Why doesn't my gf's dad like me? :S

DVad3r

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So Im dating this girl, and I think her dad would love to see me vanish under a ditch somewhere. He's really rude to me every time I see him, sometimes not even responding with a greeting back to me when I say "Hello". He gives me the most evil cut eye in the world and tends to invade our privacy very often when we are at her house.

I don't know why all the hate, Im a really nice guy, I keep it cool with everyone, he should be happy Im with his daughter instead of some jerkoff that just wants a piece of ass. Her mom loves me on the other hand...so why not the dad?

I was thinking about buying him some beer or a bottle of something as a nice gesture, but I don't even feel comfortable doing that since I haven't exchanged more then 1 word with him.

At this point I have kind of given up trying to make myself likeable, Im just gonna play the respectful role of greeting/departing with good manners, because that's all I can do from my side.

To all the dads out there, wouldnt you like want to initiate conversation with your daugheters boyfriend to find out what type of guy he is???

Im trying to think of a reason why he might not like me, so here is some of the stuff I came up with:

Me, his daugheters first boyfriend
Me of Polish background, her Portugese
Him, physical labour grunt, workaholic, hammers ****** together at work/home from dusk till dawn + more, me, I do the "intellectual" jobs lol, I do my "labour" at the gym.

Anything else I am missing? Im kinda lost here, please help :)
 

DVad3r

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Originally posted by: bradruth
He doesn't like you because you're putting the wood to his little girl.

Ya but, eventually someone will put the wood to his little girl. He must get over this.
 

chiwawa626

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Do you really expect him to put on his best "THANKS FOR ****** MY DAUGHTER" grin on every time he sees you?
 

bradruth

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Originally posted by: DVad3r
Originally posted by: bradruth
He doesn't like you because you're putting the wood to his little girl.

Ya but, eventually someone will put the wood to his little girl. He must get over this.

Would you?
 

imported_Tick

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He doesn't like you because he still thinks his daugther is a kid. In other words, he's a jerkwad living is the past. KILL HIM.
 

DVad3r

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Originally posted by: bradruth
Originally posted by: DVad3r
Originally posted by: bradruth
He doesn't like you because you're putting the wood to his little girl.

Ya but, eventually someone will put the wood to his little girl. He must get over this.

Would you?

Yes. If I had a daughter I would have to accept the fact that she's a woman and will follow the cycle of meeting a guy sooner or later. At least I would talk to the guy she was dating and then make my decision from there, is this guy alright or do I need to break his legs.
 

Journer

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maybe he is gay and jealous? go on a double date w/ u/her and her rents...since mom likes you there will be much to talk about and dad will have no choice but to listen...

some advice:

never close the door of the room u/her in at the same time
never try to sneak around or any of that bs
dont call late at night
get ur rents to know hers...

should help...
 

jagec

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Because you're boning his little princess.

Dads get awfully protective of their daughters.
 

DVad3r

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Originally posted by: Journer
maybe he is gay and jealous? go on a double date w/ u/her and her rents...since mom likes you there will be much to talk about and dad will have no choice but to listen...

some advice:

never close the door of the room u/her in at the same time
never try to sneak around or any of that bs
dont call late at night
get ur rents to know hers...

should help...

Hmm yes the double date idea is pretty good. Her parents go to alot of these banquet hall eating sessions, if I got invited to come that would be perfect. As for my rents getting to know hers, maybe the moms would click, but my dad would like have nothingggg in common with hers. I don't think I have anything in common either, which makes actual conversation to be a pain once he is ready to initiate something.
 

Journer

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Originally posted by: OdiN
Originally posted by: Journer
go on a double date w/ u/her and her rents.

Worst.....idea....EVAR!

it depends on your motives....if all you want is ass...well...****** even IF all you want is ass...its a good idea...they trust you more, she trusts you more...in turn you can get more 'intimate' with her and have a good relationship....OR you can get more 'intimate' and have a happy dick then make up some BS when the sex is no good and loose her ;) ...serriously...good ****** idea, lol
 

Journer

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its not stupid to be protective for your children...however, being overprotective and not even talking to their current 'significant' other is ****** retarded
 

OdiN

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Originally posted by: Journer
Originally posted by: OdiN
Originally posted by: Journer
go on a double date w/ u/her and her rents.

Worst.....idea....EVAR!

it depends on your motives....if all you want is ass...well...****** even IF all you want is ass...its a good idea...they trust you more, she trusts you more...in turn you can get more 'intimate' with her and have a good relationship....OR you can get more 'intimate' and have a happy dick then make up some BS when the sex is no good and loose her ;) ...serriously...good ****** idea, lol

No....bad idea.

Now if they do a bbq at thier house and invite you or something, that's different. Or if you are invited to family functions.