Why is my girlfriend dodging me? - UPDATE #2

[khtm]

i wouldn't jump to conclusions - you should talk to her about why she's avoiding you.

you never know, maybe she has a yeast infection and is too embarrased to tell you

-khtm-

 

[Wik]

No way. Come on, 2 weeks she has been blowing him off. If he breaks up with her now and she really does want to stay together she will come begging. If she is not serious, she wont. Women will string a guy along forever. Don't play her game. Move on, you will then be able to see how she really feels about you.

 

[nullshark]

LOL, Noriaki, I think you nd I know some of the same women, heh. Almost all of my female friends do this to their boyfriends (age range from 22-35) It's just so fun to watch.

 

[Moonbeam]

It's either over or it isn't. It's either over or it isn't. I say that twice because it's hard to grasp the essentially liberating feeling that comes with knowing that it's either over or it isn't. Can you let go. See if you can let go. Love is about giving not getting. It's either over or it isn't and if you can let go whether it's over or it isn't is all the same. When you love you make the world beautiful. It spinns around your feet. When you love the flowers open in your garden and the world will come to your door. You are the great Xerox man. Be that greatness and don't worry. When one door closes another opens. But you can always also go out through the window. If you have the power to let her stay or walk as she wishes, that power will draw many more. Those here who say dump her first know nothing about love because they will not expose their hearts to pain. To love is to be vulnerable. The true lover has shed a sea of tears. Do the best you can and you'll always be ok. Good luck to you and may things turn out for the best.

 

[RudeBoie]

Maybe you were seeing too much of her before this all started? Sometimes there can be overkill, I suppose. My friend is running into the same problem. Sees his girlfriend for a couple of hrs a day, and sometimes she seems distant when he comes and sees her right now, almost like she doesn't want to see him.

 

[ace31216]

Maybe you guys just need some space.

 

[Sepen]

<< For the last couple weeks everytime I've called my GF, whether just to talk or go out, or whatever, she's either been too busy, too tired, or going out with girlfriends. No big deal except for the fact that this includes talking, also.

If she wanted to break up . . . wouldn't she just say so? Why am I getting the cold shoulder? >>



She sounds as if she is scared to tell you that she wants to break up. Dump her, you are better off in the short term , and definently
in the long term. Good luck.

 

[lawaris]

Ditto Noriaki

BTDT - it's over man !!!

 

[XMan]

<CLICHE ALERT>

She "wants to see other people".

She's "not ready for a serious relationship."

etc., etc., ad nauseum.

Hmm, well time for Thanksgiving dinner . . . where's the Wild Turkey?

 

[RegaPlanet]

Sry to hear that Xerox man. I really hate the girls that won't break off something and will just drag it out till you dump them or say things like she has said to you about wanting to date other people. Like really, how messed up of a complex is that?!?

 

[khtm]

<< She "wants to see other people".
She's "not ready for a serious relationship." >>



Hey! That sounds like the reason I broke up with my last gf. But I didn't ignore her for 2 weeks beforehand.

How old is this girl?

-khtm-

 

[Tomek]

that kind of sucks Xerox... right before Thanksgiving too

 

[mrCide]

sorry to hear that dude,

and duke, are you freakin retarded? jesus. go suck on a lemon

 

[Noriaki]

<< that kind of sucks Xerox... right before Thanksgiving too >>

Why do people always say things like that?

Okay, there is a big national holiday nearly every month...no matter when it happens it's going to be close to one of them, or a birthday or something....

Would you rather she strung you along not really giving a fvck about you for another 2 weeks so she could dump you farther away from a holiday...

No thanks....but if that's what you like, don't let me talk you out of it.


Like I said, women that say what they think are very few and far between, even now that you're splitting, she still can't say it straight....
Anyhow, I am sorry to hear that man...It sucks to get jacked around by women, I'm not overly surprised at the outcome, but I do feel bad for ya Xerox Dude.


:|

 

[killmeplease]

Tough break, Xerox Man. Better times ahead.

Most of us have been there. We know it's not fun, but it does get better.

Good luck.

 

[ImTyping]

<< She "wants to see other people".

She's "not ready for a serious relationship."

etc., etc., ad nauseum.
>>



This means, of course, that she is having sex with a guy a lot like ME right now.
COMING SOON: Another "why do women date assholes" thread, authored by Xerox.

 

[XMan]

This means, of course, that she is having sex with a guy a lot like ME right now.
COMING SOON: Another "why do women date assholes" thread, authored by Xerox.

LOL.

You're probably right, Typing, you're probably right.

 

[vtqanh]

<< COMING SOON: Another "why do women date assholes" thread, authored by Xerox. >>



lol

 

[phatcow]

she found a guy named "Savin Man?"

 

[millsy]

don't bother with her geeza
if she wants to be like that.....
go find someone else, that'll get her talking for sure

 

[Jfur]

sorry to hear that you can, and will, do way better...

 

[Muadib]

Classic sign that she was messing around. I hate it when people can't just be straight with each other. :|
It may not seem like it now Xerox, but you are better off without her.

 

[XMan]

Thanks for the condolences, guys.

Thanks to a a six-pack of Doc Otis and the ongoing Buffy marathon on FX, I am pain free.

More Doc and Buffy still to come . . .

 

[rgwalt]

Man, she sure didn't treat you right... If she wants to be like that, let her, and leave her. YOU DESERVE BETTER, and there is someone out there for you. Take care, and enjoy your Buffy.

Ryan

 

[XMan]

So I talk to one of my friends tonight, and find out that she's been bad-mouthing me behind my back to all of our friends.

Women are evil, evil creatures. :disgust: