The answer is simply because there is no "delidding issue" as far as Intel is concerned.
They don't bother to "fix" it for the same reason they don't bother to bundle a beefier stock heatsink: at stock, everything is fine and within expected parameters already.
for the minimal amount of engineering/legwork it would take to drop 10-20C it seems short sighted on there part not to fix it. Lowering your thermal envelope by 20-30% for fractions of a penny, not doing it seems silly. We're talking 10-20C at stock clock here. That is good for everyone.
Not everyone.
1. For one thing, it's not good for Intel. They don't care that you'd be 10-20C lower at stock clocks than you already are. They've already lined up the parameters and hit the targets. They don't need the customers to have 20C lower operating temps, because the current temps, voltage and clocks are all set to ensure the CPU survives long after all other components have failed. So all Intel will accomplish is increase costs for no gain on their end.
2. It's good for everyone, sure, but most customers wouldn't care either way. >99.9% of Intel's customers don't care if they would enjoy (or are enjoying) 20C lower operating temps. For practically all of Intel's customers, as long as it works at stock and the CPU will not fail before a new computer is bought and hits Intel's expected power and cooling parameters, everything is perfect already.
3. That really leaves only us, the overclocking enthusiasts, to actually consider this a good thing. It is certainly problematic for us, and would definitely benefit us if Intel were to go back to having no appreciable gap underneath the IHS. But we aren't a significant market, and for Intel to base their decisions (on where to save costs and where not to save costs) upon us instead of the >99.9% of their target market is just unthinkable.
I understand your frustration OP, and I feel what you feel as a fellow enthusiast. In real life though, for Intel, this is not a problem and there is no delidding issue, no matter how beneficial it would be for us.