Yup, touching on the shoulder means nothing; but hand on the leg, now that's a clue. WTG Dezign, wish more girls will give out clues like that or, better, yet just be up front. It would make being a guy much easier.
It depends on the girls....I have had girls that gropes me while dancing as the indicator.
Some girl find it is fun to flirt guys that are attached. My gf best friend have asked me one night....what do I think of her breasts after she show me a face full of it in a low cut spaghetti strap dress?she then asked me, if I find her attractive & would I date her if the situation is different. And, the best friend asked me to be her date at a wedding in another city & share a room with her at a hotel?I maybe slow but to me that is more than just flirt?it is border line propositioning.
Girl flirts with guys because they love to watch them squirm, and they also love to piss off the competitions & love to get guys in trouble with the jealous girlfriend.
Must be rough being a guy sometimes, cheapbidder01... I do what I can to make it a little easier for you guys.
I think I scared off the guy, though... maybe I was too aggressive (if hand on the leg = aggressive). He hasn't called or e-mailed, and we met on Saturday... oh well. If he calls, great, if he doesn't, I think I'll live... Originally posted by: Dezign
Must be rough being a guy sometimes, cheapbidder01... I do what I can to make it a little easier for you guys.
Don't worry, he probably just put your number away for a slow day. If you like him, chances are, lots of girls do too. You'll just have to wait in line till its your turn.
Or you could flirt around with some of us ATOT nerds till then.
Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Must be rough being a guy sometimes, cheapbidder01... I do what I can to make it a little easier for you guys.
Don't worry, he probably just put your number away for a slow day. If you like him, chances are, lots of girls do too. You'll just have to wait in line till its your turn.
Or you could flirt around with some of us ATOT nerds till then.
Bah, I'm way too impatient to wait around to be summoned on a slow day... :lips: He said I was the first girl he'd dated in LA, and if I have to take a number I'd rather just be his friend. I prefer things up front and honest, no games... I'm too old for that. If you're interested, let me know. If not, that's cool, I'll be on my way. It's way too soon to think like that, though... I'll give him until Wednesday.
As for flirting with ATOT-ers, it's kinda hard to touch legs and stuff through a computer screen.
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Must be rough being a guy sometimes, cheapbidder01... I do what I can to make it a little easier for you guys.
Don't worry, he probably just put your number away for a slow day. If you like him, chances are, lots of girls do too. You'll just have to wait in line till its your turn.
Or you could flirt around with some of us ATOT nerds till then.
Bah, I'm way too impatient to wait around to be summoned on a slow day... :lips: He said I was the first girl he'd dated in LA, and if I have to take a number I'd rather just be his friend. I prefer things up front and honest, no games... I'm too old for that. If you're interested, let me know. If not, that's cool, I'll be on my way. It's way too soon to think like that, though... I'll give him until Wednesday.
As for flirting with ATOT-ers, it's kinda hard to touch legs and stuff through a computer screen.
Good luck then. Wednesday's fast approaching. Hmm, btw, which leg did you touch exactly.
I wouldn't think it was too agressive, but some guys might.Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Must be rough being a guy sometimes, cheapbidder01... I do what I can to make it a little easier for you guys.
Don't worry, he probably just put your number away for a slow day. If you like him, chances are, lots of girls do too. You'll just have to wait in line till its your turn.
Or you could flirt around with some of us ATOT nerds till then.
Bah, I'm way too impatient to wait around to be summoned on a slow day... :lips: He said I was the first girl he'd dated in LA, and if I have to take a number I'd rather just be his friend. I prefer things up front and honest, no games... I'm too old for that. If you're interested, let me know. If not, that's cool, I'll be on my way. It's way too soon to think like that, though... I'll give him until Wednesday.
As for flirting with ATOT-ers, it's kinda hard to touch legs and stuff through a computer screen.
Good luck then. Wednesday's fast approaching. Hmm, btw, which leg did you touch exactly.
I know... we'll have to wait and see. When we took a break from dancing, I sat on his left side and touched his left leg... just grazed it a few times with my fingers while we were talking/I was making a point/etc. He's a self-proclaimed good boy, I just hope the mention of cuffs didn't scare him away...
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Must be rough being a guy sometimes, cheapbidder01... I do what I can to make it a little easier for you guys.
Don't worry, he probably just put your number away for a slow day. If you like him, chances are, lots of girls do too. You'll just have to wait in line till its your turn.
Or you could flirt around with some of us ATOT nerds till then.
Bah, I'm way too impatient to wait around to be summoned on a slow day... :lips: He said I was the first girl he'd dated in LA, and if I have to take a number I'd rather just be his friend. I prefer things up front and honest, no games... I'm too old for that. If you're interested, let me know. If not, that's cool, I'll be on my way. It's way too soon to think like that, though... I'll give him until Wednesday.
As for flirting with ATOT-ers, it's kinda hard to touch legs and stuff through a computer screen.
Good luck then. Wednesday's fast approaching. Hmm, btw, which leg did you touch exactly.
I know... we'll have to wait and see. When we took a break from dancing, I sat on his left side and touched his left leg... just grazed it a few times with my fingers while we were talking/I was making a point/etc. He's a self-proclaimed good boy, I just hope the mention of cuffs didn't scare him away...
Yup, he's definitely a good boy. You should just consider him a friend. Had it been me, I would've moved your hand to the next leg.
but, probably wouldn't have been me anyway cuz I don't dance. two left legs an one right one makes it hard to dance.OR they act like that to everyone because they are warm people and you are projecting your pent up sexual frustrations on them?
Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: cheapbidder01
Originally posted by: Dezign
Must be rough being a guy sometimes, cheapbidder01... I do what I can to make it a little easier for you guys.
Don't worry, he probably just put your number away for a slow day. If you like him, chances are, lots of girls do too. You'll just have to wait in line till its your turn.
Or you could flirt around with some of us ATOT nerds till then.
Bah, I'm way too impatient to wait around to be summoned on a slow day... :lips: He said I was the first girl he'd dated in LA, and if I have to take a number I'd rather just be his friend. I prefer things up front and honest, no games... I'm too old for that. If you're interested, let me know. If not, that's cool, I'll be on my way. It's way too soon to think like that, though... I'll give him until Wednesday.
As for flirting with ATOT-ers, it's kinda hard to touch legs and stuff through a computer screen.
Good luck then. Wednesday's fast approaching. Hmm, btw, which leg did you touch exactly.
I know... we'll have to wait and see. When we took a break from dancing, I sat on his left side and touched his left leg... just grazed it a few times with my fingers while we were talking/I was making a point/etc. He's a self-proclaimed good boy, I just hope the mention of cuffs didn't scare him away...
Yup, he's definitely a good boy. You should just consider him a friend. Had it been me, I would've moved your hand to the next leg.
New friend works for me, too. Maybe I'll hook him up with my friend Kat... 2 more days until Wed!
Dancing isn't an absolute necessity, but it can be a turn-on (basic primal mating-ritual instincts, I suppose).
Hadn't been for the fact that I tutor so many people in computer classes (that I never took), I wouldn't have as many connections with the female half of the population. From what I've noticed, girls are more secure about their short-comings to the extent of seeking help, but guys either know what they're doing or suffer through it. (We're just too damn competitive.) I'm sure that's a limited interpretation, but those happen to be the facts for my situation.
**CONFIRMED**
This has been in the back of my mind since this thread started. Ever since 10th grade, when a friend decided the best way to express her affection was to wait until I was surrounded by other semi-friends and proclaim "I love you" in a dramatic and rather loud voice, I've lived in fear of this squirm power. Girls my age are obviously more sophisticated about making guys squirm, but it's apparently still quite a sport. I never know how to get out of the overt, public suggestions alive (especially if in the presense of a SO).
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