Originally posted by: Night201
Originally posted by: amdforever2
My bird doesn't like me so I don't play with it. How do I know what sex it is? What kind of toys if not a mirror? It never used it's swing.
That's your problem right there. Did you get it when it was young? If so, you probably didn't raise it right (so to speak). You have to slowly let the bird trust you. I feel that there is a really special way to raise a bird when it is young. If you do it right, they will trust all humans and love playing with you. My bird used to chirp like crazy and jump back and forth between the rails when he would see me in the window approaching my front door. He'd keep jumping back and forth until I came to him and opened up his cage. At that point he would climb down and fly onto my shoulder. It was great. He's stay there too for as long as I wanted him too. We also used to whistle back and forth to each other. I tought him many whistles. It was really cute. Also, if he was out flying about or just hanging out somewhere and I was in my room or any other room, I'd whistle him and he'd come flying in - everytime. What a great bird he was!
I feel bad for your bird. It sounds like you didn't know how to raise it. You probably shouldn't have gotten one. Although, I don't know this for sure. It's just an assumption. It's unfortunate, because parakeets are great pets!