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moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: meltdown75
ah, silent treatments work way too good on me. i'd rather have someone spazz out and tell me how they feel! if i was being ignored, i'd probably drop a few little ak's just to gauge the other person's reaction and see if we still had a connection or if i burned the bridge.
i don't like being ignored either. i'd must rather be bitched out.

 

BAMAVOO

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Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
I think a better solution would be to tell him "you pissed me off, you're not forgiven, but I'll do my best to tolerate you." :D
normally i would, but he's already said that women who forgive men are dumb.

Ahem... ^
yeh, but i still would be forgiving him in a sense.



Did he actually get to you, or are you just worried about becoming a "dumb woman" in his eyes if he realizes he offended you, and you let it slide?
it was kinda an eye opener to what he actually thinks of women in general.
he thinks that woman should forgive the man she was seeing who was lying to her and actually married.
and being that "women are dumb", she will forgive him.

do i still care about this guy? yes.
but i don't know how to get by this one.

Screw his brother? :D
 

Phoenix86

Lifer
May 21, 2003
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
So... why exactly are you interested in a disrespectful stalker? :)
that is a question i need to answer.

maybe i shouldn't be anymore.
...Interested in a respectfull one?

*holds door*

;)
 

alkemyst

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Feb 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

knows your reputation?
 

Leper Messiah

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Dec 13, 2004
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

Playing hard to get, eh? Tell him straight up what going on. If you don't shoot him down, he still thinks he has a chance.
 

Jeff7181

Lifer
Aug 21, 2002
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Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

Playing hard to get, eh? Tell him straight up what going on. If you don't shoot him down, he still thinks he has a chance.

They already "had a go."
 

Leper Messiah

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Dec 13, 2004
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Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

Playing hard to get, eh? Tell him straight up what going on. If you don't shoot him down, he still thinks he has a chance.

They already "had a go."

Apparently once wasn't enough for this guy...

EDIT: I mean, seriously, this guy still wants you, if he's going through all the trouble to try and get you to repsond...
 

Jeff7181

Lifer
Aug 21, 2002
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Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

Playing hard to get, eh? Tell him straight up what going on. If you don't shoot him down, he still thinks he has a chance.

They already "had a go."

Apparently once wasn't enough for this guy...

I'll refrain from further comments so as not to disrespect mosh. :)
 

Leper Messiah

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Dec 13, 2004
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Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

Playing hard to get, eh? Tell him straight up what going on. If you don't shoot him down, he still thinks he has a chance.

They already "had a go."

Apparently once wasn't enough for this guy...

I'll refrain from further comments so as not to disrespect mosh. :)

That'll be a first.
 

Jeff7181

Lifer
Aug 21, 2002
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Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
Originally posted by: L3p3rM355i4h
Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

Playing hard to get, eh? Tell him straight up what going on. If you don't shoot him down, he still thinks he has a chance.

They already "had a go."

Apparently once wasn't enough for this guy...

I'll refrain from further comments so as not to disrespect mosh. :)

That'll be a first.

Hey... moo. :D
 

Toasthead

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Aug 27, 2001
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

Are you his ex? We all stalk our ex's...remember??
 

bonkers325

Lifer
Mar 9, 2000
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

respond and bitch back at me so i get a freaking clue and leave u the hell alone

 

BAMAVOO

Diamond Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: bonkers325
Originally posted by: moshquerade
would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

respond and bitch back at me so i get a freaking clue and leave u the hell alone

Wow, you are still around! :)


 

tami

Lifer
Nov 14, 2004
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people want closure. they care about you enough to pursue the matter, and they won't give up that easily.

it offends many people a great deal to be given the silent treatment.
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: tami
people want closure. they care about you enough to pursue the matter, and they won't give up that easily.

it offends many people a great deal to be given the silent treatment.
it offends me to get the silent treatment, but then again i didn't say all men are dumb and would eventually forgive a woman who played them for a big fool.

 

Doboji

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May 18, 2001
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
they want you even more?

this guy i know said something real crappy to me. so i have just ignored his emails about it, and he keeps emailing me and emailing me, and doing other subtle things to kma.

normally he doesn't email me much at all.

would you rather someone ignored you or responded and bitched at you?

Me Man... me good hunter... show you me make good husband.. hunt very hard not give up....
 

Aquaman

Lifer
Dec 17, 1999
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Watch the movie "The Tao of Steve"

in it you will find out that "We pursue that which retreats from us" - Heidegger

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

PingSpike

Lifer
Feb 25, 2004
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Originally posted by: tami
people want closure. they care about you enough to pursue the matter, and they won't give up that easily.

it offends many people a great deal to be given the silent treatment.

Yeah, but its much easier to not talk to some one than it is to talk to them. I usually take this approach out of sheer laziness and apathy.
 

PingSpike

Lifer
Feb 25, 2004
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Originally posted by: Aquaman
Watch the movie "The Tao of Steve"

in it you will find out that "We pursue that which retreats from us" - Heidegger

Cheers,
Aquaman

Men want what they can't have.

Women want what doesn't exist.