Why talk a suicidal person out of jumping?

GagBag

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if some guy is on the roof and about to jump, why all the commotion to make him stop? unless hes a threat to others, whats the point? just let him do it and save everybody the time and money. call me an insensitive bastard, but i just dont understand!
 

kru

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ILikeSprite beat me to it :p


ILikeSprite: sick minds think alike
 

ImTyping

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Because choosing a permanent solution for a temporary problem is always a dumb thing to do.

Oh, and you are an insensitive bastard.
 

GagBag

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<< well they gotta pay someone to clean the mess off the sidewalk.......... >>



ah yes, that is why :)
 

kru

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ImTyping, you phrased it better and more succinctly than anything i could have come up with...


...and you were dead on on both counts:

permanent solution for a temporary problem

you are an insensitive bastard.


 

nirgis

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what if the person jumping was your brother? And you knew he wasn't thinking clearly?
 

GagBag

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<< what if the person jumping was your brother? And you knew he wasn't thinking clearly? >>



my answer to that is, i would have noticed him in distress and would get him help before he did anything irrational.
 

kru

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i find it hard to believe that someone who would sooner let someone jump than try to talk them off that ledge would care enough about another person to "get them help before they did anything irrational."


oh, but i forgot. you would do that for a blood relative but not someone you didn't know personally. nice double standard.
 

Vadatajs

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Because talking them down is easier than jumping after them and trying to catch them before they hit the ground ala superman.


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GagBag

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for me, knowing them would make all the difference, its not like cops and firefighters are doing it because they care. they're doing it so they can get a pat on the back from thier buddies and perhaps a promotion.
 

kru

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it's sad that you have such a low opinion of police officers and firefighters. i'm sure that those hundreds of them that died while rushing up the world trade center towers couldn't stop thinking about the promotions and awards they were going to get. :disgust:
 

GagBag

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i had a feeling you would bring that up. for something as big of a tragedy as the WTC or as little as house fire with a baby inside, i beleive those are done out of care and because its thier job. but to talk down a suicidal person, is completly different. they cant blame themselves if they couldnt talk the person out of jumping, it was their own decision.
 

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<< for me, knowing them would make all the difference, its not like cops and firefighters are doing it because they care. they're doing it so they can get a pat on the back from thier buddies and perhaps a promotion. >>



Please tell me that you have not reached puberty yet...I would hate to think that there are adults walking around that are as stupid as you. If you are an adult, would you please stop jerking off on the pc and go back to grammar school?
 

TheBlondOne

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It's at least worth a shot. I wouldn't want someone's blood on my hands if all they needed was for someone to say, "You'll be ok. Come down." Maybe all they want is for someone to care.

--Sarah
 

AreaCode707

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How do you know if the person on the ledge wouldn't want to live life after a little psychological counseling or prescription medications?
 

ImTyping

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OH and if YOU are thinking about jumping, please call the suicide hotline NOW. I forgot that some people who post threads like this are NOT trolls and actually need some help.
 

tweakmm

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I hope that you are really really drunk and that you decided to write on ATOT some completely random topic.
If you are serious:
you are an insensitive bastard
 

GagBag

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hah no, im not suicidal. Just after watching those 'shocking videos' on TLC, it popped in my head.

btw, yes i have pubes