Why is it that girls flirt with every single guy they come accross?

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skywalker66

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I mean serious, it's so frickin hard to figure out with girls whether one of them likes you or not, or whether you could have a chance with one or not.

I mean they are so warm and friendly to every person that they talk to (like where you cant tell the difference between person to person) that its like they hardly leave any room to give off cues that they might be interested in you. Cues that are needed, if u ever had a hope of getting with a girl.

do they just want attention?
does flirting mean anything?


and what are some good signs of flirting. Like if I girl winks at you while shes talking what are the odds that was intentional?
And like if a girl touches you, like on the shoulder or something while talking to you, and she doesnt that a fair amount, is that really a good sign at all?

are there any other good signs of interest?
 
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PanzerIV

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
I mean serious, it's so frickin hard to figure out with girls whether one of them likes you or not, or whether you could have a chance with one or not.

I mean they are so warm and friendly to every person that they talk to (like where you cant tell the difference between person to person) that its like they hardly leave any room to give off cues that they might be interested in you. Cues that are needed, if u ever had a hope of getting with a girl.

do they just want attention?
does flirting mean anything?


and what are some good signs of flirting. Like if I girl winks at you while shes talking what are the odds that was intentional?
And like if a girl touches you, like on the shoulder or something while talking to you, and she doesnt that a fair amount, is that really a good sign at all?


are there any other good signs of interest?
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Pick up a book on body language. It might give you some hints on unspoken cues and signals given by women. Plus probably would make an interesting read.

 
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kevinthenerd

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The arm thing is a good sign, in my experience.

The eye thing is probably less meaningful. I would recommend paying attention to those signs that have to do with physical touch.
 
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DurocShark

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Originally posted by: NogginBoink
Probably for the same reasons that I flirt with every girl I come across.
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I flirt, I get flirted with... All good. I'm married, so it's possible they consider me safe too...
 
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Rainsford

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Usually I have found that girls who flirt with every guy are either just really friendly people who are flirty in nature, or (more likely), they just want attention from the opposite sex. Watch how they treat other girls, if they are friendly with them as well, chances are they are just friendly in nature. But if it's only the guys they pay attention to and they are cold towards other girls, they are just looking for attention from the opposite sex. This is usually a bad sign because it points to some insecurity about themselves that they want to "fix" by proving that they can draw the attention of the opposite sex. Not exactly my kind of girl...

A good sign of interest is that she treats you "better" than most guys. This is pretty obvious, but it always bears repeating. A good rule of thumb is watch how she acts towards other guys. Then pay attention to how she acts towards you. If she's interested, you'll notice the difference. This obviously works for girls as well, although guys are usually less subtle about it :)

Edit: Another possibility is that they just want some sex and don't care who they get it from, or they have very low standards. Which may or may not be what you are looking for ;)
 
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BlamoHammer

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To make the nerd population think they have a chance so that when women need help with their homework, nerds will come running.
 
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amnesiac

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If you think every single girl you meet is flirting with you then you're probably more desperate than you think.
 
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imported_Tomato

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If a girl winks at you, that's definitely flirting. I don't know any girls who wink at EVERYONE they meet.

I consider myself a pretty friendly/outgoing person, and I treat males and females I meet in an equally friendly manner. Sometimes guys mistake my friendliness for flirtyness, but I'm open and up front in the beginning aboud what I'm interested in... and if it's friendship and friendship only, I make sure he knows that.

On Saturday, I met a sweet guy who I was flirting with... hand on the leg, holding hands in a club, etc. I definitely don't do that with every guy I meet, and he was the first I've flirted with in quite some time now...
 
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Nyical

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
I mean serious, it's so frickin hard to figure out with girls whether one of them likes you or not, or whether you could have a chance with one or not.

I mean they are so warm and friendly to every person that they talk to (like where you cant tell the difference between person to person) that its like they hardly leave any room to give off cues that they might be interested in you. Cues that are needed, if u ever had a hope of getting with a girl.

do they just want attention?
does flirting mean anything?


and what are some good signs of flirting. Like if I girl winks at you while shes talking what are the odds that was intentional?
And like if a girl touches you, like on the shoulder or something while talking to you, and she doesnt that a fair amount, is that really a good sign at all?

are there any other good signs of interest?
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Well casual touching is always a good sign, but if they just plain reach out and grab your balls
then all bets are off ;)

 
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Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Yeah, why can't they flirt with us married guys as well?? :(
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I sort of have the opposite problem. Some married women have told me that they think I'm cute and they flirt with me. It seems like all the good ones that are interested in me are taken.

 
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alkemyst

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most guys misread flirting (and a lot of guys are just as guilty of flirting all the time too)....

It's being nice/non-serious flirting if she taps your shoulder, scruffs your hair, laughs at your joke, or wants to actually talk to you....

It's serious flirting if she is holding your hand or esp hand on your upper leg, embraces you for a while (not a quick hug), starts giving you pecks on the cheek and you are a new friend and other new friends arent getting them, sits on you, etc (some get into grey areas, so you should be shooting for 3 good signs ;))


 
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alkemyst

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i am married now, and about 15lbs overweight and still get flirted with....my wife understands and her comment is always 'those girls are so stupid, I should warn them' :)

hhehe
 
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sillymofo

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
I mean serious, it's so frickin hard to figure out with girls whether one of them likes you or not, or whether you could have a chance with one or not.

and what are some good signs of flirting. Like if I girl winks at you while shes talking what are the odds that was intentional?
And like if a girl touches you, like on the shoulder or something while talking to you, and she doesnt that a fair amount, is that really a good sign at all?

are there any other good signs of interest?
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If they're winking at ya while talking to ya and touching your honkhonk at the same time, then it's a definite good sign :D
 
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PanzerIV

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Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
Originally posted by: skywalker66
I mean serious, it's so frickin hard to figure out with girls whether one of them likes you or not, or whether you could have a chance with one or not.

and what are some good signs of flirting. Like if I girl winks at you while shes talking what are the odds that was intentional?
And like if a girl touches you, like on the shoulder or something while talking to you, and she doesnt that a fair amount, is that really a good sign at all?

are there any other good signs of interest?
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If they're winking at ya while talking to ya and touching your honkhonk at the same time, then it's a definite good sign :D
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But are you 100% sure on that? Is there anything else he should be looking for? :p
 
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amcdonald

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girls who are overly flirtatious are either
a) still in high school (physically or mentally)
b) whores
c) sexually abused
d) all of the above

That being said, most guys think that because a girl talks to them and makes eye contact, she wants to tear his pants off.
For some reason guys really have a hard time telling when they are getting hit on. (myself included sometimes).
 
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