by recognizing a couple as married, you are recognizing them as eligible for all the subsidies that pertain thereto

so by any common understanding, marriage is a subsidy


Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
Now I'm outta here, I have no interest in arguing with a dishonest bigot such as yourself and frankly I don't give a shit how you bigoted Americans choose to treat homosexuals

by allowing them to do whatever they want?

i'm missing the oppression here


Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
I'm happy living in a free country where homosexuals are afforded the same rights as other human beings (or at least we're very, very close).

gays have all the same rights

calling the ability to receive money from the state for your lifestyle choice a 'right' is just sad

 
Originally posted by: moshquerade
listen, here's the deal. i hope you have a homosexual child. i hope you realize you will love this child no matter what. i hope you realize then that all your bigotry and homophobia is idiotic.

how is it bigotry and homophobia for the state to reward behavior that leads to more babies and stable homes to raise them in?

they aren't punishing homosexuals

gays are free to live however they want

just because they aren't getting subsidized doesn't mean they're being oppressed
 
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you don't need a subsidy either then.

except heterosexual partnerships provide a benefit to the state that homosexual partnerships do not

and thus the state finds it worthy to subsidize them

Why do you arbitrarily single out that one benefit for "subsidy"? Carpenters and electrical engineers provide a greater benefit to the state than strippers and magicians, should we give a tax break to the more useful/beneficial professions? Should we start taxing people more if they have greater than 5 kids, because that benefit turns into a drain on society? If studies determine that Asian people are generally more productive than white people, should all Asians be given tax breaks because it benefits society?
 
Originally posted by: TruePaige

Actually to follow your own half-baked logic....having the gay couple be married would increase the odds that they would feel comfortable bringing a child into their home / the world and could provide for it.

sure there are corner cases like this, but the state feels in general the cost of subsidizing all gay partnerships will outweigh the benefit from the minority of cases like this
 
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: moshquerade
listen, here's the deal. i hope you have a homosexual child. i hope you realize you will love this child no matter what. i hope you realize then that all your bigotry and homophobia is idiotic.

how is it bigotry and homophobia for the state to reward behavior that leads to more babies and stable homes to raise them in?

they aren't punishing homosexuals

gays are free to live however they want

just because they aren't getting subsidized doesn't mean they're being oppressed

That makes NO SENSE.

Homosexuals can have just as many kids as straight people and provide just as stable a home environment if you stop throwing up barriers.

Man, bigots are short sighted and dumb.
 
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: TruePaige

Actually to follow your own half-baked logic....having the gay couple be married would increase the odds that they would feel comfortable bringing a child into their home / the world and could provide for it.

sure there are corner cases like this, but the state feels in general the cost of subsidizing all gay partnerships will outweigh the benefit from the minority of cases like this

The state feels this? You just made that up.

Well, I proved you wrong using your own bigot logic so you are resorting to making things up, so..I'm done! 🙂
 
Originally posted by: TruePaige
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: moshquerade
listen, here's the deal. i hope you have a homosexual child. i hope you realize you will love this child no matter what. i hope you realize then that all your bigotry and homophobia is idiotic.

how is it bigotry and homophobia for the state to reward behavior that leads to more babies and stable homes to raise them in?

they aren't punishing homosexuals

gays are free to live however they want

just because they aren't getting subsidized doesn't mean they're being oppressed

That makes NO SENSE.

Homosexuals can have just as many kids as straight people and provide just as stable a home environment if you stop throwing up barriers.

Man, bigots are short sighted and dumb.
short sighted, dumb, and not worth our time.

once a bigot, always a bigot. it's too bad they were raised in a home where their parents taught them that they were special and anyone unlike them was to be chastised.
 
Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
Why do you arbitrarily single out that one benefit for "subsidy"? Carpenters and electrical engineers provide a greater benefit to the state than strippers and magicians, should we give a tax break to the more useful/beneficial professions?

we already do

farmers get all sorts of subsidies because we feel it's important to maintain the ability to grow our own food even when the economics don't support it

green tech is getting all sorts of subsidies right now

in the past there were all sorts of subsidies for oil and gas exploration


Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
Should we start taxing people more if they have greater than 5 kids, because that benefit turns into a drain on society?

on the whole, more kids is a benefit to society


Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
If studies determine that Asian people are generally more productive than white people, should all Asians be given tax breaks because it benefits society?

no, because that is a subsidy based on identity and not behavior

and no, marriage is not based on identity, it is based on behavior

a gay man can get the subsidy by engaging in the necessary behavior, namely entering into a partnership with a woman

a non-asian person could never get a benefit that was solely for asians
 
Originally posted by: TruePaige
That makes NO SENSE.

Homosexuals can have just as many kids as straight people and provide just as stable a home environment if you

if married gays are having kids, they're having them outside of their marriage anyways, so the marriage is doing nothing to encourage more kids

gay marriage is worthless (practically) for producing kids, and is thus not worth subsidizing

as far as a stable home environment, again i said it was a 2 part thing

producing babies AND encouraging a stable home

gay marriage fails on the first part

and lets be honest, gay couples are far, far less likely to have kids than heterosexual couples

thus the ROI of subsidizing all gay couples for the few that do have kids is very poor and probably a waste of the state's money


Originally posted by: TruePaige
stop throwing up barriers

what barriers?

nothing prevents them from having all kids they want
 
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: TruePaige
That makes NO SENSE.

Homosexuals can have just as many kids as straight people and provide just as stable a home environment if you stop throwing up barriers.

if married gays are having kids, they're having them outside of their marriage anyways, so the marriage is doing nothing to encourage more kids

gay marriage is worthless (practically) for producing kids, and is thus not worth subsidizing

as far as a stable home environment, again i said it was a 2 part thing

producing babies AND encouraging a stable home

gay marriage fails on the first part

and lets be honest, gay couples are far, far less likely to have kids than heterosexual couples

thus the ROI of subsidizing all gay couples for the few that do have kids is very poor and probably a waste of the state's money

if you type subsidizing ONE MORE TIME i will beat the virtual snot out of you.
 
Originally posted by: TruePaige
The state feels this? You just made that up.

not really, it's intuitively obvious

if you want to 'buy' more kids, giving money to gay couples isn't the most efficient way to do it

 
Originally posted by: tynopik
Originally posted by: TruePaige
That makes NO SENSE.

Homosexuals can have just as many kids as straight people and provide just as stable a home environment if you

if married gays are having kids, they're having them outside of their marriage anyways, so the marriage is doing nothing to encourage more kids

gay marriage is worthless (practically) for producing kids, and is thus not worth subsidizing

as far as a stable home environment, again i said it was a 2 part thing

producing babies AND encouraging a stable home

gay marriage fails on the first part

and lets be honest, gay couples are far, far less likely to have kids than heterosexual couples

thus the ROI of subsidizing all gay couples for the few that do have kids is very poor and probably a waste of the state's money


Originally posted by: TruePaige
stop throwing up barriers

what barriers?

nothing prevents them from having all kids they want

WTF are you talking about? Your "argument" is grade-A bullshit.

Subsidizing? How is the government subsiding married couples?

The children argument is stupid - what about old people that get married - they aren't raising kids. What about sterile people? What about people that don't want kids ever? Should we not allow them to marry?

Stable home? That's also bullshit - you assume that a hetersexual couple makes a stable home, but a gay couple can easily provide a stable home.
 
Originally posted by: Brainonska511
Subsidizing? How is the government subsiding married couples?

social security and military pension survivor benefits
joint filing
spousal benefits for federal employees
inheritance benefits


Originally posted by: Brainonska511
The children argument is stupid - what about old people that get married - they aren't raising kids. What about sterile people? What about people that don't want kids ever? Should we not allow them to marry?

old people, you never can tell

there have been mothers well into their 60s and fathers into their 90s

sterile? that's costly to determine and there are privacy options and even still the tests are often wrong

if they don't want to have kids? well that's one of the purposes of marriage, to encourage accidents 😉

the government decided that easiest and most cost effective method was to simply make the cutoff a man + a woman


Originally posted by: Brainonska511
Stable home? That's also bullshit - you assume that a hetersexual couple makes a stable home, but a gay couple can easily provide a stable home.

i didn't say they couldn't

i said it was a 2 part deal, make babies AND stable home

gay couples don't do so well on the first part
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: rbV5
Originally posted by: spidey07
It is NOT going to happen. You can keep dreaming about it but it's not going to happen.

It's just a matter of time. There is just no reasonable argument against Gay Marriage.

Except for homosexuality being wrong. Sure.

Ladies and Gents, the face of the Republican Party
 
Originally posted by: Phokus
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: rbV5
Originally posted by: spidey07
It is NOT going to happen. You can keep dreaming about it but it's not going to happen.

It's just a matter of time. There is just no reasonable argument against Gay Marriage.

Except for homosexuality being wrong. Sure.

Ladies and Gents, the face of the Republican Party
screw you.
 
Originally posted by: RedSquirrel
Originally posted by: GodlessAstronomer
Originally posted by: zinfamous
Originally posted by: RedSquirrel
Mariage is meant to be between man and woman. Period. If people want to go gay it up go right ahead, but stay out of public and out of society.

lolwut. and here I always thought you were just this sheltered little kid, coming out to life in the last year for all of ATOT to see. (The fact that 90% of your posts reveal a shockingly naive and ignorant understanding of the world).

....and now here we see there is, likely, an ingrained prejudice hiding behind those doe eyes.
NICE

Yes, I'm EXTREMELY surprised to see this coming from RedSquirrel, who is otherwise such a good guy. How disappointing, at some point in his life someone has planted a prejudice in his mind about this one thing.

As a Christian, I think it's just totally wrong.

I usually don't take part in arguments especially sensitive topics like gay marriage. Everyone including me is dead set on their own opinion, and some things are just not worth arguing over.

I just felt like throwing my opinion out this time to see the reaction. 😛

As a Christian, you should post a link to where Christ said being gay was bad. If you quote from the Old Testament, I'll post a quote from the Old Testament that says adulterers and disobedient children should be stoned to death.

In other words, cherry picking your "morals" from the writings of bronze age hermits makes you look retarded.
 
Originally posted by: Greenman
Originally posted by: rbV5
Originally posted by: spidey07
It is NOT going to happen. You can keep dreaming about it but it's not going to happen.

It's just a matter of time. There is just no reasonable argument against Gay Marriage.

I would say there is no reasonable argument for gay marriage.

Except that barring gay marriage violates the Constitution.
 
Originally posted by: dainthomas

As a Christian, you should post a link to where Christ said being gay was bad. If you quote from the Old Testament, I'll post a quote from the Old Testament that says adulterers and disobedient children should be stoned to death.

In other words, cherry picking your "morals" from the writings of bronze age hermits makes you look retarded.

Christians are welcome to believe whatever they want.

their morals are fine, no matter how much I may dis/agree with them, right up until their morality starts infringing on other people's legal rights.
 
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